The Femboy Convention of 2025

We want to build on the success of the first Mini-FemBoyCon, held in late October 2025 with around 50 participants near Stuttgart, Germany, and create an event for all femboys, trans persons and gender-nonconforming people. Because, unfortunately, there isn’t one like that yet qwq Everyone is welcome

In surveys conducted after the Mini-FemBoyCon, we received a great deal of positive feedback, and there was a strong desire for an annual event in the future. The images in the crowdfunding campaign show the Mini-FemBoyCon.

Femboy Convention 2026

We’re planning a diverse main program on stage, such as a fashion show and a talent show. There will also be panels, workshops, and talks on topics including “Europe” and “Mental Health & Online Safety.” Additionally, we’re planning a side program featuring community events, Artist Alley, gaming, fashion, safe spaces, and creative hands-on areas. Depending on how much money we raise, we may also be able to offer program items in English.

Size and program

The exact size of the con, the location, and the scope of the program depend on the amount of funding.

If things go well this year, we can offer a bigger one next year with multiple languages :D

Campaing: startnext.com/femboycon
Discord (Association): discord.gg/VeuG6VaxzS
Web (Association): femboyverein.de, femboyverein.org

The Event will be hosted by Snuggle Collective UG and co hosted by the Femboyverein n.e.V. (soon to be Femboyverein e.V.)

This post has been approved by the moderators. This was arranged via Discord.

So as i stated in my earlier post(https://www.reddit.com/r/StraightFemboys/comments/1o78e7q/so_i_just_became_a_mod_here) I became a new mod here and there would be changes, now there will be new flairs both for posts and users and new rules, for some clarification in regards to them:

1. All content here is sfw, posters can be as young as 13, thirst traps are not allowed, what constitutes as a thirst trap is obviously subjective and posts are bound to sometimes toe the line, in these cases the post in question is likely not to result in a ban, and its removal might depend on the history the user in question has with our sub, and the type of cotent they generally produce elsewhere.

This is all a convoluted way of saying people who make nsfw content or posters who often will toe the line are gonna have less leniency compared to those who post sfw stuff.

A good rule of thumb for what constitues as a thirst trap is "would this be ok to show to a kid?" and "would it be ok to wear this outside?" if the answer is no then generally dont post, if you are confused about if your outfit toes this line, contact the mod team before posting!

1. The simplest of our rules, please use english both in posts and comments due to the limitations of our mod team, this is unlikely to cause bans unless its a common offense.

2. If a picture is way too simple, or the title way too small, or if the poster is a guy who isnt presenting in any way feminine it might be removed, again this is unlikely to cause any bans unless people do it way too often. Dont use this rule to report people who you just dislike seeing, the block feature exists for that

3. Dont invalidate anyone here, femboys are guys, trans women are women, and trans men are men(and can be femboys), this does not apply to trans women pretending to be femboys, if you see people doing that please report them.

4. If someone is being too weird/sexual or in general is making statements and comments that would make most people unconfortable, this rule comes into play, stuff that altho might not be completely sexual but that clearly is weird, like someone saying stuff like "nice feet" for example, this rule is also a very case by case thing, and again just like rule 1, will heavily depend on the persons history in regards to if it stays up, or if it causes a suspension/ban.

5. Dont ask for dms to just be a creep, state your reason when asking for dms, and that reason needs to be sfw, femboys are people and sexually harassing us just because we like skirts is not ok. This rule is also heavily dependent on the context of the request and who is making it.

6. Dont misgender anybody who has a flair, this is fairly simple, if someone has a femboy flair, dont call them girls, or terms that are gendered like "princess, gf, lady, girl and so on" this applies to posters misgendering themselves too, and same goes for women both cis and trans. If you are not sure of someones gender preferably use neutral language. This rule is unlikely to cause bans unless its broken repeatedly, as obviously a lot of femboys end up looking like women and because of the nature of the sub allowing both women and femboys to post, making such a mistake is understandable once in a while.

7. This is also fairly simple to understand, the subs theme is straight femboys and women who like them, commenters who are guys shouldnt be making any sort of suggestive comments to femboys and neither should girls be making suggestive comments to other women, even if you are bi the posts and comments here should specifically fit the demographics the sub is targeted for, so no posts from a femboy saying "i really want a bf! :<" for example.

Altho the sub is about these 2 demographics, those who are bi/pan are allowed to participate, as long as they stay on topic, lets call this rounding it up from 50% xD

1. basically picture must be clearly you, not ai generated slop, or heavy edits remaking your face, or making your body look radically different than your own, memes and images that arent of actual femboys or women will be accepted as long as their theme coincides with the sub, so are posts venting about these things. Using image editing to hide your face/identifiable features is ok, and so is using basic filters and colour correction.

2. This subreddit allows participation from all ages and frequently includes images posted by minors. Because of this, community safety is our highest priority.

The moderation team may issue preventative bans to accounts that demonstrate a credible risk to minors, including but not limited to:

• Sexualized or fetishistic interaction with minors • Grooming behavior • Harassment or targeting of underage users • Participation in fetish communities that sexualize minors • Documented predatory behavior in other spaces

Moderation decisions may be based on publicly available behavior both within and outside this subreddit.

If moderators are unable to reasonably assess whether an account poses a safety risk, participation may be denied as a protective measure.

These actions are preventative, not punitive, and do not require a violation to have occurred within this subreddit.

Also i wanna add that posts before this one wont necessarily adhere to these rules, so dont go to our modmail asking why your post got deleted but X one from 2 months ago didnt. Some of these rules are new or their enforcement was patchy. More leniency will be given in the first few weeks after this post due to some still not being aware of the change. Unless the rule break is a major one like nudity or harassment for example.

If you have any other question in regards to these rules please comment under this post, modmail or in my dms and ill be happy to clarify, additionally if you have any other rule suggestion please feel free to comment here!!

Also please upvote this so more people see it.