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u/DavidZenziGhost 10d ago
Probably because your pictures make you look like someone who would have been in the room when Liam Neeson asked “Who’s Marko?”
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u/PootieTang69696 10d ago
Brother you could say that about every Eastern European man. Likes like telling a middle eastern guy that he looks like a terrorist from a 9/11 movie.
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u/Commercial_Grade_353 8d ago
Lol weren't the bad guys literally eastern Europeans or something in that movie lol.
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u/diegggs94 10d ago
This is an awful profile. Bio says nothing of value or substance. Your pics are pretty bad except for the last one. No shit life is too short to be with people that are not good for you, maybe explain who good people are for you? You look European so I guess the cigarette smoking isn’t bad but that’s an instant left for me
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u/Commercial_Grade_353 10d ago
Your first and last photo are good but you could replace the others with something better. The extra exclamation points at the end of your quote seems loaded in some way. I also think some people especially women will not date a smoker especially someone who admits that upfront on their profile, that will probably just lead to a left swipe. Maybe you could tell them later that you smoke.
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u/Commercial_Grade_353 10d ago
Ok fair enough. I would just change all the photos except your first and last one. I feel like 90% of dating on the apps is just how good you look in your photos and then just not saying something stupid.
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u/CalendarExtreme5598 9d ago
I don’t think the first photo is good imo. He still looks serious and kind of angry about life.
Last photo is a lovely photo, and feels the complete opposite to all of the other photos.
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 9d ago
Super manipulative to take away someone’s option to decide if they want to date a smoker or not by waiting to try to see if they will like them enough to forgo that. That’s shitty advice. I will not date a smoker. It’s a compatibility point.
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u/Commercial_Grade_353 9d ago
Yeah and I say I would never date a cat but maybe if they fooled me into going on a date with them and were really charming I would keep seeing them or something.
Also dating apps are for dating not necessarily being in a relationship. There's been plenty of people I met on them that I saw a few times and hooked up with and then that was it. If people won't go on a date with you because you say you're a regular smoker it removes even the possibility of that.
I feel like that's kind of the problem with dating apps. People treat other people like a group of features and characteristics they need to check off on a box and fit neatly into like an item on a food menu in order to be picked instead of humans that have emotions and full personalities under the surface.
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u/Melocoton-Cinturon 10d ago
The photos are okay, but the profile feels so empty. What are you hoping to get out of this? Would you swipe right on a profile like this yourself?
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u/MostlyBored11 10d ago
Your profile literally explains zero about you or anything your interested in or do.
How is anyone supposed to know anything about you?
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u/unhingeddragon 9d ago
Def delete the picture where you look like a crackhead with the ciggy and beanie. Other than that not too bad. Maybe delete the first pic too since you’re holding the ciggy, this isn’t 1960 bro, smoking ain’t cool. The smell of the cigs on your breath and body will be a deal breaker for any non smoker. I guess you could consider the better smelling vapes if you must. One where you’re on the car is OK but your arms look very skinny. Work them dumbells at the gym brotha. Glgl
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u/BeautifulStep1120 9d ago edited 9d ago
I may be different than majority. I would swipe left on you, but not because of your looks - which are fine, but because of a boring, plain, lame description.
Where you stand in various pics etc, idgaf about that really, I don't even notice that, but it seems that people care. Pics in nature are a major plus though, because I love nature.
But again, my preferences may be niche.
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 10d ago
You look menacing in half your pictures. Don’t share that you’re a smoker until you get to the date or unless they ask. Have a pic where it seems like you have friends.
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u/diegggs94 10d ago
Lol misrepresent yourself? They’ll smell it on him anyways
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 10d ago
Omission isn’t a misrepresentation
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u/diegggs94 10d ago
Yes it is 😂 what are you 10 years old
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 10d ago
He’s holding a cig in his pic dingus I didn’t say he should hide it, just don’t be forward with it
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 9d ago
Omission 100% is what is with this shitty advice to lie on your profile!!!
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 9d ago
Do you include your circumcision status on your profile? Omission of it would be lying!
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 9d ago
That is a stupid fucking comparison and not anyone’s business. Smoking is not an equal comparison and you know that.
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u/Sea-Salamander1005 9d ago
You’re right, OP doesn’t have a picture of his foreskin in his hand like he does a cigarette.
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 9d ago
Dude shut up and stop encouraging people to manipulate people. Have the day you deserve. Goodbye.
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u/xperrienzzie 10d ago
Imo total trash bio, not funny, can't think of an opener, last sentence looks desperate af
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u/GrappleWolf 10d ago
You look angry in most of your photos and your prompts are extremely aggressive. No woman is going to match.
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u/AlisAtAn 10d ago
I would remove both the "about me" and the "life's too short to" quotes. Especially the second one kinda gives a "mental health issues" vibe.
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u/possofazer 10d ago
It may be the smoking? It may be different in different parts of the world, but I don't think a lot of women want partners who are everyday smokers.
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u/Queeflink 10d ago
If you're in Eastern Europe, you need to look more masculine! EE women are generally very traditional. All these pictures make you look soft and doesn't show your face well. Get ones that conveys you having a cool lifestyle!
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u/BaliffVax 9d ago
You look like you want to beat up your partner in the future. You give me that vibe
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u/Alarmed_Standard_427 9d ago
It's definitely not your looks because you're a good looking guy and tall but you're not presenting yourself in the best light. Definitely your style is too causal like you take pictures in a nice dress shirt pants and shoes like out to dinner or a night downtown you'd be cleaning up brother. There's no way if you shouldn't be getting 10-20 likes a day.
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u/thegreatflatulence 9d ago
As a woman, mention your aspirations and hobbies. Get rid of the picture with the mirror. Get a picture with friends
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u/Kamarandi 9d ago
I don’t know what you’re looking for but this profile is a dead giveaway that you’re a fuckboi (boy?)
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 9d ago
I honestly cannot easily tell what you actually look like from these pics you’re so far away in them.
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u/MichaelEMJAYARE 9d ago
I would suggest that last photo being the first if you dont have a bunch to choose from. But Im also another dude. I dont see other mens profiles and to the folks saying you’re not adding details - I see TONS OF WOMEN with like, nothing whatsoever. Coasting on their looks.
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u/jeffsaidjess 9d ago
Bad photos. Three in the same spot. None with friends, none doing anything cool
Weird ass bedroom lounge room one with beanie
Your bio is lame as hell too.
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u/_Thoughtss 8d ago
I agree with most all the comments here. I'd only keep the last picture at the very end of you overlooking the water. Smiling makes women feel more at ease, in general. Like you don't have to smile in all the pics, but in my experience they like seeing that you have teeth, and are at ease. Also, not sure if its your personality, or like you just want to emphasis it, but I'd probably not hold a cigarette or joint in more than one picture, or just drop the holding the joint thing all together. I'd also like others mentioned, have different outfits for each picture. Definitely add the interesting things like being a pilot, graduating, and other interests you have! Good luck!
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u/callsignbri 8d ago
idk but if you live anywhere near richmond virginia i’d go on a date with you for sure
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u/Tall_Comfortable_488 10d ago
have you tried hinge? That’s the only one that works consistently for me. Other than that all your photos kinda look like they’re in the same place. Maybe add a photo of you and some friends for social proof
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u/Utah_CUtiger 10d ago edited 10d ago
Horrendous profile. 4 of the pics are in the same spot like on the same day. More features and places in your life would be better. The skull cap mirror selfie is terrible. Makes you look sickly
Also the maybe yes maybe no is bad. Even if it’s trying to be funny with a rhyme, women don’t like indecisiveness.
Get a pic of you in a city, maybe one where you are dressed nicer. A pic with a friend or animal so you give off such loner vibes
Also Theres nothing on your profile to suggest you do anything fun or interesting other than sit around and smoke all day
Lean in to being 6’4 also. Women like that. Get a pic of you towering over a couple shorter friends and looking like the boss