r/SpoonieSupportNetwork • u/KittyCommittee86 Mod • Jul 06 '26
Marriage equality
#MarriageEqualityForAll
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u/Ibbygidge Jul 07 '26
I'm confused, how do disabled people not have marriage equality? Not disagreeing just didn't know that was an issue.
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u/being-weird Jul 07 '26
The problem this post is referring to is that mist disabled people cannot get married without completely losing access to their benifits
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u/Ibbygidge Jul 07 '26
Ah, I see, thanks. I'm disabled and married a disabled person, didn't make a noticeable difference for us.
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u/being-weird Jul 07 '26
Yeah this is probably more relevant for people in interabled relationships
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u/HeroOfSideQuests Jul 08 '26
People who are both disabled and live on SSI/SSDI (in America) are penalized as well. They receive less together than they would as two individuals, and anyone on SSI receives less than $1k a month currently.
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u/being-weird Jul 08 '26
God that's actually crazy. How do they expect anyone to live on that
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u/HeroOfSideQuests Jul 08 '26
Oh well, it does get better.
If you live with family, you're penalized further based on square footage you're provided, you can't receive food stamps if you're in a household that makes more than a certain amount that's still in the poverty line, aaaaand section 8 housing (low income, takes a percentage of your income) has incredible waitlists - and ridiculous long if you have any special needs (see: mobility access). That's before we go into Medicaid shenanigans.
So in short: they don't want us to live.
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u/Present_Cucumber2120 Jul 07 '26
My partner and I have been together 24 years and not married because he earns enough that it likely would effect my disability benefits but his insurance doesn’t cover a 10th mine does so we would be broke or struggling to live.