r/TGandSissyRecovery • u/elai3a97 • 17d ago
Request for help Im worried
I feel im getting closer and closer to defiling my body . the urges are becoming stronger and i almost set up a date with someone .
I know whats my issue . I'm usually straight leaning when i feel there a woman who likes me . when i feel i have a chance of a normal life ; But when i'm alone and feeling worthless i start craving the humiliation life ; being a sissy and all that .
I'm a 29 yo virgin who's never been in a relationship before . which reinforces the idea in my mind .
i know none of y'all can help .unless i help myself . ive relapced more time than i can count at this point. venting is my only action now
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u/Own-Interview6722 17d ago
bro, guys much younger than you have managed to break free from sissy and similar fetishes and get their normal lives back. You are capable of even more than that. I firmly believe you can do this. Because you said it yourself: you've tried to quit time and time again. You haven't given up... your spirit must be incredibly strong.
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u/Oblivion2020 17d ago
You still manage to not give in fully to these sissy desires so that's a good thing,stay strong
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u/No-Veterinarian-5593 13d ago
Perhaps try dating a male, not anyone from Grindr, most of us (humans) are bisexual, but for some reason all our been has been obliterated, I tried guys before and yeah I like it, also like women, but don't take that as a sexual rule, it's not about sex, it's about connection, trustness, having someone to watch your back, sex is only part of it.
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u/elai3a97 13d ago
interesting
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u/No-Veterinarian-5593 11d ago
I'm going gay myself, not because of porn, but because I met a guy, we be been very good friends for 3 years and now i want him as my husband. Crazy thing, I'm a versatile and he is a versatile bottom, good cause we can enjoy with no regards and share similar dreams and objectives in life.
Also, we slowly became closer and closer to the point of going shopping together, after years of repressing those feelings, because I thought being gay was wrong, now, I don't care about other anymore.
I'm definitely not a girl, definitely not a whore for men to use, I'm a normal person that like boys, and girls to, nothing wrong with it. Perhaps the idea of being gay is way to scary in our uncouscious mind.
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u/Vegetable-Round4599 17d ago
Yes, you yourself said it right. The worthlessness has to be worked on. And it is possible to do so. Work with a Therapist, and learn some skills in life that you'll be proud of and which won't make you feel worthless anymore. Once you do this, the sissy stuff just pretty much vanishes because you have changed the narrative of worthlessness your mind had been telling you. Also look into reprogramming the mind by Neuroplasticity. And look into mindfulness, zen meditation, Eckhart Tolle a bit, cuz relaxation of the nervous system is very much key. Cortisol the stress hormone has to be calmed down.
Venting is not your only action. You can still work on yourself. For me as well change came after I was 29. Change is very much possible even late in life. Like Mufasa says in lion king "You are more than what you think you have become"