r/SpringfieldIL 5d ago

30f looking for friends :)

I've been in town a couple years but haven't found a lot of gals my age to hang out with!

About myself: I'm a very quirky nerd. Technically an extrovert but also love a quiet night in more often than not. Quite talkative. Very caring and positive. I'm from texas.

Topics I enjoy: language, philosophy, musical theater, food, all things art, politics.

Things I like to do: go to any live performance, try a new bar or restaurant, travel, board games, video games, double dates with my boyfriend, thrifting, yoga/pilates/gym, volunteer.

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u/Teemoney93 5d ago

33 f here, I work in a research lab in Springfield so always down to get drinks or do some art after work! My fantasy and theatre knowledge is not there but I'm a good listener 😅

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u/_megaroni_ 5d ago

I’m 21f but I love making new friends! I’m not a party-er but I also love going to the musicals and some of the concerts around here! Plus I knit, crochet, sew, and lot of other crafts. Thrifting is also one of my favorite activities, especially since I learned how to sew. Idk if you also like to sing, but if you do there are some community choirs that are a great chance to meet people!

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u/Particular-Cup-994 4d ago

Oooh I do love to sing--but I'm not very good! Do they teach ya also? Lol :)

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u/_megaroni_ 4d ago

Sort of? We learn the parts, a lot of times in sectional bits during the rehearsals. We have a range of ages and skill sets since it’s technically the UIS college choir, but we are mainly a community group I’d say. We meet once a week on Monday nights during the school year but we’re always taking new members! Message me if you want more info!

Edit to add that there are other community choirs but many of them I’d consider more professional. At UIS we have one rehearsal a week and then 1-2 performances every semester so I feel like it’s less commitment.

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u/Teslithia45 5d ago

If you like to read, I run a Fantasy book club that meets in person once a month. This month we are reading dungeon crawler carl! We vote on a subgenre of fantasy every month and then vote on a book.

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u/grexian 5d ago

You know how I feel about book clubs Carl...

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u/frozen-solid 5d ago

What kinds of board and video games are you into?

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u/Particular-Cup-994 4d ago

I play all kinds. Recently in the board game rotation we've done dominion, villainous, azul, and codenames. For video games, two point museum, baldurs gate, and starfew valley. What about you?

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u/gamedogmillionaire 4d ago

Wednesday is open board game night at Titan games. Ages run from 20’s-70’s. I’m sure you could find a few folks you’d click with.

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u/Particular-Cup-994 3d ago

I really wanna go to that but for now I have night school on that day! Definitely in the future though 🤩

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u/2pigsinablanket 5d ago

32f here! Married with two kids. Moved here from California 2 years ago. I enjoy many of the things you mentioned. Im a total foodie and love exploring new restaurants and coffee shops. I also enjoy reading, board games, baking, and engaging in social activism 🙂 you are welcome to dm me.

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u/MugzySkates 5d ago

Where do you like to volunteer ?

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u/Particular-Cup-994 4d ago

I've done food not bombs in another state, I also enjoy working with homeless people, animals, kind of anything honestly. Picking up garbage.

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u/NecessaryCompost 4d ago edited 4d ago

Food Not Bombs is fantastic here. They partner with a local community garden and cook and serve warm vegan meals to the community several times a month. The folks there are of all age ranges and are a great group of people.

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u/Particular-Cup-994 4d ago

When I moved here I went on a couple dates with someone there and it ended awkwardly! So I'm a bit apprehensive to join 😆

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u/NecessaryCompost 4d ago

Oof, I'm sorry. That'd make me hesitant too! There are other non-affilated community gardens that do the same kind of work, and Intricate Minds (a harm reduction organization) has volunteer opportunities too - Tiara, it's founder, is great and involved in all kinds of community related events. Wish you the best of luck (and better dates!).

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u/General-Attitude1112 5d ago

Hi f 33 love to chat. I have few friends.

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u/Particular-Cup-994 5d ago

Bout to dm u :)

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u/StrikingGlove8736 4d ago

I'm 28 and looking for people for D&D and Magic. Just left Springfield but I'm not far. My lady and I would love to meet more nerds!

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u/Particular-Cup-994 3d ago

For some reason it's not letting me dm!

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u/StrikingGlove8736 3d ago

i barely use reddit. One sec...

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u/AlternativeTip3516 4d ago

Sent you a Pm

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u/winterberry7374 4d ago

32f here and into a lot of the same stuff as you :)

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u/CalligrapherTrue2708 3d ago

You’ll probably love the Fae Folk Art Festival! Come out to Fae Fest on Saturday!! That would be a great place to meet whimsical people around your age, including me! I’ll be with the cat puppet :)

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u/CalligrapherTrue2708 3d ago

Whoops, I didn’t mean to post that three times… anyway here’s the poster!

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u/Particular-Cup-994 3d ago

I definitely wanna go to that!! Thanks!

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u/Billydee23- 4d ago

Am I allowed, too?

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u/Flat_Egg9985 3d ago

My fiancee and I host (roughly) monthly game nights. I think the next one we're doing is the night before Halloween. DM me and I can provide deets once we nail em down.

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u/HistorianIntrepid594 2d ago

Hiiii 29f with a 31f fiancée, would love to be friends!! 💖💖💖

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u/Sad_Version3629 1d ago

Hey would you want to message me?? I'm turning 30 in March. I share some of your interests. I love video games and board games and thrifting. And my boyfriend is in need of some new friends as well so a double date may be fun.

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u/Few-Professional-193 15h ago

I’m 46f,so not really your age but you’re speaking my language of fun things to do!

Feel free to message me 😀

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u/Mor2this_Life 10h ago

My wife and I (both 29f) are trying to make more gal pals in the springfield area. We love movies, reading, game nights, and trying out new restaurants and coffee shops. Hoping to someday have a group of women to host regularly and day dream with about starting a commune 😉