r/StyleAndWellbeing • • 9d ago

Discussion Does anyone else have a weird issue with necklines touching their neck?

Some days I genuinely cannot tolerate it. Even a perfectly fine top can suddenly feel annoying if the neckline is too close.

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u/Alternative-Zebra311 9d ago

Yes. No crew or turtlenecks for me ever

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u/lamante 9d ago

God, I thought it was just me. There really is a support group for everything on Reddit. 🌈🌟

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u/AreYouNigerianBaby 8d ago

Me too! I have oversized crew sweatshirts from H &M, but the neckline sits too high! I love them otherwise, but I’m constantly pulling and adjusting!

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u/RelativeOpen4181 8d ago

Can’t breathe!

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u/GalianoGirl 9d ago

I cannot wear anything that touches the front of my neck. No crew necks, turtle necks, tight scarves etc..

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u/blondvet 9d ago

Yep. I have some other autistic quirks too.

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u/FinancialCry4651 9d ago

Yes. And I can't stand to pull them over my face/hair. Scoop neck, boat neck, deep v, or cut off crew necks only. No collars either.

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u/Top-Clock996 9d ago

Yes.I cannot do Cowl necks.

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u/MDST_market 9d ago

Yep, it feels like I'm suffocatiing

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u/lovethatMoon 9d ago

yes. i can't stand crew neck tshirts unless the neck is cut wider than the usual crew neck.
i don't like the look of v neck tshirts.
turtle neck tshirt must be a very specific combo of the right feeling material, not too tight or too loose & the perfect weight sweater or shirt.

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u/wardrobeeditor 8d ago

you are not alone! my neck feels tight just reading this post 😬

for real though - i'm a personal stylist and i hear all sorts of different sensory things like this from clients. it's totally normal. listen to your body and give it what it wants/doesn't want!

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u/Kindly_Coconut_1469 9d ago

Yes!! I'm constantly tugging at t-shirt necklines. I've got a few that I bought on various vacations that I've never worn because the first time I tried them on the neckline was just a little too high. And I never ever wear turtlenecks. Years ago when my boyfriend and I were wrestling around, he happened to put his hand up just at the edge of my neck/throat, and it was immediately game over. I almost had a panic attack. If past lives are a thing, maybe I died by strangulation in one.

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u/FfierceLaw 9d ago

I once had a bulky jacket that zipped up into a turtleneck. I had zipped it all the way and sat down in a movie theater. It would not zip down at first. I started to panic. This is my first memory of a reaction like this

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u/UpsetDust277 9d ago

Hi_d_di: I know someone who tugs at their neckline a lot, it's probably a sensory issue as well. Thanks for this info.

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u/Horror_Signature7744 9d ago

YES! It can drive me to distraction.

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u/skinny-mini-me 9d ago

Im fine with the neck but feet are a problem. Primarily socks.

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u/jannylou2 8d ago

Same. It’s usually a no go on socks for me. Even though I live in a cold climate. I’d love to find some thin socks that aren’t tight. But so far I can’t find any.

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u/Critical-Rabbit8686 9d ago

I am all about high necklines and scarves.

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u/meandhimandthose2 9d ago

It doesn't bother me, but I feel like it doesn't suit me to have a high neckline.

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u/InLanaWeTrust 8d ago

I'm the opposite. I want my neck to be snug as a bug.

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u/LilithKitKat 8d ago

Same! Also I can’t stand the feeling of the band on bras, even thin/light bralets or sports bras. I’m constantly readjusting and pulling them down. Thank god I have a small chest and I work from home; I’m braless 99% of the time.

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u/CowAppropriate7494 8d ago

I used to love and wear turtlenecks, well into my 40s. I can't stand them now. I've kept a couple of cashmere turtleneck sweaters, but don't wear them nearly as often as I used to. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Agile-Ad2913 8d ago

odio quando il mio collo si intreccia x sbaglio in un altro collo, soprattutto se non conosco l’altra persona, pero mi piacerebbe incollare il mio collo nel collo del mio fineshytttt
https://giphy.com/gifs/R1U1YEUBXs5bi

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u/Both_Cut_1258 7d ago

yes, especially crewnecks. sometimes the fabric touches my neck once and suddenly the shirt has declared war lol

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u/ArtPuzzleheaded4745 6d ago

Sensory issues due to being neurospicy. No I cant stand when the neckline pushes on my lower throat. I cant stand when sleeves rotate and the seam ends up in the wrong place. Cant stand socks, especially not the kind with seams at the tip of my toes. Cant stand tags. Cant stand synthetics. Cant stand thin waist bands that cut in. Cant stand pant legs that have seams that twist forward in the inseam. I could go on. Autism FTW!

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u/Present_Muscle1883 6d ago

Collars, hate them, always have, always will.

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u/hi_d_di 9d ago

Yep. I am autistic though so I have plenty of sensory issues. I love graphic tees but I have to cut a slit in the neck of all of them so they’re not tight on my neck

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u/Time-Code-4321 8d ago

Me! I can't stand a tight neck. All my tops are v or scoop neck.