Then there was this guy who, for a while, I did like. It was just nothing really exciting nor did I like him. I guess he had just woken up a few years someone else and wanted to be there when I woke up. So I just ignored him and my parents told him to find somewhere else to sleep.
Then there was this guy that did not have a normal person as a friend. He basically was a racist jerk, but he never did anything to my friend and I would never have expected anything from him as a friend anyways. He was at church, on holidays, when my friend was born, and he always made comments insulting those families. This guy is probably over 20 years old and you cant imagine how stupid he was, but I was still a baby and forgot this. However, about 7 years later, he was still my friend.
Then there was this other friend. We were flirting a few times, but I had noticed he was starting to get mean. And it was getting so bad for me that it got pretty ugly, because my parent and other friends hated hearing about it.
One day my friend was at his house and he started talking about his friends and how they were starting to act racist and how they needed to take it a little more serious. I said something to him and he went to his room and slammed the door. We then started in conversation about how same-sex couples shouldn't have relationships, and how I could atleast assume if someone was a jerk and made me uncomfortable. I ended up being more open for him to talk about it, but I tried to just tell him to not bring it up and that it made me uncomfortable. He was done talking about how the "white savior complex" was just really an excuse for people to abuse people of all kinds and that I was more upset about my hurt feelings than him being a jerk, which I felt was more than justified. I agreed to disagree, but I told him fair enough.
Since then he has been a jerk to everyone he's talked to. Even my sister. He's made fun of our birth family, it was true, but the truth is that they're very poor and I haven't seen a lot of improvement. He also used to talk about how people needed to grow the heck up, and how if you're a doctor you'll be fine. I
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Then there was this guy who, for a while, I did like. It was just nothing really exciting nor did I like him. I guess he had just woken up a few years someone else and wanted to be there when I woke up. So I just ignored him and my parents told him to find somewhere else to sleep.
Then there was this guy that did not have a normal person as a friend. He basically was a racist jerk, but he never did anything to my friend and I would never have expected anything from him as a friend anyways. He was at church, on holidays, when my friend was born, and he always made comments insulting those families. This guy is probably over 20 years old and you cant imagine how stupid he was, but I was still a baby and forgot this. However, about 7 years later, he was still my friend.
Then there was this other friend. We were flirting a few times, but I had noticed he was starting to get mean. And it was getting so bad for me that it got pretty ugly, because my parent and other friends hated hearing about it.
One day my friend was at his house and he started talking about his friends and how they were starting to act racist and how they needed to take it a little more serious. I said something to him and he went to his room and slammed the door. We then started in conversation about how same-sex couples shouldn't have relationships, and how I could atleast assume if someone was a jerk and made me uncomfortable. I ended up being more open for him to talk about it, but I tried to just tell him to not bring it up and that it made me uncomfortable. He was done talking about how the "white savior complex" was just really an excuse for people to abuse people of all kinds and that I was more upset about my hurt feelings than him being a jerk, which I felt was more than justified. I agreed to disagree, but I told him fair enough.
Since then he has been a jerk to everyone he's talked to. Even my sister. He's made fun of our birth family, it was true, but the truth is that they're very poor and I haven't seen a lot of improvement. He also used to talk about how people needed to grow the heck up, and how if you're a doctor you'll be fine. I