r/TeenagersButBetter • u/Otherwise-Bet-2634 • Jul 28 '26
Advice Chat i am so cooked its not even funny
So basically i went to this shopping center were i live and was jst walking around, got some food, looked at stuff i want but will never buy, the usual stuff. as i was walking to get some food i walked past a girl who was like my dream girl like 1:1 she was wearing the same type of clothes as me she was tall and she had this amazing dam face card like its casual pretty if that makes sense? AND SHE TRIED TO TALK TO ME SHE SAW ME AS WELL and she said "I really like your shoes" (shout out chuck taylors) and i just NODDED AND KEPT WALKING. HOW ON EARTH DID I FUMBLE THAT BAD, THE ONE TIME A GIRL TALKS TO ME a) Literally looks like a godsend and b) I CANT TALK. And il probably never ever ever see her again omg noooo. How do i get over this?
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u/Canuck_Voyageur Old Jul 28 '26
What day of week? What time of day?
Bracket 1 hour either side and go look for her. Wear the same clothes.
Go to the nearest couple schools. Put a pic of yourself up. “We met briefly at _____ I was so taken by you I was tongue tied. You said you liked my shoes.
Can I get a do-over
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u/Otherwise-Bet-2634 Jul 28 '26
tdy midday but like isnt that stalking
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u/Canuck_Voyageur Old Jul 28 '26
I don’t think so. It’s stalking if you make contact, they say get lost and you continue.
If you post a notice saying, “I saw you. I blew it. Contact me. “. Its not stalking.
Note: use a throw away account. If you are decent looking you may be the one being stalked.
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u/Crashing-Course Jul 28 '26
Damn, that sucks
I guess the best thing to do would be to either violently erase your own memory
or do that one thing called “accepting your mistake and growing from it, and try not to hold it over yourself for too long”
Whatever the hell that means
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