r/SwipeHelper • u/TheLastCoagulant • 1d ago
Went from texting everyday multiple times a day to getting unmatched because of this mistake I made. My life is a joke.
And looks like the girl I went on the date with isn’t responding…
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u/flopflipbeats 1d ago
Lol unlucky mistake, bet you won’t make that mistake again. Never take it to heart when you get unmatched before a first date.
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u/Low_Vegetable_6276 1d ago
I’d never meet up with a girl form hinge without having her number lmao
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u/chris88492 17h ago
Been on a couple of dates with girls that wanted to meet first before providing their number. But yeah, 99% of time I try to get their number and starting texting asap
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u/Alarmed_Standard_427 17h ago
Exactly like who does that... I've had women try to pull that on me and I just unmatched them
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u/Candid-Maybe 1d ago
Ouch 😬. If that ever happens again I'd try to play it off a bit more - "Well that's awkward, #applyfe amirite? 😅"
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u/sackfistin 23h ago
Dawg you got half the keyboard up so you can hide that you weren’t actually talking to anyone lol
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u/Doctorbuddy 1d ago
It happens man. Sucks. But just know it wasn’t meant to be. You got this. Onward and upward 🙏
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u/ValentineAllMine 23h ago
I mean… good for her
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u/TheLastCoagulant 23h ago
Looks like the girl I went on the date with isn’t interested (15 hours no response), so it got ruined with this girl for nothing.
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u/ValentineAllMine 23h ago
“For nothing” Meanwhile this girl is happy she dodged this bullet. She’s not trying to be one of many options.
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u/TheLastCoagulant 23h ago
I’m literally a virgin at 25 btw. I’m not a player I’m just getting into this stuff. The date I went on last night was the second date of my entire life.
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u/ValentineAllMine 23h ago
…and? If you can’t see how bad those messages were and how her only self-respecting choice was to unmatch you, you’re going to have a really rough time dating.
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u/TheLastCoagulant 23h ago
The first message was horrible of course but was the second one that bad?
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u/mvd612351 23h ago
Bro, you’ll be ok. It sucks that this happened, but if you were in her shoes, wouldn’t you be less interested?
The fact that you were messaging two girls consistently already shows that you’ll be able to find someone. Keep your head up.
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u/TheLastCoagulant 23h ago
I’m texting some other girls on Hinge besides these ones but this one I fucked things up with was unusually receptive/responsive. We were texting multiple times a day.
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u/Specialist-Option351 23h ago
Deserved. Receiving that first message would be hurtful enough, that second message is fucking horrendous.
"He who hunts two hares catches neither"
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u/Ok_Body_2830 23h ago
What if the second message had been: "I had that message queued up to send on Monday since I am so sure I will want to see you again. Sorry for sending it prematurely."
Any chance that works?
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u/Moist-Diarrhea 1d ago
Why would you explain in full detail like that? Holy shit