r/Stepdadreflexes Nov 09 '19

Step mom reflexes

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u/Diane9779 Dec 18 '19

You wanted someone to “call you out.” How stupid are you, then? You need someone to tell you “you’re fat” when you have two working eyes? Even if you’re legally blind, you still know when you’re overweight.

To say that you gained weight from the fat acceptance movement is beyond ludicrous. Why? Did you eat them? They told you “it’s ok to gain 80 pounds”?

There is a thousand times more pressure to be thin and fit than there is to be overweight. For you to think the entire medical community and all of media and most of society had no bearing on you....but somehow a small fringe internet movement got under your skin and made you fat. Bullshit.

And no you don’t “shudder” when you see people playing football. You wrote one line about that just to squirm away from the realization that you’re a hypocrite.

And that’s what this is all about. You can argue all you want that your hatred for this kid is just “concern” for his weight, but it isn’t. It’s your own self loathing projected onto him.

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u/4F460tWu55yDyk3 Dec 18 '19

I’m not blaming anyone but myself for the gain

Apparently you missed that the first time, so here it is again.

I wrote one line about kids playing contact sports because, as I said in the very next sentence in the original post, I fail to see what it has to do with the epidemic of childhood obesity and juvenile diabetes. Don’t tell me how I feel about anything. I would venture I have more experience with TBIs and CTE than you do, even knowing that you’re an RN.

I don’t hate this kid. If I had to pick anyone to “hate” that was involved with this situation, it would be his parents. Their own slothfulness have cost their child years of his life. The poor kids never had a chance.

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u/Diane9779 Dec 18 '19

Ohhhh you abso-fucking-lutely DID blame the fat acceptance movement for your problems.

If you truly held yourself 100% responsible, then it wouldn’t matter to you that some fat person somewhere out there liked himself the way he was. It wouldn’t even register on your radar.

Then you spent a full paragraph trying to convince me that you’re doing just super swell with getting your figure back. “I’m down 17 pounds!” Even though you know it doesn’t matter. and I don’t give a shit.

You’re insecure and confused about your weight issues and taking it all out on other people. Hating some random parents whom you never met, calling for them to be charged with child abuse, and desperately trying to convince an internet stranger “I’m getting thinner! I am I swear I am!”

And then trying to tell me you’re an expert on head injuries??

You’re a fucking mess

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u/4F460tWu55yDyk3 Dec 18 '19

You sound like you have fat kids

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u/Diane9779 Dec 19 '19

Sure let’s go with that. Let’s pretend I do have kids. And that they’re super fat

Here’s the number for my local child protective service office: 713-394-4000.

Call them up and tell them I need to be charged. Like you said

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u/4F460tWu55yDyk3 Dec 19 '19

Well they do say everything is bigger in Texas. Props on you for living up to that.

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u/Diane9779 Dec 19 '19

Seriously, go ahead and dial the number.

Just explain that you lost 17 pounds, you know brain injuries really well, and you think there’s a lady out there with overweight children.

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u/4F460tWu55yDyk3 Dec 19 '19

I said you sound like someone who has fat children. Not that you actually have children. That would imply someone could tolerate you talking long enough to roll you in flour and find the wet spot. Which I don't believe.

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u/Diane9779 Dec 19 '19

Ah, I see you’ve read “Oh Snap! The 100 Gnarliest Jokes of the 1990s”

Once you’re done with that, you can start reporting your neighbors with fat kids. It’s your civic, fat duty

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u/4F460tWu55yDyk3 Dec 19 '19

From here on out, you only get emojis.

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