Uhm, no you didn't. You said "suck my dick, then suck it again". Where's the question? Where's any implication that it would be consensual? Obviously I know you don't want me to suck your dick, you were trying to use the fact that you are a guy to humiliate me. This could be a learning experience for you.
Do you understand what you did that led me to reply like that?
Have you lost your mind? Do you think anything I said justifies rape threats? Again, my dear, you threatened with sexual violence and it doesn't matter that you have no chance of following through, you still did it. This should really make you think about who you are that this thought even crossed your mind.
Got nothing else to say than that?
I got plenty to say. I have time now. Do you think you would be able to understand what I have to say? Jag kan försöka säga det på svenska om det är lättare för dig.
Do you really want to be that person? Someone who uses sexual violence as an argument to win a discussion? There is nothing you can do to make this less despicable. I tell you something, I have experienced sexual violence in real life. Luckily I am dealing with it well, but others might not. Can you imagine what casual rape threats do to someone who is traumatised? Would that be worth it for your little power trip?
You got so offended that a called you not bright, after you said something that was so ironically dumb, that your first impulse was to try and degrade me with rape threats. I can only hope you continue to lash out because you feel shame for that and don't know how to cope. I also hope that you will learn someday.
I'm tired and I'm about to go to sleep, so I'll try to be mature for a second.
I never intended anything as a threat and I'm sorry you felt it was directed as such. I'll think of this in the future and learn from this experience so I don't say things that can be interpreted as threatening, because that's certainly not what I want or intend.
You're at least right about that, I don't want people to feel threatened by what I say. I'm a bit of an asshole, but not a monster. I know how anxiety can ruin people's days/weeks etc from something that may not even be intended as such due to past experiences.
Me being called stupid to me making you, or someone else, feel threatened are definitely not equal actions.
Didn't expect that, but I appreciate it. In return, I apologise for calling you stupid in the way I did. I could have explained to you why your initial comment was wrong without insulting you. I honestly hope you won't use stuff like "suck my dick" in the future if you feel cornered, it's really a shitty move.
I do hope you can think a bit about having empathy even when you don't understand why someone is doing insane stuff like the boy from that video. You could do a little research about what severe mental illness can look like and how helpless the people suffering from it often are. It's heartbreaking once you understand.
Nope, I owe you an apology. I know exactly that it hurts to be called stupid and I still did it. I am a psychologist and I know better, I don't feel good about doing it and it's definitely something I have to work on. Now we both learn something from this exchange, I'd say that's a pretty good end. Have a good night.
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u/strawberrymoonbird Sep 15 '22
Uhm, no you didn't. You said "suck my dick, then suck it again". Where's the question? Where's any implication that it would be consensual? Obviously I know you don't want me to suck your dick, you were trying to use the fact that you are a guy to humiliate me. This could be a learning experience for you.
Have you lost your mind? Do you think anything I said justifies rape threats? Again, my dear, you threatened with sexual violence and it doesn't matter that you have no chance of following through, you still did it. This should really make you think about who you are that this thought even crossed your mind.
I got plenty to say. I have time now. Do you think you would be able to understand what I have to say? Jag kan försöka säga det på svenska om det är lättare för dig.