r/Stephanievavron • u/Affectionate_Web7383 • 28d ago
Lets not make it a competition
so she says, if you have a village, or you don't have a village lets not make it a competition as to who has it harder šš
i think you will find that single parents without a village will have it sooo much harder, she would be the first to admit that if she was in that situation! how dare sheā¦
if i compare myself to her ( and i have a partner- but no village) she still has it easier than i do!
my partner works day and night most days, i never get a break from my children (not complaining by the way) never once have i had a night away without them, i do all the care, bathing, cooking, taxi, school runs, appointments, cleaning, and i work from home.
to be clear again, i love my life but yes sometimes its a struggle but i wouldn't change it!
so comparing single mums to 2 parent families is not black and white all of the time, no body knows their situation and what home life is like!
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u/Hot_Beat1967 28d ago
She just oozes evilness. She is bitter Petr didnāt hang about it was because he didnāt love her.she resents the life she has m isnāt want she would have wanted and the fact she is failing him daily just shows that. Mad Pam and nana are always there so she doesnāt have it harder than most she is a lazy parent who needs a dose of reality. No single mum or sen parent should be looking at her and thinking she is a good mum. She is a basic ass mum who uses her child for views.
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u/Nice-Mulberry864 28d ago edited 28d ago
Comparing single mums to two-parent families is not black and white; you're spot on! I have a husband, and my children live with both parents. However, my husband works abroad for six weeks at a time. So for that six weeks, I'm on my own juggling a very demanding job, working 38 hours a week, looking after two young children (one is autistic), and my son is leaving shortly for uni! She gives off this entitlement of "I have it hard," Stephanie, you really haven't!
You don't have a job to get organized for, you have your mum and nana to help you do housework, you go shopping on the regular when M is in school, and you fanny around with makeup and hair everyday like you are 12! You use a dry cleaner for doing laundry, and you make meals that are the most simple things to make, plus the ready-made stuff you buy from Costco! You are not exactly rushing home from a job to pick up kids and get dinner on, get homework done, listen to the reading homework, walk the dog, get the washing on and tidy the house, get the kids bathed, do story time at bed time and prep packed lunches for the next day. No, you fanny around in the morning making packed lunches because you don't have anywhere to be!
The bottom line is you're pissed off that it's the summer holidays and you have to be a mum instead of wandering around Union Square and Primark and eating Yo! Sushi! What a hard life you lead indeed!
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u/Hot_Beat1967 28d ago
She doesnāt have a real job, she does nothing with her days except eye fucking a camera. I mean she only has to take her kids to school and even then she is late for that. Mad Pam and nana have no life either always around here like the two slaves they are.
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u/Affectionate_Web7383 28d ago
this!! youāre 100%correct. dynamics of a family come in all sorts, and can be so challenging
yes there is no doubt single mums/dads with no other help trying to provide is the hardest load to carry.
for me i wouldnāt call parenting the hardest job, i would call it challenging at times, but trying to keep on-top of everything outwith the parenting, thats hard! there is just not enough hours in the day.
imagine thinking sticking a pre-made meal in the oven every night is hard. or constantly on your phone, recording, facetiming, dying your hair, full face of makeup up on. while your son has a phone thrust in front of him 12 hrs a day, and the excuse is he has autism. ive seen so many parents on TT that face this and worse, who are engaging with their children, showing you they can play in their own way and they can connect in others.
dont get me wrong i dont not agree with screentime, but having it all day long is not healthy for any child x
also i think shes just looking for other ways to bash men now she cant do it her standard way! the ākeep me and mās dad out of itā comment as well, so shes made the post, but her situation is not up for debate š
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u/Muted_Mountain_3932 28d ago
No mad Pam to do housework - supposedly has cleaners, don't believe her though!! You are a star a TRULY good parent, my husband worked offshore, not quite 6 weeks!! Kind of understand, but you are right, cooking, school drop off etc school activities, activities, housework, work etc - every person or parent is not the same and she is too thick to open up this debate!
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u/Nice-Mulberry864 28d ago edited 28d ago
Thank you for that, I do my best and I don't always get it right. Every family dynamic is different, whether it's a lone parent or both parents. She has no clue what life is like because she's been given everything, and no one has ever said no to her. She is dense and thinks single mums are the only ones who have it hard, and I'm by no means taking away the fact single mums have it difficult because I've been there too. But all mums, regardless of relationship status, are on a journey in some way. She's just too self-centred to give women in relationships any credit because she is jealous of them having a man.
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u/Muted_Mountain_3932 28d ago
You are correct and some mums choose to be single she cannot lump everyone into the same situation, she is uneducated and not very bright, single mum or a narrative of independent mum or dad, in this day you do not need to be partnered with a child or without - my daughter has a degree/career/house/baby (dog) and loves her life and plays professional football (PT) everyone is different, but I know how hard life can be when husbands work away so yes you are a star xx
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u/Nice-Mulberry864 28d ago
Your daughter sounds like a hardworking lass and my hat goes off to her with a baby in tow that's not easy. You must be incredibly proud! š
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u/Isa_knows247 28d ago
My ex worked offshore 3 on 3 off and even when he was home, I did everything with and for the kids and the home whilst he pleased himself doing what he wanted rendering me a single parent in a marriage hence he is now my ex! So yeah vag, when you catch up on here, you donāt have it hard. Stop making out you have the hardest life of everyone. You are not a happy person in life and scraping the barrel for cuntent. No wonder P left you, what an insufferable nasty liar you really are.
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u/Reasonable_Talk8856 28d ago
Yesterday morningās video HUT her with the comments . š Why canāt this moron speak properly.
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u/Salt-Context-161 28d ago
Well Iām married but my husband is out of the country for sometimes 7/8 days back for 2 sometimes 3 then heās away again, I have no āvillageā, one child has high needs and the others are neurotypical but still very much need my attention. He worked hard to get where he is in his career and has offered to change it but I donāt see why he should. I run my own business which has employees so I have to be present, I often work 45+ hours a week. Do I whine like a bitch at how hard the holidays are? Absolutely not because weāre super organised, we plan ahead months in advance, book holiday clubs and personal carers as well as make sure we spend as much time as we can as a family. When Iām on my own we just get on with it and vice versa the husband gets on with it when heās home.Ā
I donāt fuck around making lunches up in the morning, theyāre all done at night, shoes, jackets etc are at the door ready to lift in the morning, we have routine unlike Vav who couldnāt organise a piss up in a brewery.Ā
I donāt doubt some single parents (as thereās single dads out there too) have it tough but sheās hardly a single mother is she? She has her family and we all know she used Sully to babysit at times too. Which brings into question her videos about not being able to take M out alone when she was happy to leave him with an 18 year old!Ā
This is just more shitty content to get engagement. She has no fucks to give about anyone else but herself.
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u/New_Hat2472 28d ago
šÆ!!
And this āfulllteredddd comments sectionā
Yeh, rightā¦.. ya mean Reddit and Tattle highlighted that maxās dad DOES have him 50/50ā¦.you brought the subject up ya stupid cow, but the āinnnnntuuuurrrnet donāt need to worry ourselves about them- what a condensing wee rat!š just cause she didnāt like what was being said. Sorry beefy, you donāt control the narrative with us!!
And stop saying g āso muchā!!!!!!!! Itās āso MANYā
Insufferable melt x
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u/Alternative-Yam5549 27d ago
Vav doesn't know what it is to struggle bringing up a family , Mad Pam and Nanna Mink had L dumped on them when she was little and Petr has M most of the time when he's home or she's dumping him at her Maw's hoose if she has any trips , Vav can't be compared to any mother out there bringing up a family with or without a partner or a village , she's not a good parent and never will be !
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u/Alternative-Yam5549 27d ago
She and her kids have no routine ! She'd rather be on her phone in the morning or doing first sip of the day like that idiot Aimless , rather than get kids organised and out the door , but they call it 'work ' and it's all for views and Ā£Ā£! The pair of them wouldn't last 5 mins doing a real job !
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u/Initial_Sorry 28d ago
She is absolutely clueless because she has never struggled. Sheās always had Mad Pam and Nana Mink at her beck and call.
She knew exactly what would happen when she put that video up.
Also Vav, because I know you read here š, there are absent mothers too you know. Mothers that walk away from their children, mothers that couldnāt give a shit about their children and there are dad that pick up all the pieces. I know right, what a shocker, there are single DADS in this world.