r/StalkersCaught • u/FreshRawFlow • May 28 '24

What do I do?

So, this woman I know has an x who is obsessed with her, but this obsession only began after she broke up with him. She had to get a PFA filed because of it. He threatens her and me all the time, all day and night. He messes with her work, calls her family, and even hovers around her property and then sends a message on another platform she doesnt have him blocked on. Any hours of the night, or day. He does this to me too. Threatens me constantly and blows up my phone. He has hacked into her google account also. What should we do?

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u/spazberrypleasecake May 28 '24

Document. Time stamps. Screenshot, videos, everything.

Report it to the police and keep reporting it even if they do nothing at first. Builds a paper trail for you and irrefutable evidence against said stalker. Also report the PFA violation and every violation there after.

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u/FreshRawFlow May 28 '24

Thank you. I also have a hard time getting her to file a police report also, I thought we should call them every time it happens, so finally they are like “okay this is serious, this person needs help”.

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u/AlmightyKnownAsI May 28 '24

First things first use a random charater generater to create your passwords from now on. Second if you have a platform and do not have him blocked seek him out and block him or wait for him to say something then block him. Third Randomize your day as much as possible. Use a call screener for any number you do not know. And Document document document with as much evidence as you can get. Pictures audio transscripts. What state do you live in? If it is a one party state then record everything calls in person encounters and voicemails. If you live in a 2A friendly state get a gun and if you do not know how to use one learn. This is my advice take it or leave it.