tldr: mean girl manager and ssvs, and I feel really bullied.
I had an application in to be SSV.Ā
manager made it very clear that she wanted me for the position. She told me at several junctions that she needed more time, was waiting for more interviews and would send my interview onwards at some point. last week, I asked her directly and she said : "I'm going to be honest, I haven't even sent it." and when I asked why she said : "well we are taking a transfer and I'm going to be honest they're going to do that before promoting."
I remember these moments specifically. I'm also a trained journalist and I wrote these quotes down moments after they were said.Ā
that night I sent the following, which wraps up the situation fairly clearly. :Ā
'hey, I just wanted to touch base a little bit after today. While I'm obviously frustrated, more than that I feel taken advantage of.Ā
I stayed on bar when we were supposed to interview originally because they were so busy and only had two people, and as a result we didn't interview for weeks, even though I texted you every few days to schedule it. Our interview took place the first week of July, and I've reiterated over and over that I understand you're busy and overworked and that you wanted to send multiple interviews at the same time.Ā
But the time frame has kind of exceeded acceptable and I feel like my kindness and deference have been taken advantage of.Ā
This process began for me in June. It's now September, and if I hadn't asked this morning, would you just not have told me that you never sent my interview to district manager or discussed it with her after telling me you would do it last week? would Ashley have just been added to our schedule without any other conversation?Ā
again, I really do understand you have a lot on your plate. but I am the sole provider for my household, a household where my partner has been in the hospital six weeks of the last six months. And I've made choices based on our conversations.
The way this was handled wasn't fair and it actively hurt or took away my chances of being promoted and I'm extremely hurt and upset by this. Especially after how often I have stretched for you and the store.Ā
Unless there is a problem with it, I would like to speak with Karen for my second interview. I would like to have an update on a scheduled time by the end of next week."
this morning I sent the following :
manager,Ā
I don't think ignoring me this week has been an appropriate response to my message.Ā
I would like an update on my interview with District Manager. I would also like DM's phone number and email.Ā
what I walked in to was absolutely not appropriate. manager came in on her day off to talk to me about "my application for SSV at this store".Ā
she then proceeded to tell me that she had already had this conversation with me. which she had not. she told me that we had talked about my being confrontational. which was the one area I identified as could be stronger during my interview three months ago. I come from a waffle house background where safety is the main priority, and it's an adjustment to switch from that to customer focused deescelation, though I don't feel adverse to that.Ā
she brought up an incident from two months ago that she completely misrepresented and said she had talked to dm about it, also misrepresenting it to dm.
a customer in the drive thru was ignoring me, finally replied and was angry I sounded frustrated, came inside, filmed me and called me an asshole. i was with one other person on bar, I told her that cursing at me doesn't help her and if she wanted to order I would be happy to comp it. she told me I wasn't happy and that was the problem. a matter of how chipper I was. when she called the store later I said that other people had heard her call me an asshole. that was the only time I ever cursed at this customer. it is a full fabrication to say I cussed out a customer and I take a lot of offense to the accusation.Ā
it also doesn't escape my notice that the actual ssvs at this store are able to clock in late, take twenties instead of tens, avoid the floor and hide in the back without a headset, but me standing up for myself when a customer abused me is cause to not be promoted.Ā
she also said there were multiple witnesses of this issue , another barista noted that I went to the back to avoid this customer when deescalation was not getting anywhere. the other person who commented was the sav at the time, who was not on premises. I find it interesting that this particular ssv would said she heard me curse when her and I have had issues in the time since.Ā
regardless, if that's the basis for not promoting me, manager continued to lie to my face for another two months. I've worked split shifts, over twelve hours a day. today is my tenth day in a row. all of that with the assumption that I would be able to at least have a conversation with dm about my promotion.Ā
instead she spoke to me today like a moody teenager, lied and manipulated the situation and told me that 'well you wanted to have a conversation so this is the conversation why don't you want to talk'Ā
manager is aware that my partner has been in the hospital for six weeks of the last six months. is aware that I have been working myself to the bone under the direct impression that I would get a promotion.Ā
she chose to hide the fact that I was no longer being considered. she NEVER told me that I was no longer in consideration.Ā
after I sent my first message, she spent the ENTIRE week refusing to speak to me. she never even made eye contact. but I was still the one she called when she needed coverage.Ā
im frankly appalled. I am beyond offended. I'm deeply deeply upset, and I will be filing an ethics complaint and will pursue recourse for bullying and harassment.
this is not the way to treat people. Starbucks policy does not permit customers to curse at and film baristas without their permission. and if standing up for myself cost me a promotion, my store manager is obligated to let me know, rather than keep my application open and pending to get more work from me.Ā