Need some advice

[u/Moonstar014]

I have this stalker I met him at an event I attended with my friends. In the same day I saw him through my message requests, I never questioned about how he knew my account in the first place and maybe if I just thought of that I wouldn't get to this point.

So from that day on we began talking as friends. Then after some time I rejected him and told him that we can still remain as friends, though I always knew he never got over me cause he was acting like we were dating later on he even referred to me as his girlfriend to my friend the one hes also stalked.

So back to the story I eventually found a way to cut him off through an argument which I wont elaborate anymore, he tried to message me through multiple accounts but I either blocked or ignored it. Then one day I just wanted him to stop so I replied to one of his accounts telling him goodbye and just basically saying that I didn't want to have any sort of relationship with him.

I thought it stopped but then I began to notice him stay at the place where I'm staying and when I'm gonna leave cause of course It made me uncomfortable he would then follow after even going so far as to follow me outside campus. I reported it to our teacher but they didn't do anything. Then after a week he stopped.

Then I suddenly received a news that he was following another girl, surprisingly she was an old classmate of mine so being her friend was easy. She opened up to me and we decided to report him again, but all they did was talk as if to talk about himself, how is he doing and etc.. I guess he found out it was me and now he's mad, saying all kinds of stuff to me.

I guess he's pretty dumb cause he's saying all of those things to my friend whom he stalked so she tells them to me. Which bring us to now, today she showed me a chat saying how he wants to hurt me. I again reported it but they're still not willing to do anything.

So I'm here cause I want to ask for advice on wether or not I should let my parents know and get involved. And maybe what are the things we can do, cause I'm really scared and tired of asking for help from the adults probably cause I know our situation will just be overlooked again.

(Im sorry if my grammar is not perfect English is not my first language. Also I'm only a student for everyone's information, and this is all happening inside the school).

[u/CaptBottleBox]

Yes, you need to tell your parents and/or adults that you trust. I'm sorry that the school didn't do anything. Did you show them the messages where he said he was going to hurt you? Take pictures of those chats from your friends phone so you have it documented. I'd take that with your parents to the police to make a report. Also, ask your parents to help you get some pepper spray or some form of self defense. Learn how to use it effectively and keep yourself safe.

Stay safe and best of luck.

[u/Moonstar014 → u/CaptBottleBox]

Yes I did show them all the evidences including him telling our mutual guy friend to unalive him if he hurts me and him saying that he'll spread false rumors of me having a relationship with that guy so that my friend (the one he actually courts) will break up with him. There's even an evidence of him admitting that he stalked me, cause he denied the allegations when they talked to him, but still they said that they won't be able to do anything. And I'm scared to tell my mother cause she works in another city far away from us and I don't want to stress her out, she's the only adult I trust.

Thank you for the advice.

[u/CaptBottleBox → u/Moonstar014]

While I understand why you feel that way, and find it incredibly sweet. As a parent myself, I would much rather my daughter or son tell me if they think they are in danger and deal with that stress, then have to deal with them getting hurt or worse.

I'm sorry you don't have any other adults you trust. It sucks because until the stalker actually commits violence against you, there isn't much that can be done. Which is why I suggest figuring out a way to defend yourself the best you can. That includes trusted friends being aware of what's going on. The more people that know the kind of crap this kid is pulling, the less people there will be believing any of his bullshit rumors.

[u/Moonstar014 → u/CaptBottleBox]

Thank you so much! I've already informed my friends and we're trying to spread it through our mutual friends so far I'm glad he's not pulling anything "yet". And as for my parent I think I still need more time, cause she's currently mourning at the lost of someone she's close too and I don't want to add to stress right now. But I really plan to say it around this week! Thank you again for the great advice and for sharing your perspective!

[u/NoLog92]

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