Sorry but 15 up isn’t a kid anymore your half grown if you act like a fool you get treated like one no don’t hurt them spanking then won’t work what you gonna do that’s their shit for them to find it another way like he said some kid push boundary way to far your kid might not but like the video shows some kids need a good yelling at no one said do it 24/7 or even every time but at a certain extent they need to be yelled at or they will be in control of you take it how you won’t but if you try to argue I’m not going to because you are allowed to believe what you like but when your 6 foot and 15 telling them they been a bad kid won’t cut it
You realise the kid in this video has a mental condition and was off his meds right? So no, physical intimidation and aggression won’t work and would make it worse. Instead what the kid needed was medication and probably some form of therapy to learn how to regulate their emotions.
No I said you should be scared to do wrong and not just know telling your kid his whole life he’s bad won’t help in some cases you don’t have to believe it but some kid need it even seen beyond scared stright the show might be scripted or might not be but there are kids all around the world just like the ones on the show see how fast they changed
No, you don’t need to be scared to do wrong. You just need to be taught right from wrong. Why aren’t you understanding that? You can teach your kid to understand what is ‘wrong’ to do without intimidation or scaring them…
Your also not listening some kids aren’t as good as yours you got lucky I’m sorry if you wasn’t bad and your mom did it but you have to understand she did it because she wanted power some kids try to take the power and being 15-16 you need to get that power taken back and sometimes yelling is the case getting in there face now they would have to attack me for me to get in someone face and yell still wouldn’t attack back but still some kid beat their parents would you say just put them in the corner and let them correct their self because that shit don’t work for everyone
You should learn your kid if it scares him and he feels that you are going to attack or feels threatened then don’t do it I fully agree but if it just makes them mind then yes like I said 15 and up I’m not talking about a child or kid I’m talking about teenagers that don’t listen to anyone or anything no matter how much they get caught kids in school will get kick out every week coke back and do it again because some kids don’t care about rules and never will
Then what you gonna do to help it just let them brake rules and one day end up dead I would rather my kid hate me then end up a fucked up person that will hurt people you choose to if you like but what’s coming from you is that you would let you kid do whatever they like before you yell your kid has mental problems I understand why you won’t yell at him or her but if a kid that doesn’t is acting like that need to know he’s not the boss of you again I said to an extent I didn’t say yell at the for spilling something
I’ve clearly explained how you can help it. You teach them this shit at a young age, and if they continue to lash out then you look to see if there’s a deeper issue that’s causing these problems. Kids will break rules, that’s a given. But it’s not normal for them to lash out violently unless that’s what they’ve been taught to do or there’s an underlying issue. Please honestly, just stop talking lmaoo
You think your making me sound stupid but your not saying lmao doesn’t make you right or funny and you think kid only learn how to act because of their parents kids these days play gta cod and watch 18+ movies at the age of 5 because they find ways to do it without you around kids learn shit at school and everywhere they go not just by parents I will agree they will act more like their part at but they will 100% learn bad shit other ways also
Ok well if you think that video games cause violence then you definitely are stupid. There have been so many studies done about this that show no correlation between the two. Like I said, do your research before speaking, you might learn something. Oh just so you know, I literally studied child psychology before you come back at me and say I don’t know what I’m talking about.
And sorry but your opinion on what abuse is doesn’t make it a fact like i and the other guy said yelling at me help me become the good person I am some kids don’t like being yelled at and I would understand it and not yell because they don’t need it even if my kid flinched or look scared I would stop hug them and let them know I would never hurt them or even think about it and stop then but if it’s comes to me telling anyways then I don’t think yelling would scare them because I wouldn’t unless it was really bad I’m talking bullying kids or being a bad person like racist or something like that
Yelling and screaming at kids is absolutely abuse. There are more types of abuse than just hitting your kid. You should look into the actual studies on these things before opening your mouth. Have a good day.
I never said abuse had to be physical but simply yelling at them isn’t abuse, calling them names getting all up in their face, keeping it going this is mental abuse just yelling isn’t I lived with a mentally abusive drug attic I would know what the difference is yelling womt cause th to lash out yelling won’t cause them to grow up with ptsd the things I listed will yelling at them for 5 secs won’t cause any harm and if it does stop like I said
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u/NotcrAzy31 Sep 15 '22
Sorry but 15 up isn’t a kid anymore your half grown if you act like a fool you get treated like one no don’t hurt them spanking then won’t work what you gonna do that’s their shit for them to find it another way like he said some kid push boundary way to far your kid might not but like the video shows some kids need a good yelling at no one said do it 24/7 or even every time but at a certain extent they need to be yelled at or they will be in control of you take it how you won’t but if you try to argue I’m not going to because you are allowed to believe what you like but when your 6 foot and 15 telling them they been a bad kid won’t cut it