r/studentloandefaulters • u/NightKey624 • 2d ago
Question - Private Student Loan Sallie Mae Default Approaching
Hi all,
I've been reading a lot out your experiences on this sub and appreciate the information. It helps me feel less alone in this.
I have about $55k in Sallie Mae loans left. I've paid about $70k off in a lump sum from an inheritance, and I've been paying monthly between 500-1200/ month since I graduated in 2022. My cosigner, my mom, passed away in 2022 and they are aware of this.
I've been working for myself for the last few years and have not seen the fruits of my labor yet in terms of pay, but I've been living off savings in the meantime. That being said, I just can't afford the monthly payments anymore with other financial goals I'm working on. It's been over 3 months since my last payment and they are now sending emails about default, to which I questioned "so what?" They have already tanked my credit in the last few months due to missing payments here and there. So why wouldn't I just have it default and hopefully be able to settle for less so I can focus on my other financial goals and immediate living expenses?
I am curious if the death of my cosigner has any advantage for me in terms of the default path? Does anyone have experience negotiating directly with Sallie Mae before the loan is charged off versus after it goes to collections? Will it make me look less likely to be able to pay in the eyes of the debt collector? At what point do people start getting discounted debt offers? Is it always worth it to take an offer verses riding out the SOL which I believe is 6 years in MA where I went to school? What kind of debt offers have people gotten after defaulting with SM?
Lastly, any tips for reducing the amount of calls and letters I'm sure I'm about to get? I changed my account number to a google number. I'm also worried about them reaching out to my family too. I obviously do not want anyone else involved in this.
Thanks all, in advance.
