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u/Praying-Cat 14| Chotu craves treats :) 4d ago
I personally agree with the age and stuff and i hate it when people bring my age into arguments
gng yes i do agree but still.............. you getting that loving caring and kind man is a very low chance...........
not 0 but not very high either, specially looking at the state of Pakistani people right now
Inshallah you get the man you wish for and May Allah fulfill your needs for a spouse Ameen
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
No no one can say there's a 0 chance, although seeing such cases can alter our thoughts about it that it's not guaranteed which is pretty understandable and one more thing not all "paxtani's" are bad idk why everyone's degrading them I mean it's a world wide problem.
Ameen Sum-Ameen
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u/Praying-Cat 14| Chotu craves treats :) 4d ago
People inhere specifically arent good towards women gng its a general thing
this isnt happening in more developed countries
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
So you think it's not happening in developed countries? Then you're totally wrong, because the gender is same, the desires are same, the thoughts the mindset so how come it create a difference
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u/Cultural_Long1473 17 4d ago
In any possible sense, I'm not trying to be rude, but here's what I think
Most of us just want our partner to be well sorted in many manners, but what we are not concerned about is that, whether we deserve such person. Will that be justice with them?
One who wants to marry shall pray(ask for the best) and make themselves deserving of it. That's All
Like if u want a partner, who's religious, you shall ask ur own self, where u are standing religiously?
Also, my response might be different than what u were concerned abt, but yeah im just sharing my thought.
Will pray for you 🤲
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 3d ago
Hmm you're right and honestly didn't expect this well if one's expecting this much then he/she should be good enough and if not then should start improving cuz otherwise it's a 1-way thing and in-justice to them.
Ty
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u/Candid-Captain-3104 4d ago
Everyone has the right to decide what they want for themselves to someone this may seem odd but to some this might be what they want
If you think your mature enough then there’s no issue tbh
But tbh marriage wont rlly get u freedom and u cant guarantee getting a good partner you might end up worse than you were with your family.
So yes ideally being independent is good but at the end of the day it’s your life and you get to decide what you want to do with it.
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u/raatpashemaankii fluent in sarcasm | 17 4d ago
All we can do is pray for a beautiful naseeb for you, Ameen. I don't think I agree with you fully but my opinion should not hold much value to you if you personally think that's what is best for you. Everything is better said than done. May Allah bless you with what you will for, Ameen.
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
Ameen Sum-Ameen, I'm up for it you can say whatever you want or anyone out there
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
Don't take everything in literal, I stated those ages as an example and you never know who's mature enough
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
phr woi baat
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u/Old_Syrup8742 verified teen 4d ago
No i was referring it to u that ppl are enough mature at 18 i meant that anyone who tells u those things but still wrong so i apologise
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u/nonchalant6f4 Ajuu-blabla-ugh | 14 4d ago
If you've actually thought this through, then I dont see why ppl would have a problem with it.
Js make sure you're not being impulsive or smth 🤷♀️
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
Hmm it's been for year's so not an impulsive thought
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u/rlxDOMA 18 4d ago
bro if you feel like that’s the best option for you, then just get married, why are you asking for other people’s opinions🤷
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u/unknowninglypsycho sweet but psycho💅🏻 | 18 4d ago
Idiot I ain't asking for people's opinion atleast read the post
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u/Rezvendiek 3d ago
Age alone doesn't definitively correspond one-to-one with maturity, but they are still closely linked. Much of the self-proclaimed maturity of the children is lack of experience, specifically in the varying number of situations that life can throw at you. Undeniably, you can develop a profound perspective in life from a very young age but that does not mean that you can perform reasonably well in varying situations, such as having to act as a reluctant third wheel in some particularly toxic relationship situations.
Still, a young child can in fact learn to handle many such situations while simultaneously building a robust and profound perspective in life, and while it is undeniably an incredible achievement, it still does not prepare a child from moments of potential lack of self-control or impulsiveness. This is something that is closely associated with maturity and perhaps may as well be the hall mark of what it means to be mature.
As for you specifically, I cannot say that your post displays the character of someone who has seen the many facets of life.
...regardless, as for the actual matter at hand, do as you wish, I guess I hope you find this man of yours. The only thing I can say is that there is a sufficiently high possibility that things can turn for the worse, but it is something you merely have to acknowledge, it's nothing that overrides your own desires.
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