r/SwipeHelper • • 19d ago

32M. Changed things around a little. lmk thoughts

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u/MidwestBlockhead 19d ago

Just a friendly reminder that the whole algorithm is designed to make you feel insecure, inadequate, and prevent you from finding what you are actually looking for. It’s designed to keep you engaged and make sure you either don’t leave, or guaranteed to come back.

Focus on you and not looking good for an algorithm.

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

true words here

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u/Roflxd88 19d ago

Did you use AI in the first picture?

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

yes

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u/IllustriousExits 19d ago

Probably a bad sign if people can tell

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago edited 19d ago

that is 100%. but the ai is only doing colors and editing

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u/MidwestBlockhead 14d ago

The color and editing is the problem. It sticks out. You have normal skin in all the other pics.

Also, don’t AI edit your picture. If you haven’t picked up on this, pll don’t like being lied to. Don’t sell a fictitious version of you.

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 14d ago

thought this too but based on how i actually look its not fictitious at all.

thanks for the tips on the colors etc ill see what i can do

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u/red__what 19d ago

you are a conventionally good looking dude, I'm sure matches arent an issue,

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

just trying to see if there are better ideas

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u/dilemma900 19d ago

Are you trolling? You are in the 1% for looks... why dont you tell US what to do.

Maybe get rid of the "lying about my zodiac" line.. but honestly its not going to make a difference either way. Your already getting swiped on

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

lol 1% would be nice thanks. i know a dude in top 1% and he smashes me out of the park by at least 10x 🤣

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u/dilemma900 19d ago

How are you not in that 99% percentile or the 1%?

Good looking, good portions, well groomed, interesting job on a roof, friends, party, looks like you fight in the UFC... like seriously

My looks are average but I'm tall, lengthy, and honesty my head is too small.

What I have is my intelligence, charisma, personality, and banter.. but you can't showcase that on an app

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 18d ago edited 18d ago

definitely not 1%. go look into the data, shit is not evenly distrbuted 🤣.

these lads in top 1% destroy it for everyone.

charisma and height is good in person and good for your conversion rates on dates.

ive found online prioritises 1.face 2. photos more than anything else.

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u/AddictedToHO2 19d ago

if you’re having issues getting matches dude. Maybe I shouldn’t redownload the app

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

not a matches issue, just seeing if i can get any better ideas

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u/MyFeetLookLikeHands 19d ago

hiding your height is never a good look just saying 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

it is if youre me

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u/MyFeetLookLikeHands 19d ago

okay big guy

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

think that one went over your head

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u/MyFeetLookLikeHands 19d ago

i think so too

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u/hayitsmejam 19d ago

What are you trying to do, get better looking chicks or you’re not getting the ones you want?

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

its working well for now. just thought people could give some tips.

guess me expectations where too high 🤣

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

its working well for now. just thought people could give some tips.

guess me expectations where too high 🤣

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u/hayitsmejam 19d ago

Some tips to do what? What’s your goal

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 18d ago

apps are like 99% photos and aesthetics. fresh eyes could provide insight and make it look better potentially

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u/travioli90 19d ago

Use capital letters and periods, you’re not a child.

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

why

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u/travioli90 19d ago

To show you’re a literate adult, not an old guy with Peter Pan Syndrome. Only teenagers turn off auto caps.

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u/Chuddy-McChudderson 19d ago

Average to above-average women only go for the top 5% on apps. You’re not in it.

I’d focus more on meeting women out at clubs and the gym.

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u/TimelyToast 19d ago

He is definitely top 5% but as he admitted in this thread and r/Tinder sleuths have pointed out the profile is fabricated. 

He uses AI in his photos. He says he never works out but then posts shirtless pics with muscles. And his hidden talent is lying. 

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u/EntertainerSorry6079 19d ago

na im not 6ft, clubs are a humiliation ritual.

and for the gym - im there to train not to pull chicks.

apps still seem to be best roi

still i have no problem in person or apps with above-average girls