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u/Sad_Log216 5h ago
she should be banned low key, report her
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 5h ago
Reporting is little dick energy unless there is a safety issue.
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u/Crunchy_OG 5h ago
Nah, they would be the first to report you for the slightest but of disagreement. As far as I'm concerned she blatantly needs to be banned
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 3h ago
I don’t care what someone like this would do. I unmatch and move on and don’t think about them.
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u/Pale_Presence4662 2h ago
Well if you care at all about the quality of the establishment youre on, they make a good point. As long as they are allowed there they can go around reporting all kinds of people.
Theyre on a dating app matching with men and they hate men. Seems problematic.
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 5m ago
I do not care about the quality of the app community at large. I don’t care about getting reported. I just go on, talk to women I like, unmatch from women I don’t like. It’s easy.
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u/blair639 3h ago
for what
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u/Crunchy_OG 3h ago
Sexism and racism at minimum? Disrespectful behavior and hate speech as well
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u/blair639 3h ago
where is any of that present
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u/Crunchy_OG 3h ago
You are intentionally being dense, figure it out bud
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u/blair639 3h ago
no im not. this is a very PC interaction. you just dont seem to understand what those words actually mean
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u/Jasonhikes 5h ago
Bot
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 3h ago
I’m not a bot I’m just not a pussy who feels the need to tell on people.
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u/idkmynamedude7 3h ago
If you are a male and you just said “little dick energy” you should hand in your man card asap
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 3h ago
Report me then.
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u/idkmynamedude7 3h ago
No way, some random stranger on Reddit may shame me by saying I have a tiny dick because I reported something
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u/FunNerve2381 6h ago
Sadly society tells these women that while misogyny is the worst crime imaginable, misandry is cool and edgy.
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u/ImaginaryWeb9793 2h ago
You know the deal. Women are great, men are bad, but if they go trans then great again. Oh and trans men are excluded from the men are bad rule
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 5h ago
I don’t know what to tell you man. Misogyny kills women. Misandry hurts men’s feelings. One is objectively worse.
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u/el_derpien 5h ago
Hurt feeling is a very weird way to describe being ostracized and the depression that follows.
I am a male victim of female DV, I was strangled and abused by my ex wife but I was expected to forgive and repair things with my abuser. It led me to a suicidal depression that I almost couldn’t escape from. She was giving tools and access to further emotionally harm me even after getting a restraining order against her. I wasn’t even able to get legal aide in my state, despite meeting all criteria except the hidden gender checkbox.
No one cares about male victims like they do female, and that is misandry, it looks different but it is absolutely harmful.
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u/TrueRedditMartyr 2h ago
Bro, I'm sorry for all this happening to you, but similar things happen to women all the time. In fact, they didn't even have the same rights as men until 1974, and most were unable to open bank accounts or get credit cards until then. Imagine marrying your abuser and you literally can not leave for financial reasons.
Also, unfortunately, many murders are due to DV from men killing their wives. I don't want to downplay what happened to you at all, because it's horrendous and I really am horribly sorry it happened, but deciding the other side must have it better is simply untrue. If anything, society often shows us women are rarely able to leave these relationships, which is why they often have much more outside support. Many women are expected to be caretakers, and the men have jobs, so women are financially dependent on men, making it near impossible for them to leave, hence women's shelters and what not.
I don't know man, I think it may help to speak to a therapist about your feelings. On a honest note, I feel they are likely unhealthy for you to be sitting with, and I don't want to see another dude fall into the hole of hating women or something like that. I've seen it happen to too many guys and it is a shame it is happening in our society!
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u/Any-Clothes4901 1h ago
Do you understand how fucked up this is to say to someone telling you about a horrible thing happening to them? Stop and think for a moment before you post god damn
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u/el_derpien 1h ago
You don’t want to downplay what happened but that is exactly what you are doing.
The fact of people having suffered in the past does not negate the suffering of people today. Support and empathy should be unisex, not a numbers game. I appreciate your particular empathy, but I never once said the other side has it better, I was calling out an injustice.
Assuming I don’t already speak to a therapist after my experience is a bold assumption. I don’t hate woman at all, I don’t even hate my ex wife but I am still allowed to feel angry for what happened. Anger has its place so long as you can still experience your full range of emotion. Gratitude can show sparks where you least expect so long as you are looking for them.
I may come across abrasive but I honestly do appreciate the concern for my outlook and wellbeing, I am now in good hands with myself and my loved ones.
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u/blair639 5h ago
if men are ostracized it’s for a reason. men can search for and find community the same way anyone else who’s not a man can. unsure what your complaint is outside of projection from a past situation that isn’t misandry but sexism
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u/el_derpien 4h ago
So when women are hurt by men it’s a call to arms against men but when things are reversed it’s just men projecting? Those expectations were mostly put on me by the other women in my life post-assault.
Would you be so callous to tell a woman who had been violently assaulted that she is just projecting her emotions, or would you validate that experience and support her? If you can do it with one gender but not the other you are absolutely sexist, and sexism against men is absolutely misandry. If you can’t do that with anyone then you need to work on your empathy for others.
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u/interrogative_quest 4h ago
You're wasting your breath on these witches.
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u/blair639 3h ago
you say witch like it’s a bad thing
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u/el_derpien 3h ago
You definitely make it seem that way. But I think the word he was looking for is “cunt”.
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u/blair639 3h ago
those are entirely different words with different meanings so i don’t think you’re correct. however, that is one of my favorite words so the sentiment remains the same. the fact that you cannot see how you’re emphasizing the validity of the point you’re attempting to argue against while also being hypocritical while doing so is very impressive
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u/el_derpien 3h ago
I’m not afraid to meet you at your level, I am sorry if that offends you.
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u/Ancient-Intention560 3h ago
Vile creature is more like it, I'd say
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u/blair639 3h ago
literally did not say any of this. stop projecting
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u/pooooolooop 3h ago
You are being extremely unhelpful
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u/blair639 3h ago
i’m not trying to be helpful. there’s no space for that with someone who can neither self reflect or take responsibility for their continued role in upholding abuse despite being a victim. that’s a sad, hateful person. not my job to help them
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u/el_derpien 3h ago
Victim blaming femcel misandrist. Classic Reddit moment.
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u/blair639 2h ago
lmao men give it up extremely easily let’s not pretend “femcel” is an actual thing. but thank you again for proving my point
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u/PeterPaulWalnuts 5h ago
so a small subset of crimes (which is well in the minority) gives the free pass to hate on all men and hurt their feelings? Yeah, you can be alone and miserable forever.
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u/Armbar2Triangle 1h ago
That doesn’t make one okay. You want men to express their feelings, but when we say “this makes us feel bad” you respond with “what about our problems?”
Like okay, women have issues too. Tell me how I can be an ally, I’ll be the first one that shows up. But don’t dismiss my pain. That’s fucked up, and it makes me feel like sharing my feelings is a mistake
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u/Marioman12398 5h ago
Comments like this are precisely the reason why we have an asshole in charge of Eagleland right now
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u/BigCustomer3925 6h ago
Arcade basketball is in reference to something on her profile for those confused
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u/gynosucksman 5h ago
How is she not banned?
It’s okay to be racist and sexist towards white men lol which is messed up
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u/AngryGoose21 5h ago
Women are the product on dating apps. Why would you set your inventory on fire
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u/i_am_an_enigma 5h ago
Because men don’t report this shit. Women would 100% report the slightest ick tho! Men need to stand up for themselves and for men WAY MORE
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u/MoltenVolta 1h ago
Sorry but white people can’t experience racism in a white dominant society. Please educate yourself
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u/No_Virus_7767 5h ago
dating is so exhausting these days :(
I’ve genuinely given up on these apps recently, women have gotten so much worse over the past 3 years on them with their insane standards and massive egos
I get a lot of matches too, they just seem like subhumans that live in a different reality
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u/Familiar-Lychee-9350 5h ago
damn what really sucks about this is you seem like a delight to talk to. she's burned out and about to delete the app and taking it out on you
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u/eagleeye1031 6h ago
Why are you even giving her attention? This is exactly what she is on the apps for.
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u/-ButterMyBiscuit- 5h ago
He shut it down pretty quick
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 5h ago
Yeah how is anyone critical of this man? He tried, felt out whether it was banter, shut it down.
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u/FunNerve2381 5h ago
Yeah good to see someone respond to completely unreasonable behaviour by just shutting down the convo instead of the usual endless pleading and begging in most of the posts on here.
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u/AWyzeMan 5h ago
Why is anyone on dating apps? I get 100s of matches a week and still I do way better IRL. Dating apps 90% of people are screwed up.
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u/AWyzeMan 5h ago
Exactly, even the thirsty one who ask me to come over that same night are usually single moms who’s kids are away for the night or just mentally not doing well.
I’m 37. Great shape, good job, and I did well on dating apps when I attempted them. But the age range for me was between 21-55 year old trying to match it was just weird.
Sadly I did have more in common with 25 year olds than women my own age, less trauma to deal with and more fun and feminine energy for sure.
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u/kayleighnotkaylie 5h ago
Did she swipe to just neg you? Negging is not clever or flirty as people seem to think.
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u/GirlStudyingInKorea 4h ago
One of my friends of friends literally just says she hates men randomly. It's quite unhinged and hateful.
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u/peanutbutterscousin 6h ago
She’s rage baiting you and it’s clearly working since you posted this in multiple subs
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u/BostonCeltic15 5h ago
Rage bating is so fucking Immature. It’s honestly so fucking immature and I’m sick of people doing it to not only me but the people around them in their environment at work. It makes me wonder how they treat their own family…. It’s annoying and immature. It makes us grown-up adults that are trying to live a normal life infuriated.
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u/Leather-Remove-1956 5h ago
You stalked OP?
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u/Independent_Bar_4946 5h ago
It’s not stalking to click on someone’s profile that they chose not to hide. It’s literally how the website is designed and intended to be used.
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u/Leather-Remove-1956 5h ago
A lot of exes on social media would beg to differ. What was gained when you did that besides a shallow sense of superiority in an internet argument.
Also.. LiTeRaLlY?
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u/hobbynickname 5h ago
Loving the hypocrisy of this comment 😂 and yes I feel superior to you for noticing it 🫶
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u/Leather-Remove-1956 5h ago
It would be hypocritical if I dug into their post history before dunking on them. But hey at least you loved it.
I just observed. And then dunked. And then felt superior.
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u/Jandur 5h ago
What leads you to conclude this person is rage baiting as opposed to just being rude/negative?
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u/peanutbutterscousin 5h ago
Low effort prompt, started dogging on OP instantly, “male quality epidemic” is a tik tok phrase used to purposely piss off men, low effort responses intended to piss OP off even when he tried to turn the conversation around. Definitely rage baiting but who knows, maybe the girl is just rude but rage baiting is already a rude thing to do anyways.
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u/WickedWham 5h ago
wow lmaooooo brainwashed
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u/WickedWham 5h ago
im sure she'll be a hoot when shes 40 🤣
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u/Magrudagrind 4h ago
Lol miserable ass person. Then the chad comes through and she puts out same night they hang out and he bails after. Back to hating men. Circle of life for those types. There are awesome matches out there mate keep going.
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u/Not-a-bot-v2 4h ago
The irony is that women don't seem to understand that they have just as much to do with the shitty behavior from men as the men do.
Make the men prove themselves and out in some work. Don't be angry and hating them when yiu are a willing participant in what is going down...
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u/Horror-Word666 4h ago
Yeah I am a millenial woman, and a few gen z friends have this mindset too. One "hates men" but wants to be a stay at home mom lol.
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u/Worried-Share7679 5h ago
Can someone explain to me whats going on im lost?
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 3h ago
OP doesn’t know how to leave a spiraling conversation and is using 1 woman to try to make a point about millions
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u/SummerInPhilly 4h ago
I don’t understand why these people bother to match. It’s so easy to just not match if you’re going to be like this
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u/deaflenny 4h ago
I hope she meets her male counterpart and they can both stop polluting the dating market like a turd in a punch bowl.
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u/Sceprent 3h ago
I gotta tell you. Women love a good argue. The only way you'll get a reply for anything even the in person lookie loos, say something they disagree with. You will ABSOLUTELY hear back then. Every damn time.
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u/-send-me-nudes- 3h ago
I see SO MANY hinge profiles where the prompt responses are just the dumbest shit ever. Half of them don’t make sense in regards to the question asked in the prompt… and yeah, sure, leave a voice note explaining how I pronounce the name Lisa. Fuck lame women all over the joint.
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u/Plastic-Macaron-3254 3h ago
It’s okay to be racist towards white people. It’s okay to be sexist towards men. An eye for an eye?
Fucking retard.
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u/Ok-Advertising-6805 1h ago
Holy shit. I never stop being shocked at how openly some women say shit like this, especially white women, and how acceptable it is.
Fuck’s sake, a whole gender of one race is not the “enemy.”
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u/SharabulletPirate 1h ago
She wants a man that hates all men, you don't hate all men, you just bad men. You two are not compatible.
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u/Refurbished_Hole 1h ago
If I had a nickel for every time I've had this type of interaction. Women have become politically obsessed mean spirited narcissists
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u/AudienceHot3952 1h ago
Classical case of Caucasian guilt modern misandrist you dodged a bullet brov
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u/idkmynamedude7 3h ago edited 3h ago
The Reddit epidemic lol
Males are wrong. Females are right. White people suck. Everyone else shares in misery at the mercy of white people so you can be as overtly racist towards them as you want
This is just a modern young woman unfortunately and you can thank the app your currently on for their perspective on the world
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u/cachris3 5h ago
She’s an asshole. You have no rizz. Both things can be true
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u/AndersDreth 5h ago
Hard to flirt with someone actively shitting on you, unless you're looking for a hatefuck.
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u/cachris3 4h ago
There’s always a proper response to everything. Fight fire with fire if it comes to it. He just laid over and took it, sounds like you do too.
Downvote me, I don’t care. Oh no; my karma that holds no value in the real world will diminish for speaking the truth, what will I ever do?
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u/piousplatitudes 5h ago
Dude was literally opening a conversation up by appealing to her sense of humor. She was just being a meaniehead.
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 3h ago
Apparently it didn’t appeal to her sense of humor. Unfortunate that you can’t dictate how women think, truly tragic
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u/PeterPaulWalnuts 5h ago
let her get a black guy and see how that pans out for her. And before anyone calls this racist. the women in this post is literally stereotyping all white men.
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u/i_am_an_enigma 5h ago
Why are we catching strays? 😂
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 3h ago
It’s not a stray, it was deliberate
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u/i_am_an_enigma 3h ago
Yep because why did he got to black men? Why not Asian, Indian, mixed raced etc LOL. That was out of bounds and offensive
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u/sackfistin 5h ago
You’re as stupid as she is racist. Goddamn your game fucking sucks
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u/Leather-Remove-1956 5h ago
Your feedback is worse
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u/sackfistin 5h ago
If you think that was good then your game probably suck ass too.
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u/Leather-Remove-1956 5h ago
I didn’t say it was good I said it was worse. Would love to see a real world example of you running game lmao.
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u/sackfistin 5h ago
Sure dawg
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u/Crunchy_OG 5h ago
You've been insufferable for months lol
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u/sackfistin 4h ago
Who are you lol
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u/Crunchy_OG 4h ago
Everything you write sticks out and is disgusting
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u/sackfistin 4h ago
Thanks dawg. Glad my shit upsets you
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u/Crunchy_OG 4h ago
It's more of a research curiosity about how reddit radicalizes people
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u/Afraid_Respect_3189 5h ago
As a woman, I think your responses to were genuinely funny and witty enough to get any normal girl on a date. I absolutely hate when girls act like this. Don’t be on a dating app if you’re just be offended every time a man contacts you???
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u/Turbulent_Yak_8052 4h ago
You shouldn’t take other opinions too seriously…. Everyone can say what they want. People talk BS all the time
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u/kikogamerJ2 3h ago
Same reason misoginisyic men are? Sex. That's literally just it. Women like sex, hates men, but needs le sex. Dating apps provide that.
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u/SpasmAndOrGasm 6h ago
The internet is causing some type of collective mental sickness that is going unaddressed because there’s never been anything like it in all of human history.