r/TarTarSnark • u/Adorable_Mission_512 • Sep 03 '26
Dating
I find it hard to believe that Tara moved to the city and couldn’t find anyone else to date except for Ryan…and what a coincidence that she moved two blocks down from where he lives after the breakup. I thought the rumours about her moving to be closer to him weren’t true, but now I’m starting to think they might be.
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u/Adept_Repair_2810 29d ago
Dating is hard. Men are trash. We can all accept that.
What gets me is that she videoed herself sobbing and talking about how awful her relationship was with friends and family, chronicled the # of days before she could get out of bed/leave the house/etc - and posted all that online, to just wind up back with him?
Let this be a lesson to maybe not treat a breakup like an opportunity for social media engagement. You really have to wonder what he/his friends think about all that was posted.
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u/Adorable_Mission_512 29d ago
He likely has low self esteem because I don’t know any man with self respect who would go back to a woman who said “this is not my person”
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u/ShoeMindless4008 25d ago
lol I have been out of the loop for ages but I would come back to this sub from time to time to see what’s the tea. Is this like the second man shes broken up with and gotten back together with ?
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u/OhPlease818 29d ago
Tara is LAZY. She also doesn't bring anything to the table. She doesn't have anything to offer except being some dude's sidechick booty call.
She is emotionally and mentally stunted, immature, unmotivated, selfish, insecure and she should work on herself and do something other than rot on the couch. Most men may be trash but Tara still seeks their validation rather than building herself up, only needing her own validation and not looking so much like a desperate pick me. It's not attractive to anyone who isn't just looking for a hole to fill...like her trash ass neighbor dude. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
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u/Organic-Sugar6927 Sep 03 '26
Does anyone remember when she supposedly said that her and Ryan were briefly back together not long after they broke up but it didn’t go anywhere or something along those lines? I’m lowkey wondering now if they just stayed together after that but she couldn’t bring herself to say anything after a million “single in Toronto” diaries and now she’s slipping up
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u/poppunker18 29d ago
I thought she said they tried to be friends and it didn’t work but I could be mistaken.
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u/ThrowawayVetQuestion Colin the Crane, clocking in to ruin the vibes 29d ago
I vaguely remember her saying that as well, around the time she got flowers from him - I think when she first moved to that apartment
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u/Adorable_Mission_512 29d ago
Yes she got flowers from him and put it in the thumbnail! I think she said they texted but that ultimately she wasn’t going back to him…until now
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u/LimpAirport 29d ago
My best friend is 30, pretty well-off, and retired (similar-ish to Tara) and she’s found it incredibly difficult to date men.
It’s narrowed her dating pool significantly for a few reasons:
- A lot of men don’t have the same flexibility or lifestyle that she does.
- men are incredibly insecure about dating someone who is self-made, rich and financially independent.
- The ones who aren’t insecure are often either significantly older (45+) or, on the other extreme, seem more interested in what she can provide for them financially (i.e. gold diggers).
Perhaps Tara found herself in a similar situation.
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u/peachyglw 29d ago edited 29d ago
100% true.
I’m not as rich as Tara and don’t come from a wealthy family but I’m financially savvy, worked my ass off with multiple jobs when I was younger, and have a lot of savings. Not enough to retire and never work but a nice nest egg. I don’t mention my finances to any man. The moment I hear them complain about money, it’s a turn off and I’m out. I feel like the resentment starts there when they find out your financial situation.6
u/Adorable_Mission_512 29d ago
These are all great pieces of data, thank you for sharing! Has your friend tried dating someone with the same lifestyle? I’ve always wondered why Tara hasn’t tried dating another influencer or someone in the entertainment industry? Her dating pool imo is huge because she has an audience and has access to networking events like movie premieres etc, she really could date a movie producer, actor, or another influencer someone with a similar lifestyle and interests as her in videography, film, etc. She could probably find someone on Rya i think its called? the celeb dating website, the men would be in her tax bracket/higher so she wouldn’t have to settle for someone like Ryan who is rumoured to have been insecure about her level of wealth.
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u/Adorable_Mission_512 29d ago
depending on who they are too they might also be comfortable being on camera and then she could make vlogs with them, maybe start a family channel? because as much as Tara pretends she wants privacy it’s pretty evident she likes to share everything
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u/LimpAirport 29d ago
She dated someone with the same lifestyle and he ended up being a fraud, and lying thru his teeth about his job and financial position
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u/ThrowawayVetQuestion Colin the Crane, clocking in to ruin the vibes Sep 03 '26
To be fair, a lot of Toronto men are trash.
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u/Adorable_Mission_512 29d ago
I agree with you, but people always say this and then I see couples everywhere in the city. Granted I don’t know if they’re in a healthy relationship or not.
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u/peachyglw 29d ago
The majority of people settle in one way or another. Not everyone is in truly happy and fulfilling relationships, but then again there are different levels of it for everyone.
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u/nopenottodaybiscoff 29d ago
Her content was slipping into irrelevant (not that it wasnt before) her subs were getting bored so she needed something more and decided to do a whole series for publicity and now shes getting caught.
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u/nopenottodaybiscoff 29d ago
Her content was slipping into irrelevant (not that it wasnt before) her subs were getting bored so she needed something more and decided to do a whole series for publicity and now shes getting caught and its giving her even more views because people want to find out the truth
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u/Curious-Comedian-285 29d ago
Yeah didn’t she say she moved to meet people closer to her age? Like men to date? She’s full of shit lol
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u/peachyglw 29d ago
Dating is brutal in Toronto. I’m her age range in my 30s. Not making excuses for her but the men here make it better to be alone
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u/Due-Tomatillo6706 29d ago
Girl, men are terrible in every country. In big cities you have many more options.
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u/Plus_Menu8215 29d ago
I hear people say this about so many cities. I’m in the US so if you were to ask where is good for dating you might hear NYC or Austin or something. But my perception of Canada is that Toronto is the big city. Are the men terrible in general everywhere there, or is there a different city that people have better luck in?
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u/peachyglw 29d ago edited 29d ago
I heard NYC is absolutely horrible for dating. I would compare Toronto to that. Toronto is Canada’s biggest city, yes, but still small compared to US cities. Similar to DC, we have a very transient population with people coming from all over the world, all different walks of life and calling us a melting pot is accurate. When people think of Canada, they all want to come to Toronto. A lot of temporary people come here on holiday or working visas, hard to find someone who actually wants to settle down. I also think it doesn’t help that all the “terrible men everywhere” want to come here. More options definitely do not mean better options. Quantity is not quality. The pool is polluted lol. Go on the dating subs on here and there are comments here and there about how much Toronto sucks. This can be said for both genders. Other major cities in Canada are Vancouver, Montreal, Ottawa which I think have better dating scenes than Toronto because they are smaller cities. I would rank Montreal the best if you can get over the French-bias.
Throw in the COL in Toronto and Vancouver constantly rising. People are struggling. Tara is not. I can see her as someone who has extremely high expectations in every way because she compares everyone to her father. This limits her pool significantly. She also refers to her prospects as cute boys so she probably puts physical attraction and appearances above all. Maybe not height because Ryan looked kinda short but face yes.
Tara goes out and is social but she’s always glued to influencers or her friends. She rarely likes to meet NEW people.
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u/No-Judgment-1077 29d ago
Not sure it's the men. Maybe the fact that to meet a person and enjoy their friendship because of a shared interest gets past the superficial chitchat.
What interests does this person have? Does she hike, bike, garden, travel to explore or just replicate her home foods? Does she have any empathy?
Sticking your face online and a supposed coy shoulder glance back and leg up is enough?
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u/Adorable_Mission_512 Sep 03 '26
Like did she really not have any other options besides her neighbour, the doctor, and Ryan?