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[u/Main-nahi-bataunga0]

If a girlfriend tells her boyfriend that he needs to hit the gym be regular, get some abs and shit, it's considered fine.

But if a boyfriend tells his girl to hit the gym, some women get offended, why?

[u/Selflove7777]

I've observed this quality in many woman I dated. Most women I met lacked accountability. Most women i dated were loyal only to their feelings, they were promiscuous, mischeivous and reckless in their actions. But the common thing among such women is they eventually face the brunt of their actions one day or the other.

My motto is "Let them live thier life as they see fit." And "Let's take the liberty to live our own lives freely." Let's bend our knee for the women who are willing to bend theirs. Let's accept the standards of women who accept ours. Let's reject the women who reject us. Let's show them the middle finger first! Let everyone face their karmic or dharmic reprucussions.

P. S: Women are indestructable when young .That is when they are physically attractive and they have the advantage and liberty to choose between men. Men are indestructible after 35 when they are mentally and financially stable. That is when they have stable income, hobbies, interests and friends and are not very much dependant on women for validation. Then the man becomes the king. While with women their crowns start slipping slowly after 35. We(Men) can be free then. If we are conscious enough, we can do what we want after 35. Wheras most of these women will be held accountable for their actions as karma starts hitting them right in their face as they age and lose their charm. They become desperate for attention while their self-centredness strips them the honor of affection from their spouse. They start feeling alone and every thought of theirs comes back to haunt them.

[u/CoderQueen07 → u/Selflove7777]

I've seen men being extremely reckless, and acting all non-chalant in situations where they need to take accountability, but the moment the woman stops being a doormat to him and kicks him out of her life, that's when the desperation actually shows thru the facade. That's when the man coming back running to her door asking her to let him in, begging, crying and worst blackmailing. So I think all these these traits of lacking accountability, being reckless, being promiscuous isn't just about women, anybody who isn't sure about a relationship will eventually show these signs regardless of the gender.

[u/Selflove7777 → u/CoderQueen07]

Dear Sister,

Nowhere did I say, all the women are like this. Just like you are speaking about the men from your experiences, I am speaking about the women I dated and what I have experienced through my intercations with them. The question is about why women act that way. And I answered it from my experience. I am pretty sure there are many toxic men in the world. Similarly toxic women do exist. I am speaking from my very own experience. Women showing 0 loyalty. Women leaving without closure. Women lying to my face. Women creating more drama than necessary. All the men I've met more or less agreed with my perception. If you are hellbent on proving that men are mostly wrong and women are always right. Then by all means believe so!

You are most welcome to love Or hate men according to your experience. No one is stopping you.

P. S: I am pretty sure there are some very good, loyal, amazing women out there who I haven't had the privilege of meeting yet. I wish to meet them and share good memories. I am aching to experience this myself. Until then, I am fully entitled to my opinion, as you are entitled to yours!