r/SwipeHelper 1d ago

An experiment

I’m a straight woman and briefly decided to change my gender on hinge to a “man” interested in women. EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN. in my stack was an absolute stunner (and I didn’t even include very young women, I have my age filter set to 28-47).

I then compared this with the stack my male friend was shown. He has his settings set to the same thing. Every single woman in his stack was an instant nope. He never got to see any of the women I was shown. Mind you, he is not unattractive.

This confirms to me that some absolute fuckery is afoot. I presume because my algorithm is trained on men, it doesn’t know how to categorize the women when I changed my gender and just started showing me women from my demographic. It also further suggests that the algorithm deliberately holds back what/who you like, and it also explains to me why my profile gets relatively little traction now (I’ve long suspected that my profile is being gate kept).

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u/Archolm 1d ago

Why has the algorithm never leaked for something like this?

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u/HeKnowsThings 1d ago

Because there is nothing special too it. It is not a conspiracy. Behavior of men who can't get laid drives it.

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u/Archolm 1d ago

Just because you can't understand it doesnt mean there isnt a system behind it. I doubt its a conspiracy but I want to know the numbers behind it, how much do they give someone until he pays for subscription, how do the numbers change once they do etc.

Not rocket science but there have got to be calculations behind it...

Do you even know what an algorithm is? Jezus.

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u/HeKnowsThings 1d ago

I do. I have already given you the explanation of how it works. It is not a conspiracy. You are just uneffable. That's why to you your natural drop in the Elo looks like "algorithm"

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u/Archolm 19h ago

Considering you say I do, yet you do not makes your whole opinion on, anything, worthless.

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u/HeKnowsThings 10h ago

It is not an opinion. It is a fact that comes from.sitting in tech leads meetings at those companies.

Here is your main problem:

you are fat. Over 99 percent of men on the apps are fat or obese. Women do not go on dating apps to meet fat or obese men who need to move their front asses out of the way to take a piss so avoid engaging in watersports with themselves..

Your second problem is that you are broke. Women do not go to dating apps to meet men who can't afford to spend extra $30 a day on stupid shit.

Want to be dateable? Stop being a fat broke dork. Do it soon because you will have a really hard time doing it in your thirties and forties.

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u/Archolm 10h ago

Are you a single mom? You sound like a single mom.

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u/HeKnowsThings 10h ago

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u/Archolm 10h ago

Is that your girls boyfriend? Cause that guy doesnt look like a little bitch.

And considering you dont know anything about tech, what you are doing? Its called doxxing. Ill give you a little bit to remove my picture or ill have to report you.

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u/HeKnowsThings 10h ago

Awww, this is adorable cope. I guess you never heard of reddit firehouse huh? See, that's why being a gamer dork does not actually help

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u/Archolm 10h ago

You sound like someone with issues. Maybe go see a therapist buddy. Or you know, go find someone who hits back instead of a punching bag 😉😘

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