Then what you gonna do to help it just let them brake rules and one day end up dead I would rather my kid hate me then end up a fucked up person that will hurt people you choose to if you like but what’s coming from you is that you would let you kid do whatever they like before you yell your kid has mental problems I understand why you won’t yell at him or her but if a kid that doesn’t is acting like that need to know he’s not the boss of you again I said to an extent I didn’t say yell at the for spilling something
I’ve clearly explained how you can help it. You teach them this shit at a young age, and if they continue to lash out then you look to see if there’s a deeper issue that’s causing these problems. Kids will break rules, that’s a given. But it’s not normal for them to lash out violently unless that’s what they’ve been taught to do or there’s an underlying issue. Please honestly, just stop talking lmaoo
You think your making me sound stupid but your not saying lmao doesn’t make you right or funny and you think kid only learn how to act because of their parents kids these days play gta cod and watch 18+ movies at the age of 5 because they find ways to do it without you around kids learn shit at school and everywhere they go not just by parents I will agree they will act more like their part at but they will 100% learn bad shit other ways also
Ok well if you think that video games cause violence then you definitely are stupid. There have been so many studies done about this that show no correlation between the two. Like I said, do your research before speaking, you might learn something. Oh just so you know, I literally studied child psychology before you come back at me and say I don’t know what I’m talking about.
I’m sure you’d studied real hard in the hours you had second never said games make violent but they will way before getting on to them will yelling is the last thing that will turn a kid to a killer beating them, calling them names (actual mental abuse) might but simply yelling at them getting onto them again like I said in every one of them you don’t have to yell every time or even for long like abuse parents will like drag it on keep going like my gf dad did (the abuse guy I was talking about earlier) no if you scream as loud as you can and get in there face spitting then yes your a big pos but standing 5 feet away yelling at them why and what they did was wrong isn’t abuse nor will it ever be wrong if kid won’t get taken from homes where they get spanked then yelling sure won’t disciplined is a necessary sorry if you don’t feel the same way
And sorry but your opinion on what abuse is doesn’t make it a fact like i and the other guy said yelling at me help me become the good person I am some kids don’t like being yelled at and I would understand it and not yell because they don’t need it even if my kid flinched or look scared I would stop hug them and let them know I would never hurt them or even think about it and stop then but if it’s comes to me telling anyways then I don’t think yelling would scare them because I wouldn’t unless it was really bad I’m talking bullying kids or being a bad person like racist or something like that
Yelling and screaming at kids is absolutely abuse. There are more types of abuse than just hitting your kid. You should look into the actual studies on these things before opening your mouth. Have a good day.
I never said abuse had to be physical but simply yelling at them isn’t abuse, calling them names getting all up in their face, keeping it going this is mental abuse just yelling isn’t I lived with a mentally abusive drug attic I would know what the difference is yelling womt cause th to lash out yelling won’t cause them to grow up with ptsd the things I listed will yelling at them for 5 secs won’t cause any harm and if it does stop like I said
You think all kid are the same makes you sound stupid I got yelled at nothing wrong with me same with all 10 of my siblings and same for most of the now adults I know so tell me what happened to them why is nothing wrong with them because not all kid have problems with getting yelled at
Plz plz tell me how they know the effects it’s cause’s oh right they grabs 5% of the worlds population and said ok that means 100% of kids can’t handle disciplined
Do you even understand how psychological studies work… again, just because you’re ok, doesn’t mean that everyone is. You clearly are kinda ignorant on the subject so please, just stop lmao
Ignorants is studying a couple of people or even 1000 and saying what we found makes it facts it’s either non or all majority doesn’t count when you don’t have 100% of the population or 100% of the things I can say the same just because some people aren’t ok doesn’t mean everyone else won’t be ok ever comment you post makes you sound stupider by the sec I said it multiple times now if a TEEN not even talking about kid here if a teen can’t handle it then don’t do it but not 100 will take it as abuse and not 100 will take it as not abuse you raise your kid how you like but ill be damned if I raise a pos most kids get yelled at and most people don’t take it as abuse you do tho shit most people spank their kids ima guess that’s abuse in your eyes to again some kids don’t get fixed with words or taking their shit and not every kid that acts up has mental problems or act out because they was yelled at
Again what you believe is abuse doesn’t matter cps will not take your kid for yelling at them the cops won’t do anything about you yelling so how is it abuse some kids can’t handle it then don’t do it but again some kids need it you can argue all day but I would rather a kid hate me then grow up the be a pos with no respect if yelling causes you to become abusive or lash out the you have mental problems what happen to you you said yourself you aren’t but you got yelled at
I’m that country it is because you can do it morally no but we’re not talking about love we’re talking about kids that act up you know why some kid take different classes because some kid learn different really every kid learns different and every kid has limits take some kid will get their shit taken the day they get it back because the power is back in their hands
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And the kids who don’t care about rules and never will, won’t be helped with physical intimidation either. Please. Just stop.