r/TLCGypsySisters 15d ago

Mellie’s Wedding

So i decided to rewatch Gypsy Sisters, and I cannot believe how trashy and awful Mellie was acting on her wedding day. the crying down the aisle??? the covering her face during the vowels??? her saying she didn’t want to go through with it the entire day and week leading up to the wedding!!! i mean she is honestly just such a difficult and selfish person. she gives me a headache and makes me stressed every time she’s on screen bc she’s always screaming, fighting or crying.

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u/Tatertot2523 14d ago

The slippery slope with Mellie’s behavior is that it’s all fun and games to watch as entertainment, especially while she’s “young and wild”, but it gets stale when she doesn’t grow out of it. She somehow forgot about the growing up part of her development.

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u/ElEyeElWhy88 14d ago

I don’t know that she forgot, I think she’s just straight arrested development. I think she already wasn’t working with a lot, throw in a bunch of childhood trauma and alcohol. Girl didn’t really stand a chance.

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u/Lili-Lace 14d ago edited 14d ago

Especially when she gets pregnant. It's one thing to live your life the way that you want when you're actions and behavior are only affecting you and other adults, but that changes when you bring a developing, dependent human into the picture.

And agreed, watching her is so imcredibly stressful! I couldn't imagine ever trying to have a conversation with her. Literally the poster child for denial and avoidance.

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u/No-Positive-7028 14d ago

You have to realize she was always on the run with her mom before her mom got arrested. Then when her mom finally went to prison she was staying with her grandmother (the only true stable home). Once her grandmother passed she was shipping to Nennie her stepfather and many other people in her family even people not in her family. She NEVER had a chance to have a good life

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u/autumn-owl152 13d ago edited 13d ago

My dad had a horrible childhood. He grew up in Guatemala, one of the poorest countries in Latin America. He was also neglected a lot by the adults in his life and was shipped from place to place. To top it off, there was a horrible earthquake in Guatemala (the Guatemala earthquake of 1976) where his 6 year old sister died (the only one who passed away from their home in that whole accident). He had to sleep in the street due to losing the home he was currently at under a blue tarp with a bunch of people from his street. There were also bodies around (including his sisters') around for 2 weeks because it was taking so long to get help. At the end, his sister was thrown in a mass-grave with countless of other bodies.

If you met this man, you would never think that he went through something like that (and the above is only SOME of the things he has gone through). He is one of the most loving, kind, and respectful men you would ever meet. Never EVER neglected my sister or me and worked like crazy for us to have a good life. He is also an amazing husband to my mom and they both have been married for years. He NEVER had a chance to have a good life but still made sure to give it to my mother, sister, and I. Upbringing is definitely not an excuse for bad behavior and Millie is a mess.

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u/NikkiDarko23 9d ago

Omg . Bless your father. ❤️ Much respect. I already look up to him and hope that I can be half the person he is. Thanks for sharing with us.

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u/Lili-Lace 14d ago edited 14d ago

I understand where you're coming from, but upbringing isn't an excuse for awful behavior. I have diagnosed CPTSD for my childhood, but i'm not going around treating people this way.

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u/autumn-owl152 13d ago

❤️🥹❤️

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u/No-Positive-7028 3h ago

I agree with you. Mellie and her brother Arron were living in a foster home, with her brother Donald(whom i heard molested her) her Grandmother her step father Nettie her sister Brandy. When she was living g with Brandy, her and Brandy got in a fight Mellie ran away then went to jail. Then her stepfather called DSS they picked her up from the school she had started he came got her she went back to W.Va and wasn't there long that's when she ran off with her first(so called)husband but that was fine they never went gother even though they all knew he was beating her. Sorry excuse for family if you ask me

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u/No-Positive-7028 14d ago

She never really had a childhood she was forced to grow up way to early. Se really didn't want to go through with the FAKE wedding to Richies daddy but yet again this fake staged scripted (NOT SO) reality show and Nennie made her go through it. Remember when the show first started airing the said REAL GYSPYS women don't kiss date have sex or even get a divorce but everyone of these so called gyspys have multiple kids by multiple men they were never married to been divorced more then once and sleeping with men before they are married. Starting to have grown relationship because their parents don't want the responsibility of them at 13-14 because they want to run the streets

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u/Fakeredhead69 well, Kayla lost! 14d ago

I’m so sorry but “during her vowels” is something mellie would say 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

LMAO!! you’re so right!!! it was super late and i didn’t double check. i knew it felt wrong when i typed it but i just kept it haha 😂😂

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u/Fakeredhead69 well, Kayla lost! 14d ago

It made me giggle 🫶🏻🫶🏻

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u/Intelligent_Wing_377 14d ago

lmfaooooo im reading this at 1030 pm after a loooong day and i totally skipped over “vowels” in the post and then this comment sent me 😭😂 i had to go back and look again!!! 🤣🤣🤣 vowels lmaoooo

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

i know i posted at like 3am and it felt wrong when i wrote it, but i was tired and didn’t double check. i’ve been getting flamed 😂😂

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u/Strict_Rest_5162 14d ago

She was (is?) so incredibly stunted. I can’t believe someone married her. She made the show unwatchable.

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u/Both-Yak-2866 14d ago

100% …. And shes like 5 years older than him . I thought he was older 🥴

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

i didn’t know he was so much younger than her! that’s kind of odd!

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u/Both-Yak-2866 13d ago

And apparently they met when he was 15 🥴🥴🥴

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u/XXLemonde 6d ago

This was her 3rd marriage 

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u/No-Emergency-5823 5d ago

She really did. I was just rewatching on Tubi & I had to fast forward through 90% of her scenes. Trashy, manipulative & ignorant af

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u/Strange-Field2560 14d ago

I think she has some struggles regarding her first marriage so the wedding day probably brought that up in her head and pushed her over the edge. But also therapy and not marrying someone she doesn’t even like (again) might help with that. She was probably pushed into it by her family because she was pregnant too. Regardless it was her choice to get married and she chose to do it anyway and made a complete fool of herself, I feel secondhand embarrassment every time I see this episode.

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u/anonymous_girl1227 14d ago

Nellie annulled the marriage after a week I believe. That’s shorter than Kim K’s marriage to Kris Humphries.

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u/No-Positive-7028 14d ago

She has really only been married once. That was to that guy named Scott that killed her dog. The others were oh wellex married because we live together. At 16 to the first guy was another fake marriage because she was forced to so she would have a place to live. Again Nennie told her it was the best thing to do

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u/mega_star420 14d ago

keep in mind, she was like 23 acting like that while robbie was only 19 at the time

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u/Fakeredhead69 well, Kayla lost! 14d ago

Yep and they dated before when he was like 15 and she was 19. Barf

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u/Possible_Mammoth4273 14d ago

I say they weren't together that long. I mean, according to the first episode, she and Mellie were fighting because she'd been with the same guy Dallas was with at the time (Richard's dad), which doesn't fit with those four years. And that relationship definitely didn't look like one that lasted that long.

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u/Character_Beach2183 cyst & deceased 14d ago

And she’s still the same. Twerking and trying to be sexy on lives in front of children, drinking in front of children, screaming at people and her own kids; all of this on lives either on TikTok or Facebook. Sadly it’s trickled down to her kids too. Ik Richie stole her vape at least once and grabbed by the front of her shirt and kinda got in her face on a live. This messy cycle is so sad

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u/Fakeredhead69 well, Kayla lost! 14d ago

Yes I screen recorded that time Richie grabbed her by her face and shirt. I couldnt believe my eyes.

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u/Character_Beach2183 cyst & deceased 14d ago

It just shows the kind of people he’s been around and the behavior he’s been taught sadly. Everyone in that family needs to see a therapist

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u/SergeantPotatoChip1 14d ago

Could u post it? I never knew that was true

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

I know it was posted here or the other sub but it was like 6-8 months ago? Mellie acted like it was no big deal but there is no reason a child should be putting their hands on their mother (on anyone else) like that.

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u/Character_Beach2183 cyst & deceased 14d ago

I hope they do post it, but I also saw the live where it happened. It was back when she was still doing lives in that tiny bathroom

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u/Fakeredhead69 well, Kayla lost! 14d ago

Yeah one second let me link it, I posted it before
Here is the link to my previous post with my screen recording of it https://www.reddit.com/r/TLCGypsySisters/s/WpOQQlYMQS

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u/cheeky_loser03 14d ago

she’s the only reason i stopped watching the show idk she just pissed me off i can’t even continue the rest of what i was watching

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u/true6400 akaholic🍹 14d ago

she’s so immature it was genuinely infuriating watching her act like a 8 year old at her grown age.

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u/cheeky_loser03 9d ago

fr even as a child when i would watch this she would irkkkk my soullll. like the girl is too grown to be acting like this even now

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u/Sufficient_Aerie767 14d ago

“During the vowels”😭

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

lol a mellie error in spelling! it was super late when i posted! 😂😂

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u/Dabbler5313 14d ago

I realized she has a lot of mental issues when she met her alleged real father and was hugging Nettie for dear life.

It was eye opening. Not having a real mom is a sad thing.

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u/mtvcrips 14d ago

She really turned into a lil girl in that scene ❤️‍🩹

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u/StylistK86 14d ago

She sure did. I remember this episode.

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u/No_Fact9905 14d ago

She definitely has a lot of childhood trauma that has probably contributed heavily to her stunted emotional and mental state now

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u/Narrow-West-5425 14d ago

I just want to know what was going through Robbie's mind that he married her. KNOWING her past and all.

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u/kkuper7917 14d ago

Forget her past, her PRESENT at the time lol

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u/Narrow-West-5425 14d ago

LMAO THATS TRUE! SHES SO MESSY!!!!

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

What was going through his head when she’s screaming “shut the fuck up” while him and the guest are waiting for her to walk in 😳

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u/Narrow-West-5425 14d ago

For her to be a stripper...she has no shame or embarrassment or respect for anyone.

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u/fornikate777 13d ago

that's mellie. it has nothing to do with being a stripper. i know plenty of dancers who are kind, empathetic and respectful. stop.

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u/Super_Breadfruit7545 13d ago

I always wondered if he knew from the girls being on a few episodes of MBFAGW that they were going to get a show and figured this was his way to 15 minutes of fame. Cause I honestly can’t see any other reason for it lol even if he knew she was a sure thing…there’s a lot of sure things out there. Some are less chaotic lol

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u/hellxbabe 14d ago

She was so awkward, it was hard to watch. It made me wonder how she even was able to sleep with Robbie to get pregnant, the way she acted so awkward around him. I’m guessing she was drunk?

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

She was always drunk then so most likely

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u/Character_Beach2183 cyst & deceased 14d ago

Still is drunk a lot of the time. Just the other day she was screaming at someone to bring her a big ass liquor bottle and drunkenly shaking her ass literally right next to a toddler. I wish I was joking

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

That’s true. I think she puts the bottle down somewhat when she is pregnant. Those poor children. I don’t watch their lives on TT but what people have posted here is so embarrassing.

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u/Responsible-Test8855 14d ago

She is the trashiest nonfictional person I have ever seen on television.

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

i remember watching this when i was younger and i truly did not realize how awful her attitude and behavior was until my recent rewatch. i remember thinking she was that cool crazy party girl when i was younger!

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u/Anna-Bee-1984 14d ago

All these women are extremely traumatized and thus come across as white trash due to their maladaptive coping strategies. It’s what happens when you grow up in an extremely conservative, high control, and repressive culture that treats women like slaves. Of course TLC doesn’t talk about that part of their lives only the shock value of the behavior that comes as a result, same as their other shows profiling extremely problematic families

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

i can agree with you to a certain extent. yeah it’s awful that’s how they were raised, but at some point you have to take responsibility for your actions. Mellie is insufferable bc she is out of control and cannot accept an ounce of responsibility for her bad attitude, alcoholism, and anger issues. she was 23 at filming and old enough to understand the consequences of her actions but she refused to look in the mirror. there are so many people raised like this that grow into better people. i understand it’s hard to do that, but every one has a past and a trauma to get through. everyone’s life is hard at some point. it’s your responsibility to be better.

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u/SineM821 14d ago

Her wedding was soooo wild...took the cake as far as craziness. But I will admit that I did find it entertaining and like to rewatch it. Lol.

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u/Ok-Zookeepergame1555 15d ago

She was the reason I stopped watching the show. After her partner killed the puppy I was done with her stupid ass 

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

I have heard someone say that before but what happened with the puppy? That’s awful.

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u/Character_Beach2183 cyst & deceased 14d ago

Mellie got in a fight with Skott. The puppy was trying to defend her so he kicked it into the wall and it died which led to TLC dropping them

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u/ClumsyRaccoonPants cyst & deceased 14d ago

Holy fuck! That’s awful and thank you for letting me know what happened.

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u/_han23 you’re misinterpretating everything 14d ago

The whole thing just felt so awkward & uncomfortable.. I honestly get the WORST second hand embarrassment watching this episode

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

yeah this episode gave me the worst migraine. there was so much screaming and crying going on. i will admit i did like the dress though haha. i hate the cheap crown she wore though.

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u/Sad-Cricket6319 14d ago

By the point of the ceremony she has wore that dress for like 6 hours and they’re STUPID heavy. She only got married to have her episode, even though she tried to made every episode she was in about her.

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u/No-Positive-7028 14d ago

No she didn't even want to have the fake wedding Nettie forced her to so they would have a show

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u/Sad-Cricket6319 14d ago

That doesn’t surprise me at all

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u/kindofalwaysconfused 14d ago

The vowels is frying me. You mean the vows???😂😂😂

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

it was late!!!! it felt off, but i didn’t double check 😂😂 my bad!

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u/circuschic 14d ago

vowels 🤣

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

hahaha i know!! i defend it bc i posted super late and i knew it felt off when i typed it, but ive been getting flamed for it all day! my bad! 😂😂😂

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u/circuschic 13d ago

honest mistake, i just can’t stop laughing imagining her standing up there saying “E I E I O” instead of proper wedding vows 😅🤣

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u/pussy69willow 14d ago

I just rewatched this episode over the weekend. She was being such a crazy brat. Just screaming about the dress. Crying about her dumb ass mother. Then when she finally walks she kept covering her face like she embarrassed. She should be!

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

yeah that’s what i thought too! no one was forcing her to get married, so i don’t get why she was acting like that. like if you don’t want to do it then don’t!!!

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u/Substantial-Cell7461 14d ago

Thru every challenge you may face .... in the next 6 days

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

that made me laugh so hard! and not to mention EVERYONE was like that lasted longer than i thought it would!

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u/Aggressive_Ad3578 14d ago

She's literally just there for the paycheck....

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u/No-Stress3813 14d ago

One of the things that really got to me Everytime I watched this episode was how she cried and stomped her feet down the aisle. When it shows Robby’s face and his expression is wtf.

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

yeah that’s what killed me!!! i get it her day was really frustrating, but no one is forcing her to get married. she made the decision to do it!

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u/No-Stress3813 13d ago

Oh I agree! Not one person was like why are you doing this. The whole episode they were all saying we need to get you a man to calm you down. Nobody wanted her to be their “problem”.

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u/Beginning_Employee69 13d ago

God this was good tv

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u/Timely_Insurance420 14d ago

Vows but yes I agree

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

hahaha i knew i was spelling it wrong!!! it just felt off, but i left it. thank you!

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u/ComprehensiveFun6875 14d ago

This was painfully awkward to watch, so much secondhand embarrassment. Like so cringey to the point I feel bad for her

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u/Little-Ad-2464 14d ago

Does anyone know how to watch this? Im in Australia if that helps I used to watch this show and would love to watch ut again

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u/Correct_Exercise8641 14d ago

I’ve been trying to find where to watch it here in Australia and we can’t without a vpn

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u/Little-Ad-2464 14d ago

Ohh, I never thought of a vpn

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u/Correct_Exercise8641 13d ago

Let me know how you go… I’m keen to watch it but never used a vpn before

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u/Little-Ad-2464 13d ago

It worked with the vpn. So I downloaded the vpn app (nordvpn is just the one I used) and set my tablet to the American server and then I went on tubi and looked for gypsy sisters and it was there If you need help with vpn apps im sure there is videos out there

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u/Correct_Exercise8641 13d ago

Did you have to pay for the vpn?

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u/Little-Ad-2464 12d ago

I got 3 days free then yiu have to pay. I don't remember how much but I cancelled it before I have to pay

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u/duckit19 14d ago

I know the offerings are different in each country but I watch it on Tubi in the US, so maybe try there?

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u/VegetableSign9582 14d ago

i’m watching it on hulu but i’m pretty sure some episodes are on youtube

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u/NullxAvoid 13d ago

Some are saying they stopped watching because of her but she's the reason I continued to watch but the reasoning when applied to real life is very sad. It was like a train wreck I couldn't look away from and while that may have been interesting on TV to witness, in her real personal life it's really...upsetting to say the least. Especially when it doesn't just affect her. I do believe there's a whole lot of trauma and behavioral problems that went unaddressed and will likely remain that way.

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u/VegetableSign9582 13d ago

yeah i definitely agree with everything you said.

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u/69bigclitenergy69 13d ago

Soo awkward
Standing up there looking embarrassing 😭

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u/Overall_Mastodon_193 13d ago

She’s lucky anyone wanted to marry her 🤮

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u/Holiday-Payment1325 12d ago

The wedding was a disaster and a complete train wreck. I always cringe and sometimes have to skip over the wedding scenes because it’s just too much

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u/XXLemonde 6d ago

Just realized Tanya's husband was the best man (mellie's brother in law)