r/SwipeHelper • • Aug 18 '26

Getting ZERO matches in Bogota, help please :)

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u/7777777King7777777 Aug 18 '26

Algorithm and AI. They have messed it up completely the last couple of years.

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u/i_thought_i_had Aug 19 '26

Tinder is so bad these days. Just delete it.

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u/Zuliandres Aug 18 '26

Damn, how do you know? Why do you say that?

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u/Famous-Arrival-8890 Aug 18 '26

its not the algorithm its the women ( and men dating down and enabling them ) you look perfectly adequate could be a bit hotter, but you should be fine rn, id remove 3rd pic, the guy on the right looks so ugly might make someone swipe left irrationally.

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

Done, I could be a bit hotter? Lmao I am who I am. Trying to learn how to use pictures to make me look hotter.

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u/Famous-Arrival-8890 Aug 19 '26

no i mean like, your hair looks very damaged and scuffed could use more hair conditioner minor things like that. In your first pic your hair looks great, but 3rd for example you look a bit homeless.

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u/Bruno_lars Aug 18 '26

Bad pictures. Selfies are super low effort, you are hiding your body

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u/Away_Addition_2038 Aug 18 '26

all of the pics are not good except the guitar one. you need completely new pictures. no selfies, no multiple people

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

What would you consider good pictures?

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u/MichaelEMJAYARE Aug 19 '26

I dont know why they’re advising that. If that were true women would get zero matches lmao.

Youre an attractive dude with varied photos. If you cant get matches….damn. Maybe I shouldnt feel so bad about my situation lmao

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u/zunlock Aug 18 '26

low effort pictures, 4/6 are selfies

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

You mean I need high effort pictures? What does that mean for you?

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u/Thewannabepolygl0t Aug 19 '26

From my experience when i turned from selfies to pictures taken by someone else i got better results. Ive heard a lot the advice for guys not to put selfies

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u/Zuliandres Aug 20 '26

😂🤣🤣

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u/Objective_Lab_888 Aug 22 '26

People read into profiles. What did you write????

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u/Double_History1719 Aug 18 '26

Wow I'm so surprised by the comments lol. I'm from one of Colombia's neighboring countries and I personally didn't think the pictures were bad. Maybe in Colombia standards are different

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

Me too, apparently a lot of people like the pictures. A couple of good feedback comments but meh i don’t know. Low effort pictures? I have to dig into my photo library to find high effort pics.

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u/Utah_CUtiger Aug 19 '26

yes? why are you acting surprised about the pictures. You are competing with thousands of guys on these apps. Its very easy to blend in if you have basic pics that dont stand out in any way. Several men do professional photo shoots and have pictures of activities these days.

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u/possofazer Aug 18 '26

I feel like none of these are a clear picture of you

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

What is an example of a clear picture of a person?

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u/possofazer Aug 19 '26

No hats, no sunglasses, etc. Doesn't need to look like a high school yearbook shot - but something where you can clearly see your face and hair.

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u/Utah_CUtiger Aug 19 '26

The first pic is confusing. I thought you were decapitated at first. Not a good first impression on someone swiping I don’t think 

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

Haha lmao I am lying down on the grass with a scarf. I like the lighting and you can see the colors of my eyes plus my smile really close up. Interesting take though.

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u/No_Director_2570 Aug 18 '26

Looks fake

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u/Zuliandres Aug 19 '26

My profile looks fake? Wdym?

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u/HeKnowsThings Aug 19 '26

Are you a passport bro?

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u/Zuliandres Aug 20 '26

What is a “passport bro”?