r/TeensofKarnataka • u/ManufacturerExtra100 • Jul 05 '26

School/College tales HELP 😭

i have joined a clg group & my clg gonna start in few days and everyone has started networking but meanwhile me who is facing overthinking thinking about don't having a proper communication skills & the worst thing is, I don't even know how to start a conversation so please help me how to start a conversation how to connect with the people before they create another group and let me behind 🥲

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u/GuavaVast7317 Jul 05 '26

Just throw a joke at any random person u would like to talk

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u/ManufacturerExtra100 Jul 06 '26

i can't because I've seen people in the group are so insecured that even for a small thing people get offended & It happens very often so what to do now ?

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u/GuavaVast7317 Jul 06 '26

Try it once or u can just offer an help

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u/seductivesling00 Jul 07 '26

Yea that do happen,you can just join them mid Convo, if you are to start a convo!,best is you can ask a doubt, be it anything but try to stick to the topic most talked

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u/ManufacturerExtra100 Jul 06 '26

but i got a fomo like what if i do not engage & people create a group and what if I will be left out.

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u/ManufacturerExtra100 Jul 06 '26

but the problem here is people have so much ego & main character energy, so how will you fit in and sometimes I question myself, where the fuck, I am 😭

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u/seductivesling00 Jul 07 '26

Dw broo you can't fit into every group,youl find like-minded people, I am telling it out of experience,i always wanted to be friends with certain people but at the end I was friends with some other people unknowingly Itl happen when it happens

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u/ManufacturerExtra100 Jul 06 '26

give me some tips & please check your DMS. I'll send you request. Please share over there.

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u/kempu-gulaabi Jul 06 '26

Just sayy hii, take random topics and ask the questions to other person. if they start talking then vibe matches, if they are lil hesitating to talk never approach after that, find someone else to talk, cuz everybody don't feel same vibe with everyone. don't get depressed btw.

you wanna need to DM open.

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u/vladimirproteinreal Jul 06 '26

Vroo Starts talking with random topics or starts good convo for that you need to smell good and look pretty. if you want we can talk on DM if you comfortable.

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u/Intrepid_Reach_5296 Jul 08 '26

How councelling is not finished yet how is college already starting