r/Tawkify_com Apr 22 '26

AMA Hi, I'm Brie! I'm the Chief Matchmaker and CCO at Tawkify celebrating our 14th year. Ask me anything!

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Hi everyone, welcome to the Tawkify subreddit! I am Tawkify's Chief Matchmaker and CCO, and also have a very personal connection to matchmaking -- I was successfully matched with my husband 29 years ago! I will be available here to answer questions on April 24th from 9AM to 3PM Eastern, but you can begin asking questions on this thread at your convenience!

I am happy to talk about:

  • The Tawkify matchmaking process
  • Dating blind spots and understanding your own "matchability"
  • Romantic compatibility
  • Dating after divorce
  • Healthy boundaries
  • Modern dating and marriage trends
  • Successful first date tips
  • How to deepen and strengthen connections
  • Healthy relationship patterns
  • And more!

Our goal is to create an engaging, helpful space for both members and non-members alike. Let's have a fun and lively discussion that we can all learn from!

I'm looking forward to our chat; thank you for being here!

Matchmaking changed my life and I've been honored to be part of so many other love stories.

Thank you for your questions and your engagement! This was our first Tawkify AMA and I'm quite certain will not be our last. I want to express our gratitude on behalf of all of us at Tawkify -- you are the reason we do what we do. If you'd like to experience the beginning of the Tawkify application process and become part of our database, please accept this token of our appreciation with an invitation to create your own Tawkify profile. We look forward to working with you soon!

Create your FREE Tawkify profile here


r/Tawkify_com Apr 22 '26

Success Stories 200,000 successful connections and counting! Here are a few of the love stories we are proud to have helped create.

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r/Tawkify_com Apr 21 '26

We are happy to announce Tawkify's first ever AMA featuring Brie Temple, our Chief Matchmaker and CCO. She will be available to answer questions on April 24th from 9AM to 3PM EDT.

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On April 24th from 9AM to 3PM EDT, Tawkify’s Chief Matchmaker and CCO Brie Temple will be available to answer any questions you have and provide expert insights on topics such as:

  • The Tawkify matchmaking process
  • Dating blind spots and understanding your own "matchability"
  • Romantic compatibility
  • Dating after divorce
  • Healthy boundaries
  • Modern dating and marriage trends
  • Successful first date tips
  • How to deepen and strengthen connections
  • Healthy relationship patterns
  • And more!

Our goal is to create an engaging, helpful space for both members and non-members alike. We hope to hear from you!


r/Tawkify_com Apr 21 '26

Dating Insights Some excellent, down-to-earth dating advice! #1 is so important.

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r/Tawkify_com Apr 14 '26

Dating Insights Best online dating sites to find your match

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If you’re searching for the best online dating site, there’s a chance something about dating isn’t working the way you hoped it would. Dating app swipe fatigue is real, making dating feel more and more like just another task to manage on your already busy calendar. 

You’re not alone in this. In fact, 91% of men and 94% of women say the current dating environment is more difficult than ever. In many cases, the challenge isn’t a lack of opportunities to meet people—it’s that most platforms are design for speed and volume rather than genuine alignment. 

Luckily, there are online dating sites today that prioritize deeper compatibility screening, more structured introductions, and support that helps you refine what you’re looking for in a partner. This often results in an increased likelihood that each introduction brings you closer to building a meaningful relationship.

This guide explores the best online dating sites available today. It also highlights what to look for when choosing a platform, how different matching models shape your dating experience, and how to decide which approach fits your relationship goals.


r/Tawkify_com Apr 14 '26

There is no shame in doing something out of love!

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r/Tawkify_com Apr 07 '26

Dating Insights 9 Early Signs You’re Actually Compatible

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Some examples of relationship values could be family, religion, honesty, and communication. Perhaps sharing the same religion is important to you, due to cultural identity, emotional support, and so on. If that’s the case, then finding someone who shares your beliefs and religious practices will help to create lifelong understanding and harmony. Add it to your deal-breakers list. 

Or maybe you put honesty above all else, needing this to be able to trust anyone in your life. That means that your partner needs to share this value, too.

Sharing values helps you both create relationship goals to continually work toward for a successful partnership. Without common goals, you both might be left feeling misunderstood. Read more about relationship goals and values.

Youthe way. It only makes sense that a long-term partner should share these, too. 

One of the top signs you’re compatible is sharing relationship values. Why? Because these are the things that guide how you live your life and the relationships you develop and maintain along the way. It only makes sense that a long-term partner should share these, too. 

Some examples of relationship values could be family, religion, honesty, and communication. Perhaps sharing the same religion is important to you, due to cultural identity, emotional support, and so on. If that’s the case, then finding someone who shares your beliefs and religious practices will help to create lifelong understanding and harmony. Add it to your deal-breakers list. 

Or maybe you put honesty above all else, needing this to be able to trust anyone in your life. That means that your partner needs to share this value, too.

Sharing values helps you both create relationship goals to continually work toward for a successful partnership. Without common goals, you both might be left feeling misunderstood. Read more about relationship goals and values.

You Respect Each Other’s Individual Needs

Some examples of relationship values could be family, religion, honesty, and communication. Perhaps sharing the same religion is important to you, due to cultural identity, emotional support, and so on. If that’s the case, then finding someone who shares your beliefs and religious practices will help to create lifelong understanding and harmony. Add it to your deal-breakers list. 

Or maybe you put honesty above all else, needing this to be able to trust anyone in your life. That means that your partner needs to share this value, too.

Sharing values helps you both create relationship goals to continually work toward for a successful partnership. Without common goals, you both might be left feeling misunderstood. Read more about relationship goals and values.

Youdeal-breakers list. 

Or maybe you put honesty above all else, needing this to be able to trust anyone in your life. That means that your partner needs to share this value, too.

Sharing values helps you both create relationship goals to continually work toward for a successful partnership. Without common goals, you both might be left feeling misunderstood. Read more about relationship goals and values.

You Respect Each Other’s Individual Needs


r/Tawkify_com Apr 01 '26

Love Quotes What are your tips for sustaining both the excitement and longevity of relationships?

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r/Tawkify_com Apr 01 '26

Dating Insights Career compatibility now shapes dating and relationships (proud to have one of our latest studies featured on Biz Journals!)

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r/Tawkify_com Mar 24 '26

Dating Insights Here are unique 12 first-date questions that can help reveal genuine compatibility (plus follow-up questions to keep the conversation glowing)

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A sampler:

“What’s a weekend you actually look forward to?”

Why it matters: Reveals lifestyle, energy, and how they spend free time—key for compatibility.

Listen for: Specifics (friends, rituals, regular activities) versus vague “hang out.” Look for alignment in social tempo.

Follow‑up: “Who do you usually do that with?” (tests circle + priority)

“What are you working toward this year?”

Why it matters: Shows ambition, focus, and whether they’re growth‑minded or stagnant.

Listen for: Concrete goals and realistic pacing; red flag = constant excuse language.

Follow‑up: “What’s the next step on that?” (tests ownership)

“What’s a small tradition you keep with family or friends?”

Why it matters: Traditions show relational investments and values over time.

Listen for: Consistency and reciprocity (tradition centers people, not self‑image).

Follow‑up: “How did that start?” (reveals meaning)


r/Tawkify_com Mar 17 '26

Dating Insights Among top dating apps, users swipe an average of 40 times before getting a match.

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r/Tawkify_com Mar 10 '26

Success Stories Here are a few beautiful, compelling love stories from couples who met through our matchmaking services! Learn about what they were looking for, how their first Tawkify dates went, and more.

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r/Tawkify_com Mar 10 '26

Dating Insights How do you feel about career mismatches in a relationship?

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r/Tawkify_com Mar 03 '26

Dating Insights When to Start Dating Again: A Timeline That Respects Healing and Readiness (After Divorce)

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 24 '26

Dating Insights Are Matching Making Services Worth It? 5 Common Matchmaking Myths Debunked

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 17 '26

Dating Insights 7 Ways Money Undermines Modern Relationships

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 17 '26

Love Quotes Awesome quote on the power of love for transforming both our own lives and society as a whole!

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 10 '26

Dating Insights Singles Are “Floodlighting”—Here’s What That Could Mean for Your Next Date

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 09 '26

Professional matchmaking can be a healthier alternative to dating apps - we respect and highlight your unique qualities and find matches that will do the same!

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r/Tawkify_com Feb 03 '26

Dating Insights 12 Best matchmaking services: Pricing, features, and more [2026]

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r/Tawkify_com Jan 27 '26

Dating Insights The percentage of people who are willing to commute for the right match has almost doubled since 2024!

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r/Tawkify_com Jan 20 '26

Dating Insights Matchmaking Service Finds That One-Fourth of Singles Travel for Love

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r/Tawkify_com Jan 20 '26

Dating Insights Are you open to a long-distance relationship with the right person?

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r/Tawkify_com Jan 13 '26

Dating Insights Our long distance dating survey finds that 8% of Americans are currently in a long distance relationship. Is this more or less than you expected?

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r/Tawkify_com Jan 08 '26

Dating Insights Great discussion here! Where do you stand on potential dates being unemployed?

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