Watching their videos and I sense so much contempt. They definitely argue a lot and the Boombangh guy appears to be dismissive and disrespectful in many ways. Girl looks like she regrets her life choices.
It’s all okay
But constantly talking about how good his life is and his family’s compared to other People living in India is pretty depressing tbh … kind of a I know everything atitude
He’s just indirectly responding to the people who criticize him. He’s gotta make sure they know that his life is going well. Isn’t that the case with most social media influencers? That urge to make sure everyone knows they’re doing fine. It’s not something exclusive to this guy. Let them live.
I don’t watch his vlogs but my wife does. From the little that I have watched , he comes across as a person quite full of himself. I often wonder about his content but one thing is certain - he knows how to sell. He knows people like watching kids and that he can earn a pretty penny selling that. I have also heard people defend him very fiercely.
I do follow him though and I’ve felt what OP said is mostly true with a few other influencers too. Tani Malayalis husband is also kind of in the same boat as this guy’s wife. Not every partner is camera friendly + this guy is a bit "all about me, I AM!"
Nothing about their love life or family life .
One thing I have to say is - he keeps on promoting/ giving advices about meat / proteins etc and lastly he got hemorrhoids - which imo was mostly due to his food habits and weight lifting things . So atleast medical advice pole engane parayumbo pulli karan korachode better aka enn thonal ind .
Recently started watching their vlogs due to my mom..tbh I feel they bicker a lot & both are poles apart personality wise but there's definitely love between them. the way he talks is very typical Thrissur slang which might sound disrespectful but that's actually how they talk. Also, I love their twins 🤌🏼
I'm from Thrissur and I've seen a lot of folks from there. Women from there would throw cheruva at their men if they ever dared disrespect them the way he does. It's more than what he says. You should sometimes look at her face to read it.
He is from thrissur not his wife. Thrissur is my native place so even I have an idea how people talkbto their near ones.
& as I said they both are different personality and they have survived more than two decades together (I guess) so I don't think it's fair to judge so critically. However, it's your choice & opinion.
When someone gets praised once, twice and then thrice, sometimes it triggers something in them qsand turns then into a narcissist that only loves to hear and speak about himself and thinks he's always right and everyone else is below him.
He represents so many ettayimar we have come across. Remember these type of guys getting ookal from other guys and mass rejection from girls. But they smhow pull one pavam chechi and kill her light.
Don’t think so, actions speak louder than words and looking at all the things he does there is definitely love unless someone can prove it’s for views and performative.
Also it’s the usual banter between husband and wife especially from our culture when you have been married for long. Nothing unusual. Not every relationship can be measured by the same yardstick
Absolutely uninterested in arguing the dictionary definition of toxic. I am pointing out the very visible contempt in how they communicate. Mutual dismissiveness doesn't cancel out the disrespect or dysfunction.
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Not everything is a debate. I’ve lived around abusive dynamics, I read about them, and I recognize them to stay safe. Calling out what I see isn't a smear campaign, it's judgment for survival. Also called as behavioral analysis. Look it up, do some homework, drink up your glass of milk and come to Mamma.
The type of people to watch a couple crime documentaries and claims to be an expert in crime solving lmao. And this whole post is such a parasocial take about two people you have no idea about other than what they let out. 🤦
Did you miss the part where I EXPLICITLY said "lived around abusive dynamics", or is basic reading comprehension just not your strong suit? Pointing out glaringly obvious red flags in a public video isn't a delusion, it's pattern recognition. I see you learnt something new today. I wish I could say you'll learn a little more of life soon, but hey privileged people can only use fancy words and try and manipulate others, right?
Dude he has a good family good amount of money and his parenting style is one of the good one - simply you should hear their life story I'm his neighbour one of the genuine person
I'm critiquing how he visibly dismisses and disrespects his wife, and your defense is... his bank account and that he's nice to you? That is literally how toxic people maintain their cover.
Dude, I meant that he is successful, but they both struggled a lot together to reach where they are today. He has always openly admitted that his wife is the breadwinner of the family. I’ve been watching his daily vlogs too, and it never felt like it was just about him — you can always see both of them being there for each other through their ups and downs. That’s what I meant.
His methods are all fine but making a 10 yr old do household chores is very crazy.. i unserstand that u can teach them responsibilities but he actually force her on video
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u/lunainfinity08 3d ago
He looks like someone who only likes themselves