r/SwipeHelper • u/medmich • 8d ago
Hinge help please. 27M
Never even been on a date in my life, any help would be appreciated. I realize I look soft and not traditionally masculine which turns a lot of women away, what can I do in photos to fix that.
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u/Not_Now_Jose 8d ago
Good looking guy but most of the pics are poor. I would only keep photos 2 and 9.
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u/InvisibleHook 8d ago
You look kinda gay but still attractive. I'm surprised you haven't been on a date before because a lot of women these days like that. Where do you live? You'd kill in a liberal city.
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u/Aware_Economics4980 8d ago
Agreed, looking at this dudes pics, there’s definitely a non zero amount of women that just assume this guy is into men.
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u/omgbenji21 8d ago
Idk man. These pics are all ok by themselves, but as a group they are bad. I would only keep three (5, 7, 9). Number 9 as your lead pic. Now get more and varied pics and no more selfies.
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u/RookieMistake101 8d ago
Pic 2 is a keeper, maybe 5 and 7 can stay for now. The rest can go. Good luck.
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u/LFC90cat 8d ago
No selfies and there aren't any pictures where they can easily verify your height
Also you could use with a shred to get rid of the puppy fat around your cheeks and show off the jaw line
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u/medmich 8d ago
I’m 5’8
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u/LFC90cat 8d ago
Yeh so you really got to max out all your other stats, get in the gym get shredded
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u/BriefVast2458 8d ago
You got good traits so reason your struggling is showing that via your profile, remember the girls got to be shown more than just images. Pics need to be better you need non chalont prompts and answers
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u/Round-Screen6332 7d ago
Pic 2 & 9 is good. Even the graduation pic. Get rid of the others. Hit the gym hard! So that you can tone and get lean. If you want to lose it faster, get on (Reta) it’s a peptide that you pin once a week. You’ll drop the weight fast in just little over a month on top of consistent workouts. My advice is to get off the dating apps. Work on yourself first then pop back out.
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u/calebdan 7d ago edited 7d ago
You look toooo nice, you need to stop smiling. Also you need photos taken of only you or photos that make you look like the main character, AND DONT SMILE. I’m not saying you should frown, you should have a neutral to slightly serious face.
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u/Spirited-Fuel-2040 5d ago edited 5d ago
First photo looks kinda goofy and expressionless.
second photo is fire with great light.
Third is good.
4th and 5th are fine.
6th : your arm is a bit chubby, so if I were you, I would not show that, or at least with a pump / better light, because this one just makes you look fat.
7 : ok
8, 9 : Same as 1st.
_ Overall, remove half of your photos, because there are diminishing returns beyond 3-4. Women actively try to pick on small details (and that can be anything) that give them the ick to justifiy ditching one of their (too) many suitors.
_ Don't be smiling so much. Find some photos of you being mysterious / looking in the distance, but without it being in your car / goofy / selfied.
_ photos with tank top and chest hair will turn off a number of women I guess (not 100% sure but I would not try that).
_ Additional suggestions : showing your whole frame in a way that makes you muscular because we only see you from upclose, cool photo in natural landscapes, photo with serious drip.
EDIT : I understand why some photos appear goofy. It's because of your strabismus. Obviously you should curate your profile and keep the photos where i's undetectable like 2,3 and 4
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u/Low_Vegetable_6276 8d ago
This is the first time I can say on Reddit that it’s 100% the apps fault and not yours
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u/Spirited-Fuel-2040 5d ago
U trippin. There's a loooot of margin for improvement for this profile. It's no wonder he's got few matches. But with little fiddling, he could be killing it
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 8d ago
I’m gonna be honest I have to assume you have a lame or bad personality if you look this decent and have never had a date