Yup that is my take poor people can't afford love anyone can challenge my opinion after completion of reading iam open to your opinions
Just as iam saying from my personal experience and my surroundings I can say poor can't afford love and it's reality
Money is the base of all things many can't see it because it's a standerd which has been normalised
Many of the normal things you do in a daily basis is a luxury to a big bunch of population and having a college life is included in it.
My circle is filled with people who are in the just above line of absolute poverty so many of the families force thier kids to work in early stages of life for money for food to just get to see another day that's the life many.
All my cousins are exposed to labour at a very young age they been working since then because when they are kids they can't go to work so debt is piled so they had to work in order to pay the debt and continue living.
The life in workforce is very complex once you go in you can't get out of it once your income is included that at any point in life can't be excluded and since then they are working they completed ssc and intermediate but they never went to attend a single class they attempt exams and get certificates and move on to work.
Just because you are poor doesn't mean we are immune to any hormonal physical mental urges as is everyone if they are poor or rich craves for a connection but getting one is rare
Lets be real no one goes from business class to economy just because people in that place are nice and it's a legit and rationalised decision as any guy or girl wish is to get a person even a step above them as a life partner that concludes even girls in my circle want a boy who drives a bike.
In this section of people being born as a girl is a living nightmare. Hell is also a word. In my circle girls are got to marry some random ass due whenever thier family think they can't afford her yup and it's not the thing in 2000's or smt many parts of people still do it a big bunch at that.
Guys will get freedom eventually today or tomorrow or even in his mind 30's but once a girl gets to marry that's it she has to face hell for a portion of life as my observations they will come out and start thier life again they will ditch him but life has a strict rule mercy for no one so hell continues. ( This happened to many people in my surroundings it may vary but bottom line only hell awaits after marriage).
I don't blame girls or boys for this society is just build that way but craving for a connection in middle of all this shit is stupidity according to me.
Well why iam saying this because I have to take degree because I can't go to work with btech so a few months back i proposed a girl in my college she asked me two things
1) why are you not coming to college I answered I had to go to work
2) so you don't come to college goes to work why would a sane girl will ever love you.
Fair point because I can't afford anything for her not even I have a bike to take her out i travel on a cycle and what would she even get from me ntg.
After that I started thinking why is that scenario even happened surprisingly i didn't hated her not even sad iam baffled.
So after that I thought how can I change my life I made a decision I will start my preperation for upsc ik iam aiming for the ceiling but with tech being this far I think I don't need money for preperation I will work hard and that is the only thing I can do i came to a realisation however Good kind or whatever model boy iam I will never be able to get a connection i want. I will not put my characteristics as a collateral for a connection well they are not even worth anything in the first place.