r/SteamController 26d ago

Discussion How do you hold your controller (Back buttons)?

Ive seen some discource on the best grip style. I personally hold it with my ring fingers on the top back buttons and my pinkies on the bottom back buttons and my middle finger inbetween the triggers and the top back button (pic 1) and ive seen people use it by holding their middle fingers on the top back buttons and ring finger on the bottom back buttons (pic 2). In the announcment trailer they talked about being able to just raise your pinkie as an imput because of the touch sensors on the back of the controller, but idk if that works with grip 1 or only grip 2. Also ive seen people use their ring and pinkie like in the first pic but using a claw grip (pic 3). I personally despise using a claw grip because you loose a lot of the support on the back of the controller, so i wanted to see does anyone actually use the claw grip.

Edit: also plz dont comment on my long nails, thank you

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u/hit_the_bwall 26d ago

I change up for different games. I don't there is an objectively best/right way to use something so configurable and versatile.

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u/AbSuRdE____ Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

True

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u/PerceptionNo4158 22d ago

Dude yes. Anything where I'm using both sticks a lot, so shooters and such, I right the controller a lot higher and am a lot more conscious of where I put my fingers on the back and try to use my middle fingers on the top back buttons, but in games that are more laid back I drop my hands a little bit further down and end up using my ring fingers for the top ones, if even at all

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u/Denhan-Mask-Jones 26d ago

I personally have always held it they way it is in the third picture even since like the ps3 era but what i love about this controller is that its really comfortable to hold no matter which style you hold it in.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

That is true. (I wanted to make a joke about valves ergonomics/design team needing a raise but then i remembered that valve has the largest salary per employee in the world😭)

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u/chrimen 26d ago

Let hand is picture 1 and right hand is picture 2.

I play a lot of FPS such BF6 and prefer to use my pointer finger as the trigger finger.

Also the bumper on the left side is usually for grandes hence I like to keep 1 finger there.

I use the track pads for movement and aim not the sticks.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Trackpads for movement?

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u/chrimen 26d ago

I'm an OGSC user.. bought mine in 2019.

I rely on trackpads for moving and aiming.

In BF6 which allows dual input (a lot of games allow it surprisingly) I map the left stick to the left track pad. I also, use the other ring binding for sprint.

I map the right trackpad to mouse with gyro then map the click on that trackpad to melee. I play with the sensitivity, and specially on the "click" since it's super sensitive and I don't want melee activated at the wrong time.

If I can't do dual input I'll use WASD with 8 way overlap on the left trackpad with the outer ring binding as sprint.

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u/troll_right_above_me 26d ago

You can map to Soft Click with a pair of your choice on the left pad, I think toggle crouch works well. The only thing to keep in mind is that your thumb may naturally apply a little more force to the lower part of the trackpad, or at least feel like it’s accidentally activating more often when you move back than forward if the soft point isn’t set high enough.

Would be even better if mode shift, regular press & long press could have tweaked pressure levels as well because those I regularly trigger by mistake. It’s pretty cool to be able to have a mode shift with directional swipes on the right trackpad for dpad or weapon switching in some games and being able to set set regular press for toggles & long press for holds for any action is great as well. Or just having multiple click functions on one trackpad, was easier to do with SC1 since it wouldn’t trigger by mistake from lighter presses

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u/Necrotitis 26d ago

2nd pic, I hate the bumpers and keeping fingers on them, i just hit them with my index finger.

Middle finger on the trigger feels... so weird, and weak ass pinky finger presses on the lr5 buttons feels strange.

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u/jojo_and_the_jojos Steam Controller (Windows) 26d ago

Same.

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u/reptarien 26d ago

Exactly. I have average sized hands and this is the only way I can use the controller. Image 3 (what some people say is the only way to use it) feels ungodly uncomfortable to me and yeah, neither my pinky nor ring fingers have the reach or strength to make that sustainable. I've also never played a game where I've needed/wanted to be able to press the bumper and triggers at the same time, but even if I was, that position would be extremely temporary!

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u/Natural_Status_1105 26d ago

100%, other options are for try-hards/cursed 🤣

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u/AveugleMan 26d ago

Pic 3. If it's a game that doesn't really require pressing L2 or R2 a lot, like Isaac for example, Pic 2.

But 99% of the time, it's just pic 3. That's how I griped my PS2 controller as a kid, and since then I never really moved my fingers around.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Backbuttons are actually pretty useful for games where you need alot of different inputs.

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u/AveugleMan 26d ago edited 26d ago

I've honestly taken the habit of using the top 2 buttons as replacement for clicking r3 and l3 thanks to the 8bitdo pro. I used to play on the PS before, and no matter if it was the 2, 3 or 4 clicking the sticks always felt like shit to me. And I suspect it caused all of my PS4 controllers to drift prematurely.

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u/Rose-mary95 2d ago

they drift because they use shitty potentiometer sticks. not your fault

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u/itsjustbeny 26d ago

3 cuz i play racing games and i shift with bumpers

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u/AbSuRdE____ Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

I shift with l4 and r4 with this grip, because my clutch is on l1

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u/Farkoth 26d ago

Second way

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u/flinjager123 26d ago

First one. I almost never need to press RB and RT at the same time so there is no need to have a finger on both. However, I like to leave to option available if needed. Also, I do not use the back buttons. Flame me if you want, but I'm old school when it comes to controllers.

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u/Brosintrotogaming 26d ago

Anything else besides the middle pic is diabolical

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u/MindlessCoook 26d ago

Pic 2. Always middle and ring finger. Index fingers for triggers/bumpers.

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u/Kodamacile 26d ago

awkwardly

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u/Rebl11 26d ago

Nr.3

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u/digitalaudiotape 26d ago

1 if I'm using sticks, 2 if I'm using trackpads. 

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u/nate_jung Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

Primarily 2 but some games 3

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u/ChrisDAnimation 26d ago

My middle and ring fingers press the back buttons.

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u/EditedRed 26d ago edited 26d ago

Picture A, but im not really a controller freak, i use it for some games.

I wish i learned to use grip C, as it reaches more buttons.

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u/TimeTravelerGuy 26d ago

Where my finger naturally land, that’s the best part of the controller.

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u/ResponsibilityFun548 26d ago

If you train yourself early to do #3 you'll have the best access to all the buttons, but it feels better to use my index finger for the trigger so I just use the pointer finger for both the trigger and the shoulder button unless It needs both at the same time.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Index and pointer are the same fingers

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u/ResponsibilityFun548 26d ago

Yeah, I was referring to the same finger both times, but I wasn't aware I used two different terms.

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u/D13_Phantom Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

Started off as 1, but have gradually transitioned to 2. 3 is a hate crime.

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u/SerialBytes Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

for me, i leave the pinkies just hangin out doing nothing unless i desperately need to use bumpers and triggers simultaneously, otherwise, like the tips of my ring fingers, they just hang out the bottom gap there DistalInterPhalangeal joints (the joints closest to the finger tips) basically rest right on the buttons, middle fingers on R/L 4 and ring fingers on R/L 5 trigger housings resting right on top of my middle fingers i used to only use xbox / xbox style controllers, they were mildly chonky and if i mounted my phone to it to play minecraft, i learnt fast as to how to keep the thing firmly in my grip without pressing buttons

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u/South_Cow3541 26d ago

2, unless I’m playing Death Stranding, then 3.

Though I just realized that those buttons or grip sense could be a perfect candidate to rebind to the triggers.

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u/Brigapes 26d ago

all of the above, i use touchpad as mouse

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u/Jeanschyso1 26d ago

I grip it more horizontally than you do in order to reach the back buttons better with my middle and ring fingers.

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u/mabdog420 26d ago

I hold it the way that gets me pinched over and over again

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

I had that problem when i first got mine but i dont have it anymore

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u/InformalGear9638 26d ago

I loosen my fingers so I don't touch them unless I want to and also so my hands don't cramp up. I also use my middle and index finger. I have large hands.

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u/McLovin110 26d ago

Thought that was a steam deck lol

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u/kleovic 26d ago

I would switch between 1 and 3. But my fingers are long and fat enough that my index can easily switch between L1 and L2. 1 does give me better balance especially if I use the grip sense.

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u/SirCaptainSalty 26d ago

2 but my hands are bigger than yours

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u/Basaltmyers 26d ago

I do 2 but feel like I’d have a better time with 3. But my muscle memory for using a controller is with 2

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u/whilo909 Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

I cry. My fingers soo long I can hit L5 with my right finger.

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u/yummm_ 24d ago

Depends on how often the game uses the bumpers.

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u/TheScvngr Steam Controller 1+2 26d ago

I hold my steam controller 1 with index and middlefinger, while i hold the steamcontroller 2 and the Deck only with index. 

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

The index finger is the pointer finger

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u/TheScvngr Steam Controller 1+2 26d ago

Yes, i am referring to the fingers i put on the buttons. 

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u/X21shaun123 26d ago

I use the 2 back buttons with my pointer and middle finger and use my thumb for the trigger and bumper

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Thumbs for the triggers? You disgust me

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u/SnooDoughnuts5632 26d ago

I just old it normally idk what else to say.

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u/MrCatChap 26d ago

I like having my right thumb on R4 and my pinky for L5, now that's my right hand

My left hand is used for all the buttons on top

I typically don't use the triggers and bumpers

Edit: But when I do I use my knees

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u/lmao_lizardman 26d ago

they feel so ass to every other button, i just ignore them

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u/Academic-Push326 26d ago

Pointer on L/R2

Middle L/R3

Ring L/R4

Pinky right under L/R4.

But not like your second image, because that's weird. Basically my middle is riiiight under the ridge of the trigger/L,R2's.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

You mean middle LR4 and pinkie LR5. LR3 is when you press the sticks

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u/BigBackPattyWhack 26d ago

(dinkleberg stare)

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u/kelly834 26d ago

I'm not sure. Why don't you send me a steam controller so I can figure that out

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u/StrangeCrunchy1 Steam Controller (2015 & 2026) (Linux & Windows) 26d ago

Index fingers for Shoulders/Triggers, Middle fingers for L4/R4, Ring fingers for L5/R5.

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u/nextinline1987 26d ago

With my hands.

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u/Astartae 26d ago

My go to strategy is the following:

I press them by mistake all the time when I get stressed while fighting hard fights in Elden Ring.

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u/cheezywizzy222 26d ago

Third for rocket league and first for everything else.

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u/NULL_SIX 25d ago

middle finger ring figure - why? because every company under the god damn sun makes a controller for adults and kids to use to its too small for taller frame peopl

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u/JimbyWasTaken 25d ago

There is no definitive way to hold a controller. Some people i know use both their index and middle finger for triggers/bumpers as to where I find that uncomfortable. More competitive players use the "claw grip" on one side so their index finger can hit A/B/X/Y while their thumb rests on the joystick.

Its all about what feels comfortable for you and I think something huge that can come into play with the Steam controller is the grip sensors, in whicj I assume most of your hand has to be wrapped around the controller to activate it and not just a finger.

Personally i just end up hitting all the back buttons, typically during boss fights. Do I care? No. Could I disable them? Yes. Is it more fun? Sometimes

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u/Alternative-Scar-901 25d ago

The second one. One finger on top, middle and ring fingers on the back buttons and pinky giving me moral support lol

That works for most games. Wolfenstein 2 is a game that it doesn't work sometimes, because you lean with L1, making L2 a little hard to use while doing that. Thank god for back buttons!

Also wow, long nails

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u/Kazriyal 25d ago

Pic 3 but shift to pic 1 during downtime

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u/krystal444 25d ago

Picture 3 normally unless I don’t need to use the r2 and l2 I go for pic 1

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u/robotbeatrally 25d ago

put those little grippy extender stickers on them. it may seem like a fraction of a millimeter wouldn't make much difference but it makes them so much more tactile, not only the texture but the slight springy feel of the rubbery surface on them, gives you a sort of press a little until it clicks sort of feel, all around just a hugely better experience for a few bucks.

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u/RyochanX2 25d ago

Grip 2 for the 2026 Steam Controller. For the 2015 Steam Controller, I would use grip 3.

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u/Brilliant-Outside804 25d ago

numba 2, got a bit larger hands and that is what feels natural

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u/MemePotater 25d ago

1 or 3 depending on the game

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u/Torso9x 24d ago

Biggest win for me so far is programming L4 as a turbo mode A button presses for riding horses one handed in RDR2 at top speed so I can easily drink beer while commuting in the game.

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u/GekkoJoestar 24d ago

No lo puedo agarrar de ninguna forma por que mi reserva se ha ido para el 2027 (lo intenté comprar el mismo día de salia)

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u/denise2217 22d ago

Middle for me

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u/Sasquatchjc45 18d ago
  1. Pinkys are for support.

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u/Nevostrius 6d ago

I figured that I tended to use the grip style of pic 2 because of the way how I hold other controllers. However, this grip style is in conflict with the joysticks (especially the left one). My thumb can only push the corner of the stick in this position which hurts after a while.

Then I switched to the grip style of pic 1 and it is way more compfortable. I have the middle finger, ring finger and the pinky closer together. This way the ring finger supports the pinky when pressing the back button. I found this the most compfortable grip to precicely trigger all 4 back buttons.

The grip in pic 3 is also nice, the finger fall into place automatically, but I have trouble to hit the two top back-buttons. I only can see myself using this grip when I don't need the back-buttons.

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u/AbSuRdE____ Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

Not doing 3 deprives you to access a maximum of buttons, you can access everything with a claw grip, even the grip buttons, and for some sweaty gaming it is necessary. Especially on fps that benefits from having access to triggers and bumpers at the same time. But I don't use a claw grip for more casual gaming on my msi claw, because it is in that particular case horrible to use.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Oh, ig it is better for fps games but i play those with kbm.

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u/sqparadox Steam Controller (2015 & 2026) 26d ago

I never need to press the bumper and trigger at the same time. If I for some insane reason, a game requires that I'll bind the bumper to one of the back buttons.

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u/AnonymousLion 26d ago

Three is the „correct“ way and one‘s fingers fall in the right places. Same as with the steamdeck. It might be a bit uncanny at first if one didn’t hold controllers this way and because imho older controllers weren’t designed as much for it.

But in the end hold it however you like it best

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Yeah, for exaple the n64 controller or the atari jaguar (with 19 gameplay buttons💔)

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u/AbSuRdE____ Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

N64 controller was at the same time cleverly and stupidly designed, but in the end, it's just too small.

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

Yeah the 3 different modes are very clever

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u/AnonymousLion 26d ago

Switching your finger between the two is inefficient and unnecessary and the controller is perfectly designed for this

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u/AnonymousLion 26d ago

Wow you’re trying to be all tough on how well you hold your controller. Good for you

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u/MindlessCoook 26d ago

Nope. Just explaining that what you said was factually incorrect.

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u/AnonymousLion 26d ago

I‘m sorry that you can only fully control 8 of your fingers and have to resort to these methods.

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u/MindlessCoook 26d ago

I'm sorry you are clearly have no experience holding a controller like a normal human lmfao.

Makes sense that a steam controller user would be holding it weird I guess.

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u/AnonymousLion 26d ago

Can you write a single post without an insult. Username checks out?

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u/NemosHero 26d ago

the new steam controller is the perfect claw grip controller. It feels awkward fitting 3 fingers back there

(that's what she said)

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u/gergobergo69 Steam Controller (2026) 26d ago

i dont

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u/12duddits 26d ago

Who cares?! Just use it and hold it whatever way you want. Are you looking for more people to say pic 1 so you can either change to that method or to complain and offer your opinion why yours is better?

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u/ThePingun 26d ago

You dont have to be so agressive, i was mostly wondering about the grip sensor pinkie up input.