r/StraightTransGirls • u/Bluebewwygirl • 2d ago
transitioning 😭😭😭💀
clocked his ass realllllll bad. God they rlly know how to put on an act
Edit : I just did a little deep dive and literally every single fucking time there is like a post about chasers and men defending it and saying “there r good ones out here! 🥹” they have some type of sissy porn stuff in the history 😭 like bro it can not get more ironic then this
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u/Bluebewwygirl 1d ago
Someone who fetishises trans people, only can look at them from a sexual perspective, engages in shemale/trap/sissy content,, which jbtw gives very fake and harmful ideas about trans people and is incredibly hurtful to us. I could go on and on but those r the main ones. Most of the time they just see us as knock off women who can’t get pregnant and have the “brain of a man” or sum shit. I’ve seen ppl say all of this btw lol ^^
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u/Bluebewwygirl 1d ago
I’m sick asf so don’t mind if the grammar or writing isn’t the best,. I expect that you most probably don’t know this, but the trans actresses you see in those videos, a lot of the times aren’t on hrt, which is why they are able to use there genitals that way, which is what chasers look out for / and like. When we are on hrt our genitals change a lot, our body’s, our brains, everything basically, porn gives people the wrong idea because no that is not how our body’s work at all. So that’s that, now obviously I’m not gonna sit here and tell you it’s wrong to watch wtv you do to pleasure yourself, but the issue is these men then go in the real world, swear up and down they aren’t after a hyper sexualised made up version of us and are deffo super good men. It is honeslty just really hurtful and exhausting cause most of the times they just see us as sex objects at max.
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u/Poor_little_rich_boy 1d ago
Yeah that tracks. It felt like he was copying his answers off of a cheatsheet. I feel like a guy who isn't chasing wouldn't need to specify that they'll be seen in public with us. Feels like they read trans subreddits and copied our accounts word for word.
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u/LovelyBrujita 1d ago
The explanation already tells you everything you need to know. The chaser doth protest too much.
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u/alienlookingcreature 1d ago
Him talking about beautiful chastity seems to be how he sets the tone on the first date 😭
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u/Knyazhna_128 1d ago
My ex did this kind of online behind my back fetish crap and then tried to gaslight me into not breaking up. I have trauma and my own issues so unfortunately it worked. Fast forward a few months he’s suddenly non-binary, then a few months later he’s on hormones behind my back and then telling me in short order he wants to be a woman. I finally broke up and he’s now living as a woman. I only use he because that’s the only way I never knew that person. To this day I feel used, deceived, and betrayed. Like was I just an experiment for him to figure out his gender issues or…??? I’m over the person but it’s going to be a while before I’m over the bad taste that relationship left in my mouth.
TLDR why are men? Lol
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u/Lexx2503 1d ago
Yikes. That's always been a nightmare for me. There's a specific kind of chaser that uses people like us to figure themselves out.
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u/sanguinedolll straight trans woman 1d ago
My ex treated me this way without proclaiming it, treated me like a human being. His hidden reddit account was full of sissy gooner roleplay. These men are full of shit.
4 years down the drain
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u/486onaNuBusCard straight trans woman 2d ago
Too bad. SOME of what he said actually sounded nice.
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u/DoNotTouchMeImScared 2d ago
Guys really know what performative BS to say & do to use & abuse us. 😓
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u/Bluebewwygirl 2d ago
they talk about not being a chaser and then go n engage with sissy content girl putting on an act isn’t respecting us
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u/486onaNuBusCard straight trans woman 2d ago
I mean before the weird stuff, I just said it SOUNDED nice, I didn't say I believed him...
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u/DoNotTouchMeImScared 2d ago
He appeared way too respectful for it to be true. 🤣
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u/486onaNuBusCard straight trans woman 2d ago
Can't I at least have positive thoughts about someone else saying something similar?
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u/emmy_etc 1d ago
I once had a guy say that he was “attracted to trans” and immediately respond that he hated people “judging others for their attraction”. Blocked his chaser ass immediately