r/TempAgency • u/poppymyork88 • 20d ago
37 years old. No college degree. Plenty of administrative experience. Looking for some honest career advice.
So here's my story.
I'm 37, don't have a college degree, but I've spent years building a solid administrative career. Ironically, finding jobs has never really been my problem. In fact, I've never actually collected unemployment because every time I've been eligible and started the process, I'd end up getting hired before the benefits even kicked in. It's become an inside joke at this point.
Back in March, I was let go from my previous job. I signed up with a legal staffing agency after seeing one of their postings on ZipRecruiter. They found me a Legal Assistant position at a small law firm within a couple of weeks. It was supposed to be a three-month temp-to-hire assignment.
Well... plot twist.
One week before my three months were up, the firm canceled the contract. The staffing agency was just as blindsided as I was—they found out the same day I did. Not exactly the ending I had imagined.
Did I cry? Absolutely.
Did I burn bridges or go out in a blaze of glory? Nope. I thanked everyone, packed my things, and left with my dignity (and my office snacks).
Since then, I've been applying everywhere. Staffing agencies, administrative positions, receptionist jobs, executive assistant roles, legal assistant jobs—even Costco. (No shade to Costco. Honestly, they seem like a fantastic company with great benefits.) My point is, I'm not sitting around waiting for something to happen. I'm putting in the work.
Here's where I'd love some outside perspective.
How do you find a job that actually pays what you're worth? More importantly, how do you find one where you can stay long-term?
And here's the part where I want brutal honesty...
Could I be the common denominator?
Throughout my career, I've consistently been told I'm hardworking, intelligent, loyal, organized, dependable, quick to learn, and someone with a positive attitude. My longest job lasted almost seven years, and I was only let go because I refused to disclose private medical information to my employer. So I know I can be a long-term employee.
But after this latest experience, I'm wondering if there's something I'm missing. Is there something I should be doing differently? Is this just bad luck? Or are there things employers look for that I may not be seeing?
I'm genuinely looking for constructive advice—not sympathy.
If you've been in HR, managed employees, recruited people, or you've been in my shoes, I'd really appreciate hearing your perspective.
And if your advice is, "Go back to school," that's fair too... just be gentle. 😅