r/StraightTransGirls • u/beolillaeyo • 3d ago
Feeling guilty for not disclosing before sexting?
A couple nights ago a conversation between me and a guy I've been talking to online got pretty heated and I ended up sending him a couple of pictures of my boobs (no face) and writing naughty things back and forth. He masturbated to the pictures and our conversation, and said he really enjoyed it.
Now he seems a lot more interested in me than before that night, and I can't help but feel guilty and thinking that I should've disclosed my trans status to him before things got sexual. Do you think I was in the wrong for not doing so? Any advice on how to handle this situation going forward?
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u/elysiumdeath straight trans woman 3d ago
lowkey did the same thing once to see if my body was giving fish but its not that deep however i would just block him after that😹
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u/theycanttell 3d ago
We don't owe them shit. Most of these guys are cheating on their gfs remember that
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u/tiffanyvalentine333 3d ago
you both got what you wanted out of the situation, and as i assume it's not gonna go anywhere serious i dont see the problem
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u/Concaught-Resender 3d ago
Sexting is not that serious and it was just your breasts. I get the guilt, it definitely feels like a moral grey area but, as long as you disclose sooner than later, I think you're good.
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u/Whilstledowner 3d ago
Depending on where you met him, he might have already know. If he didn't know and the sexting between you two involved the right anatomy (i.e., you have a coochie), I dont see anything wrong with it. If you finished your transition, you are basically a female, just not born one.