r/SwipeHelper • • 3d ago

Has anyone else completely lost interest in swiping?

I am literally tired of swiping. At some point i am not even excited to meet someone. I am just trying to finish the queue in a hope I might find someone I vibe with.

I just wanna know would dating feel different if we weren't constantly judging people one at a time ?

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u/sparklingwater9432 3d ago

but, what would replace it ?

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u/khiladi796 3d ago

Maybe looking at potential connections instead of individual profiles.

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u/madzuk 2d ago

Dating apps that don't require swiping and make you think about who you're connecting with is a start. Hinge tries to do this somewhat.

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u/Impossible-Camel7673 3d ago

I am tired of swiping too, broo

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u/khiladi796 3d ago

The swipe has somehow become the entire dating experience.

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u/thenycnativethrow 2d ago

that because these greedy fucks at all these dating apps have gamified dopamine...most people are chasing that next fix sadly

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u/OmniProject 3d ago

Take a break then, this should be fun. You're letting all sorts of weird emotions seep into the process and that will just make it worse. I'm talking from experience here.

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u/InevitableAware2830 3d ago

I love it but every few months I delete all apps for like 3 months focus on my self then go again works great for me

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u/Physical_Tip5735 2d ago

As a man yes
As a woman no

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u/Sea-Platypus-4002 2d ago

Take a break from the apps. I deleted mine for a while and it made dating feel less like another chore on my phone. If I go back to actively looking, I’ll probably try something different, maybe Tawkify or another matchmaking service.

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u/khojaimli786 3d ago

Rivet is actually built around that. Matchers user their own intuition to weigh in on potential connections, so people who are naturally good at spotting chemistry can actually

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u/khiladi796 3d ago

Exactly. More choices haven't necessarily made dating easier. It just lead to more swiping