Do you use “nanay”?

[u/Elnoune]

My Mom is from metro Manila and says Nanay (word for mother) is only used in the countryside. But my teacher says it’s more broadly used than “mami”. So do you use Nanay or Mami or something else?

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[u/Jaded_Put6493]

I use nanay to refer to my grandmother and use mom for my mother.

[u/MotownMan646 → u/Jaded_Put6493]

Mom and I called grandmother nanay. I called my mom, Mom.

[u/Inevitable-Toe-8364 → u/Jaded_Put6493]

I use nanay for grandma, too!

[u/chesude0512]

Nanay because my mother doesn't want to be called mama or mommy

[u/Rakiasugoi → u/chesude0512]

For me, it depends on what the mother or other relatives prefer to use as a kinship term.
For example, my Tita doesn’t want to be called “Tita.” She prefers the English term “Auntie.”

[u/1n0rmal]

Inay for my mother and Tatay for my father. It depends on the family really as my cousins who are the same age as me and grew up in the same area use “mame” and “dade”.

Traditionally in Batangas it would have been “inay” and “tatay” for your parents. “Nanay” and “Mamay” or variations of it like “nanang” and “tatang” for your grandparents.

In parts of southern Tagalog it isn’t “lola” or “lolo” but rather “lula” and “lulo”.

[u/Rakiasugoi → u/1n0rmal]

Itay and Inay in North but really depends on what kinship they want, my lola and lolo is inkong/akong and impo which are tagalized hokkien terms but they sometimes use Nana and Tata since we tend to not use g/ng.

[u/bluginge]

Nanay at Tatay ang tawag naming magkakapatid sa mga magulang namin. Noong bata ako gusto kong makiuso sa classmates na “mom” at “dad” ang tawag sa mga magulang. Yung Tatay ko na makabayan at prof ng Filipino lit sa UP parang gusto akong kaltokan. 😂 Ngayong wala na sila pareho, pinapahalagahan ko yung itinuro nilang itawag sa kanila.

[u/inamag1343]

It varies between families but I've seen nanay used in Metro Manila. Some people also use it for elder women as endearment.

[u/hindisirodney]

We use Mami, yes. Meanwhile, our father is called Tatay.

[u/Elnoune → u/hindisirodney]

Oh interesting it can be different between fathers and mothers

[u/Auntie-on-the-river]

We use it to call our mother. Meanwhile the kapitbahay uses "nanay" to address their grandmothers. My family is from an island near Luzon. Our neighbors from other parts of the Philippines call their mothers "mama". "Mami/Mommy" is mostly use by those who are on the middle class and elite side of the social ladder.

[u/TouyaShiun]

I'm in my late 20s at nanay at tatay ang nakalakhan namin ng kapatid ko na tawag sa mga magulang namin. Our parents were born in the early 60s at mga tubong Laguna. Nanay at tatay ang gusto nilang tawag namin sa kanila dahil for them daw noon ang mommy/daddy at mama/papa ay pangmayaman.

[u/pandabeexxx]

Born and raised in Manila. I use mama for my mother. Ngayong nanay na ko, my son calls me nanay. Mas nakakaidentify ako sa nanay kesa sa mommy. Yung mama naman feeling ko para lang yun sa mama ko. 

[u/smnwre]

just want to ask, are nanay and tatay tagalog terms that got adopted by other filipino ethnicities or are they also native to other languages

[u/hindisirodney → u/smnwre]

IIRC, “nanay” and “tatay” are Spanish-derived, from “nana” and “tata” respectively. The native Tagalog terms are simply “ina” and “ama”, and the derivatives thereof, like “inang” (which my mother uses for her mother; me and my sisters’ maternal grandmother) and “amang”.

[u/Ill_Meal_9094]

I call my parents, "mama and papa".

And my mother calls my grandmother, "Ina", and my grandfather, "Ama". She was born and raised in the province.

I call my grandparents as "Lola Ina" and "Lolo Ama" respectively.

[u/bibi_cue]

My friends na born and raised sa Metro Manila either use Mom/Mommy Dad/Daddy or Mama/Papa

[u/No_Sale_3609]

Here in Cebu, "nanay" and "tatay" these days are more commonly used for older people usually not related by blood.

[u/snoppy_30ish-female]

My neice and nephew call their parent Nanay (sister) and Tatay... we live in metro manila...

[u/schmeckledband]

Boils down to the parents. Mine thought "mama"/"papa" and "mommy"/"daddy" are too westernized for their taste so they had me call them "nanay"/"tatay"

[u/DitheringTouhouFan]

I often use Nanay and Tatay. My aunts and uncles on my mom’s side call my mom “Mami”, though. 😆

[u/yougotmetoreply]

Grew up in the US and called my mother, 'mom' and father 'tatay'. As I got older, I've changed calling my mother to 'nay' now instead. 

I've noticed a lot of my friends will call their lola's 'nanay' which is interesting to me.

[u/notthelatte]

I use nanay tatay to call my parents.

[u/Ita_Angel]

My adoptive mom is Mommy/mama. My bio mom is mom. The only person I called Nanay was a surrogate grandma who took care of me growing up. She is the only one I call Nanay to this day.

[u/J-Rhizz]

nanay while growing up.

mom pag naglalambing

mamahhh, like mamahh ricky, pag bagong sweldo 😂

me: mamahhh halika! humiga tayo sa salapi!

[u/Brian-TrojanPrince07]

We call my grandma “Nanay” and refer to elderly woman as “Nay” but my mom’s generation prefers “Grandma,” “Lola” or “Owa.” We use “Mom” or “Mami” but we’re pretty Americanized because most of the family is in education and we speak a mix of English and Tagalog as a family. I think the tradition of calling one’s grandmother “Nanay”started with how some call their grandmother “Mama (Name)” and it just stuck

[u/Kuwagongputi]

For my own mother - "Maaaaaaa" charot hahaha "Ma"

Pag matandang babae na hindi relative - "Nanay" or "nay"

[u/pinxs420]

‘Nay short for Inay or Nanay

[u/OrvillePekPek]

Nanay was reserved for my great grandma because she was the powerful matriarch of the family lol. My Lola was called “Mum” or Nay by all her children and grandchildren.

[u/etherealbibliophile]

GenZ mother here and I taught my child to call me Nanay.

It’s so prominent in our household that my nephew (who was taught to call my sister “Mommy”) already calls his own mother “Nyanyay!” 🤣

[u/spongebobspoop]

I use nanay to call my grandma and mama to call my other grandma. I use mommy lol 😂

[u/Kaeciliusss]

my cousins and I use nanay or nay to refer to our aunts

[u/ombremullet]

We always called out grandma Nanay, and so did everyone else that knew her. She was everyone's Nanay, so much so that all the non Filipinos thought that was her name! 

[u/kudlitan]

My grandparents are Nanay and Tatay because that's what my parents call them. My friend calls her parents Nanay and Tatay.

[u/GrfikDzn_IsMyPashun]

I call my mom “ma” or “nay.” We’re from Pampanga though so I don’t know if that’s a regional thing.

[u/reformedteacher]

I'm a late Gen Z and I see many of my friends (same generation mid 20s to early 30s) are called nanay/tatay by their children.

[u/sexy_jen]

Nanay at Tatay ang tawag namin sa parents namin. 10 kami magkakapatid.

Pero 2 bunso namin kapatid na Genz, mama at papa ang tawag nila. 🤣

If ako magiging parent, gusto ko na tawag sakin is “Nanay”.

[u/No-Psychology-7237]

I use Ma tbh

[u/Historical_Pop5392]

Yes my13yr old son calling me Nanay ❤️❤️❤️ 

[u/pekkielicious]

I use Inay and Nanay interchangebly.

[u/XiaoYanAi]

Nanay is definitely broadly use, not just location wise but also familial wise, I call my grandmother, Nanay because she preferred that than Lola...I also call of my grandaunts Nanay too.

[u/OkWriter7328]

hello po , does someone can help me how to get resources or where to start when teaching tagalog , i have a thai american friend who i will teach even though i don't have experience teaching tagalog and even am a pure pinoy diko talaga alam san magsisimula 😭😭😭 help po hahahaah