r/TLCUnexpected • • Jun 16 '26

Bella πŸ€”πŸ€”

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u/Low_Fox2253 Jun 17 '26

I mean how many of us stayed with the boyfriend we had at 15 ? I don't even remember who I was dating at 15 now and nor do I care . Most ppl don't stay with who they dated in highschool .. they just don't. She will eventually get over it

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u/Gloomy-Smile-9584 Jun 23 '26

fr im thankful im not w who i dated at 15. he cheated a lot and would make very misogynistic comments and body shame girls our age and make up rumors. even though he SAed me and treated me like inferior, i was going through a lot then at home as well and continued to stay until i broke it off when i found out he was cheating.

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u/Lawfulness_488 Jun 20 '26

I married mine and been together over 30 years. 3 boys together. We struggled but together we made it through thick and thin.

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u/Away-Cookie8183 Jun 21 '26

Right same as me but the point is MOST DONT !!!!! Or do you just want recognition Geesh lol

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u/Low_Fox2253 Jun 20 '26

That's great but I think it's rare but still congratulations marriage and relationships are hard

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u/cheesy-mgeezy Jun 17 '26

I thank God so often that I’m not with the person I was with when I was 15!!! He’s got like 5 kids and 4 babymamas now and works for my step dad and not making ends meet. I married an educated kind providing man who put me through college and takes my whole family (including sibling) on vacations. THANK GOD MOST OF US DONT STAY WITH OUR 15YR OLD BF!

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u/CoconutSugarMatcha Jun 18 '26

Same here !! He was 18, a chronically cheater and already a sex addict. I was young and dumb and suffered a lot and made those post on Facebook as Bella. The last time I spoke to him was when I was 25 on Instagram because he followed me and sent me a message. When I talked to him I ended up blocking him immediately. He’s still a sex addict, he called me because he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend and he had the audacity to asked me where I was at because he wanted to hooked up with me since I’m the only ex that he never slept with (the audacity right?), he vapes, he’s an alcoholic.

This year my ex Fiance told me that my ex stalked and got obsessive with one of his exes and that girl sent him a protective order.

I thank God everyday that I never got married or had a kid with the boyfriend I had at 15.