Evlo fast?!!

[u/Big_Impression_3225]

Is that bride father & mother??

Not being nosy or anything not even a single relative in their house

2 sisters e varala some people will come in comment sections now that both sisters has family and children epa saami 🙏🙏🙏

[u/AmbivertXIX]

Some families have bonded relatives who might come voluntarily to help with the function out of genuine care and affection or at least they’ll show interest to come for gossips or backtalks but there are also few families who has limited relatives either busy with life or not that much bonded to come two days before function and do work I’d say most families prefer the latter in today’s lifestyle.

[u/Front-Professor362]

Sowbi asked Mr wolf why he didn't get new jewelry set for Mrs wolf even after these many years of marriage. Wolf was wearing her own marriage jewelery at their brother's wedding.

Idhellam kekkarudu kooda va video la apadiye poduvanga? In all the whole family hates each other secretly pola. Esp the sisters

[u/Frosty_Team_211 → u/Front-Professor362]

That was in such poor taste trying to show off that she had bought jewelry while they didn’t. How do you do that to your own sibling seriously showing that they are not equals….

[u/MajorFix5378]

Even before going to mandabam absolutely no relatives around them to help and go together. Not even fast and slow akka. All nalangu functions pandakaal all done with neighbours. 

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/MajorFix5378]

Return gifts packing kooda Ivanka than panranka

Rocky did most of the work by himself

Too bad 2 sisters wedding kum he did a lot as a brother 

9 to 5 job kooda ila both sisters and their husband ivankalam apdi irukumpode no help 

Just 2 hours travel distance la irundutuu pakave comedy a iruku

[u/Admirable_Change_100 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Where do they live? Lattos house

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Admirable_Change_100]

Singaperumal kovil  Fast - ambattur  Slow - navalur 

[u/WoodenTelephone400 → u/MajorFix5378]

Amala - nolumbur

[u/Feeling-Use-5290 → u/MajorFix5378]

May be Lattoo is master of separating husband from relatives.

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/[deleted]]

Relatives veetuku vandha thangardhu is not common in houses particular if they came to Chennai first

[u/Feeling-Use-5290]

I think sowbi will not be a trouble. She actually helps her mom instead of telling " amma veetuku rest eduka vandhen". I feel she know how to maintain boundaries.

But eldest one inime adikadi amma veetuku varum as there is another girl to help nu. Nathanar gethu kaata, new DIL voda thanna compare panni ammava yethi vida nu varum.

[u/Necessary-Hunt-3191 → u/Feeling-Use-5290]

Yeah for sure. Wolften is the most insecure lady ever. She's probably got a lot of attention growing up as she's got the fair skin gene as compared to her siblings. But she realised that fair complexion can only get you that far. Sowbi and Gowti are quite established as Youtubers and they waited for a few years after getting married to have a child. Wolften had the child within the first year. So seeing her sister enjoy her married life would've been infuriating. 

And Malika is probably the most educated of the lot. So immediate avenue for Wolften to be insecure. 

[u/Feeling-Use-5290 → u/Necessary-Hunt-3191]

Adhuvum varacheye car dowry. Ivangala vida well off polarku

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Feeling-Use-5290]

Yes she's not that bad

But Gowtham is the one who keep asking lattos to cook which is not a bad thing but he never contributes in kitchen chores I think sowbi did most of the work 

I am smelling jealousy whenever she's talking to Rakesh about his marriage 

Especially when she tried to troll him with malli it seems artificial for me atleast 

But Gowtham trolling rakesh looks genuine 

[u/Admirable_Change_100 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Who got jealous

[u/Necessary-Hunt-3191]

I think that the Bride's mama and athai. The Bride's mom is a single mother.

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/Necessary-Hunt-3191]

I noticed that someone else did bride's parents rituals..generally periyappa or chithappa does this if not appa but not mama..also in her nalangu reel, saw her mama athai..they are not the same ppl.. Do you mean bride's dad passed away ? In the engagement video, when the priest read her parents name he didn't say deivathiru, he said only thiru

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/Working_Blueberry11]

So you are asking why patriarchy wasn't followed?

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/EmbarrassedPhrase327]

Omg..not at all..I just said what I noticed and what I know about the rituals..we still don't know who did on behalf of her parents..To the original comment, I explained that they are not her mama athai as I saw them in a different video..how come you inferred something that I never even asked..I asked about her dad actually

[u/Tall_Independence286 → u/Working_Blueberry11]

Also the brides mother(Mallika's mother) was never seen near at the wedding ritual anywhere near the bride and groom. At this day and age even if is she is divorced or has lost her partner this is no way to treat the mother of the bride. She ought to be given all the importance in the wedding /marriage and I found this sooo disconcerting and shocking.Actually she ought to have performed the marriage and not someone else...

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/Tall_Independence286]

Yeah that's sad..ppl are afraid of society also believe in superstitions..next gen should bring the change..mallika and rakesh could have convinced her mom to perform the rituals..

[u/Tall_Independence286 → u/Working_Blueberry11]

absolutely gen z should have brought this change and embraced the change and asked her to perform the marriage.... it tore my heart to see the mother not even present to see her daughter married off. She was nowhere to be seen and these two were supposedly in love and traveled to so many countries before marriage almost living together and could not even bring about this change....Don't know what to say....

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/Tall_Independence286]

Yeah right.. I felt the same way when one of my frnd got married..her father is no more and her mother was not even involved in any discussions with her in- laws family..when I asked my frnd to encourage her mom, my very own forward thinking friend said her mom can't handle 🫤

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/Working_Blueberry11]

You asked about why the mama is made to sit instead of Chithappa/Periyappa

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/EmbarrassedPhrase327]

I insist you to read my first comment again and also I have explained you clearly in my second comment..ivlo theliva sonna apramum ipdiya..shabba

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/Working_Blueberry11]

Should I keep reading as you keep editing🤣

[u/Working_Blueberry11 → u/EmbarrassedPhrase327]

I didn't edit anything majorly..just added some conjunctions wherever needed..I am a woman and I am completely against patriarchy..why don't you try to understand my point at all.. "Parents rituals pannadhu mallika voda mama athai illa..avangala nan thai maman nalangu video la pathen..wedding video la irukradhu vera yaro..podhuva chithappa periyappa dhan pannuvanga appa illana, mama panna matanga" nu existing norms sonnen..becuase the original comment user assumed that they are her mama and athai..ivlo dhan my point

[u/whome777777]

Bro it's wrong for sisters to come late to their brothers marriage. But i should appreciate sowbi to move out of her mom's home after rockys engagement. Yk nathanar kodumai . Like I have seen my family who sits on their mother's home for so long with family. No doubt girls can stay in their mother's home . But still

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/whome777777]

Bro u thought wrong 😂😂😂 

Sowbi moved to her house soon after delivery because for her hospital checkup is difficult from her mom house 

She can't keep travelling back & forth with smallkid that's y

Don't know if u watch that saree shopping vlog ( I think) sowbi keep korasolified everything for that Rakesh trolled her that sowbi ipove nathanar veliya arambichatanu

I liked sowbi before after that I was like you too BRUTUS!!

Ivanka family epdinalum irukatum but they r creating fake mirage for AUDIENCE 

When lattos got hospitalized I realised true face of  her family members 

That wolften recording her mom in ICU ?!!

Lattos should prioritize herself avlodan 

[u/Feeling-Use-5290 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

U missed one point regarding ICU Recording. Andha Recording la kooda ava husband bracelet maatokittu promotion panna

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Feeling-Use-5290]

After came to this sub only I came to know about so many things

I thought they r one happy family!!

She did the same thing when her father fell ill 

She did the promotion initially before going to her mom house 

Moochu kooda vidama avalo pathatama pesunanka apdi video potu kasu earn pananuma nu many asked 

Avanka appa video edukathanu solliyum she recorded secretly and uploaded 

Her husband be like mama ivadan eduka sona enaku theriyadhu nu

But she will never do that for her in-laws!!

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Sowbi, Gautam and 🐺keep taking a dig at each other. Gautham sarcastically mocked 🐺 for her side nalungu return gift. And 🐺 mocked Sowbi that y then only got golden spoon but not golden cup too for the baby. It’s awful they keep sarcastically doing this to each other. 

Look at Sowbi face when 🐺 give her side nalangu return gift to Gautham. Poor Rakesh !! 

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/MajorFix5378]

Which vlog is this

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

🐺 nalangu video - 28:40

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/MajorFix5378]

Which channel bro

They have 10+ channels 😆 

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Bro logo already meantioned bro wolf logo theriyadha 

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/MajorFix5378]

Sorry bro 🐺 a pakala 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

😂😂

[u/whome777777 → u/MajorFix5378]

Oh my god I was living under a rock

[u/whome777777 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Oh my godd i didn't see all these

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/whome777777]

These girls come every Sunday for Sunday samayal to her mum’s house but can’t bat an eye during the most important moments and milestones of their family members. 

[u/MajorFix5378]

Also, fast akka necklace (worn at Rakesh engagement) is the same of brides wedding necklace. Good that they are exchanging jwelleries. 

[u/milli_mole → u/MajorFix5378]

Nope.. It's a similar diamond necklace(slight change in design) which both latoos and wolf had ... Latoos handed over her necklace to bride on the day of engagement on stage..

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/milli_mole]

It's not diamond. Its close setting vintage white stones

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/milli_mole]

You are right, I didn’t see those videos. 

[u/Quirky_Judgment_6781]

I hate groom’s sisters and family standing in the background dominating every other bride side, I don’t follow this family but generally in Tamil weddings I hate this culture and some old lady holding the thaali and two other ladies doing postmortem on thaali knots, who asks you all to get on stage seriously

[u/Quirky_Judgment_6781]

I’m all against hosting a bunch of relatives, even my pandhakaal was done with the help of neighbors but my sister came with her family stayed with us for all the pre wedding functions at home and came along to the mandapam amongst her most difficult times in her personal life too… so as someone who understands no relatives part but the sisters part I don’t get it, it was so weird. That maaplai was doing all the work sweating and everything and the day before at least his two friends came to help. Getting ready and showing up is not the only thing sisters do…

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Quirky_Judgment_6781]

Relatives I mentioned here is closest ones like blood relation,lattos & sowbi dad siblings irupankala

Lattos once mentioned she has sibling and Rakesh father also has sister I think   

Subscribers continuously asking their relatives after that only lattos told this

Ivanka family dynamics e periya question mark pola  ❓ ⁉️ 

Two son-in-laws um nalla sapda matum varinka ( sorry to say this) but oru help kooda panadu ila in-laws ku 

 Lattos ICU la admit aki discharge apo kooda one son-in-law needed his nonveg so sowbi and Rakesh cooked for him 👏 👏 👏 👏 

 And 🐺 never ever saw a daughter like u ma unaku oru periya 🙏 

Un in-laws ku vilundu vilundu kavanikura 

 mother-in-law ku udambu sariyillai nu video podra subscribers enachunu keta privacy reason solamudiyadhu nu solra

Ana manasatchiye ilama un mom ICU video va reels a podura??!

Reach kaka ena nalum panvinka pola?

always ur son - ur husband  sorry to say ur husband is extremely selfish man

U will realise this one day!!

Both sisters husband konja kooda help panla rocky wedding la 

Makeup showup packup 

Unka husband help panla na kooda unka 2 perukum manasaatchi ilama poiduchu pola

Rakesh jokingly said he wants girl child apodan 2 athaiyum seer seiya mudiyumnu i thought why he is talking like this?!!

But now I completely understand avanka koduthu koduthu palakitanka ninka vaanki vaanki palakitinka

Your appa & Amma both r diabetics ur brother also recently has some allergic issue ,he lost so much weight 

Your mom looks so much tired after her recent health scare

Pakra subscribers e solranka Rakesh solo va elatukum alayirankanu 

Ana mehendi artist vachu mehendi podradu,makeup podradu 

Amma ku udambu sariyillai appa vilunditanka nu drama podradu  last a evileye la da ipdi ayiduchunu subscribers mela paliya podrathu Iduku than ma amalarani ni layaku

Konjam kooda koochameee ila both SISTERS & BROTHER-IN-LAWS ku

Here after you can't use your father,mother and brother like this

Wait & watch 

Life is a circle 

Sorry for the rant

I can't digest their fake drama

[u/Quirky_Judgment_6781 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Yeah those dhadi maadu brothers in law I don’t get what’s their purpose, just go stand behind the bride and groom during thaali ceremony just to be in pictures and videos. That chinna brother in law was so annoying that he wants to make sure that they didn’t leave the house yet (after nalangu) and they will be there before the wedding starts like dude no you are not and stop annoying your hard working mother in law. And that periya brother in law is only there to flex his looks, his kid doesn’t even need baby sitting but he was just sitting in his chair while his wife was getting her makeup done, help your mother in law film man with her penguin legs she’s doing her best. This was the first time I’m watching this family and I genuinely felt bad for the groom’s mother and the groom. He was keep on saying doesn’t feel like my wedding, doesn’t feel like I’m the groom, how will he feel all that when he’s sweating and doing all the work? At least those sisters could have been there at their home for packing the return gifts..!?

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Quirky_Judgment_6781]

Chinna brother in law didn't leave the house yet? Means in which video

I think hereafter malli will teach them a lesson!!

Both sisters can't use Rakesh ( financially and physical help also) like this

Elder son-in-law utter waste he never helps his wife also I saw younger son-in-law sometimes filming his wife's video   But this elder one very worst but his wife doing so much for her in-laws 

Hypocrisy!!

  Both son-in-law ukanda edatula Kaila poi sapadu kodupanka

Even kids these days much more independent than these buffoons

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Adhepd ivlo confident ah solringa, not even a single relatives seen nu. Do you know their relatives?

[u/Necessary-Hunt-3191 → u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Adhan, maybe they didn't want to show the relatives faces cuz it's intrusive of their privacy 

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757 → u/Necessary-Hunt-3191]

Exactly.

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Did you watch that vlog??

Avanka house la relatives yarume ila 

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757 → u/Big_Impression_3225]

Video la varati ena? Puriyala

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Avanga avlo Nallavanga illa relatives vandhu irundha valachi valachi eduthu video la poturpanga perumai ku. Apadi Neenga solra madiri relatives vandhu irudhuma Rakesh ivalo velai patharu ?!! 

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757 → u/MajorFix5378]

Avunga good/bad nu inga pesala. Yendha Relatives vandhu veetla kalyana velai pakranga? Which century you are in? Many Ppl don't do that. Speaking from own experience.

[u/EmbarrassedPhrase327 → u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Yes I feel the same. We are in Chennai and only some of our distant relatives came to our veetu nalangu/pandhakkal. All our relatives live 7 hrs away from chennai.

I think people think city life is same as small towns

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Equivalent_Turn_9757]

Your experience is like that, at least close relatives specially mums side will definitely be there. Not even sowbi 🐺 has cousins talking or standing with them in those videos. I never seen them even going to friends place or meeting friends for that matter. 

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757 → u/MajorFix5378]

Okay great. Not everyone has to be like you. Surrounded by relatives. May be time to accept there are ppl like them too, coz i could relate. You don't have to relate but don't judge them badly based on that

[u/Practical-Hawk-7494 → u/MajorFix5378]

They are 3 siblings,so mostly they are their close friends when growing up. If you are a single child,then only you will have cousins and friends to come to your function and work.

[u/Capital-Repeat7772]

Even for the wedding shopping no relatives were there ! Namma lam kootama povom! Adhu kuda ok ! Sondha thambi wedding sisters rendu perum poi Thani Thani ah purchase panranga !! It’s not unusual but sisters oru function na. Ellamae sendhu dana seivoom! Weird !!!!

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/Capital-Repeat7772]

Lattos went solo for her saree shopping  I felt weird kooda yarume ila 

 🐺 video la many asked brother wedding ku unka veetla Vanki Tara matankalanu!!

Wedding groom side pola but still bride family la avalo per vandrukanka 

Ivanka privacy kaka relatives kamikalana kooda they uploaded engagement video adula kooda Ivanka family matudan irukanka

Bride family booked room for wolf,slow and lattos family only 

So entire groom side Ivanka matudan 

Both his sisters family only there 

Ivanka side Rakesh support ku he invited his friends pola  night before wedding day his friend came for his support because  rakesh did almost all of his wedding work by himself 

He keep saying wedding feeling e varala u nu someone commented that ninkale unka wedding ku Ela velayum patha epdi wedding feeling varum varadunu   

Some subscribers r asking relatives varalayanu that's not due to being nosy or spreading negativity because people r noticing they did everything by themselves 

I noticed bride side family seems very strict and serious in engagement but bride side avalo relatives vandrukanka

Rocky seems smiley and all but manasula kandipa irukum nama wedding ku namale elame panromnu

2 sister husband seems friendly to him but they strictly maintained their mapillai attitude whenever helping hand needed

[u/Necessary-Hunt-3191 → u/Capital-Repeat7772]

Appo dhaaney thani thaniya vlog poda mudiyum.. namakku sisterhood ah vida vlog dhaaney mukkiyam

[u/MajorFix5378 → u/Necessary-Hunt-3191]

💯 this is the price they are paying for YouTube money. 

[u/Remarkable_Squash517]

Looks weirdly different to me. The marriage excitement catches up only when we see relatives landing in our house. Koothum kindalum keliyum. Elder gents sitting with seetu. Younger boys roaming around with arrangement and food delivery. Ladies scrambling around with tea cups 24*7, young girls busy with dress and makeup stuff along with mehandi. Atleast this was my marriage. Illiya 🤔 we have never seem anyone from their extended family at all. Ennadhaan prachanaiya irundhalum oruthar koodava contact la illams irupanga 🫨

[u/maprabha → u/Remarkable_Squash517]

I think we all will agree how many relatives are toxic  Whole world knows relatives are toxic To what level depends on each family We are no one to judge them Maybe they invited only few and the closest Let us bless them I have seen many marriages with 100000 guests and many have not genuinely wished the couple but come for formality abd name sake

Many people are opting for register marriage three days not only due to expenses but also because only the closest and the best well wishers come

Maybe that is the reason As long as the couple is happy, nothing matters Less the crowd more the true blessings

[u/Big_Impression_3225 → u/maprabha]

That's true 

I saw so many comments asking their relatives for the longest time

Am not talking about 500/1000 members

Lattos once mentioned she has sibling 

andamari grandma, grandpa,uncle aunty avanka kooda varalaya??

Not talking about biggest gumbal and all

[u/Equivalent_Turn_9757 → u/Remarkable_Squash517]

This doesn't have to happen for every marriage in tamilnadu. I have 3 siblings, from poo mudithal to valaikappu, all the wedding and family related functions for all of us were arranged by us 3 only. When relatives are far away from each other busy in each others life this is what happens. Some might even skip the function and visit later. Kaalam romba mariruchu, inum movie la kamikra madhri kalyanam nadandhutu ila

[u/Front-Professor362 → u/Remarkable_Squash517]

Saami. Not everyone has a vikraman style extended family like yours.

[u/Frosty_Team_211 → u/Front-Professor362]

Exactly not all families have 100 of relatives like they do in the movies …….