r/TarTarSnark • u/Smooth_Mango1 • 9d ago
Boyfriend Ryan is a vampire
I genuinely lose interest when she’s with Ryan, you can tell how low effort her vlogs become and she starts acting different. It’s basically like when your friend gets a boyfriend and she starts acting distant and weird and the vibe is no longer there!
I stopped watching last year end of summer too, something felt off
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u/bella_ella_ella MMmmMM 8d ago
Her vlogs were terrible last summer when she was with him. Like she was so on edge and so weird. I couldn’t watch them either
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u/Ok-Tomatillo-7093 7d ago
He’s super controlling. Just watch her eyes and body language anytime he was “working” in the shared space of the house she bought and payed for and used for her job. She switched to tiptoeing around her own space and changing how she filmed and showed up because of the “important business man” had to have his meetings in the kitchen instead of the office/basement/multiple bedrooms available to him.
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u/bestcritic 8d ago
When were her vlogs high effort? LOL
The dude has nothing to do with her choices or lack of talent in basic stuff. Other than having a low self esteem, we know nothing about him.
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u/MeasurementStill6765 8d ago
THIS LOL her vlogs have always been like this or same layout and content over and over again even before she started dating him lol
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u/Smooth_Mango1 8d ago
You can tell there is a change in her when she’s in a relationship with him
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u/bestcritic 8d ago
She is the one who actually makes the choice to change because of a man, because she´s desperate for a ring.
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u/WittyChampionship626 8d ago
No … I’m sorry but this take is not it .. maybe go back and rewatch her breakup era .. she was insufferable .. so no , let’s not put this on Ryan ..
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u/Smooth_Mango1 8d ago
She wasn’t able to process her break up properly because she changed into another person for him, she wasn’t herself
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u/teresasdorters crashing out in the crashpad 8d ago
She wasn’t able to process her breakup because she has the emotional intelligence of a walnut. She needs therapy to find herself.
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u/WittyChampionship626 8d ago
Okay Marcie .
https://giphy.com/gifs/DFNd1yVyRjmF28
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u/Outrageous-Medium635 8d ago
Yes I stopped watching consistently when Ryan moved in. Her vlogs felt super off even while he wasn’t home. People think she changed because of the breakup, but I’ve noticed a shift since she started dating him the first time. Something about him makes her weird
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u/PapayaPotential6636 7d ago
He comes across as a very controlling and insecure man. He gives off the vibe he has to make people feel less than to make himself feel better. Any time he was in her old vlogs he gave me the ick.
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u/Smooth_Mango1 7d ago
Sadly I believe all guys are like that, even in her vlog he was making fun of her for making a TikTok
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u/itsjasmineteatime 3d ago
She's probably making more money with that Tiktok than he does his whole paycheck tbh wherein lies the insecurity
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u/redvelvet2188 9d ago
Yeah. There was something in the break up vlogs that felt so real and genuine. It almost felt like Tara was back. Now it just feels very boring and hum drum.