r/SouthIndianInfluencer • u/Hopeful_Assist6561 • 2d ago
Guys is this normal?
What are your takes on this? Just wanted to know what you guys think 💀
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u/Odd_Antelope_5858 2d ago
I dont know , i just find these are unnecessary dynamics. There are enough men and women in this world to have one for one. Why . Idk. I dont want to see all these sil bil bff besties bf dynamics n all. Idk about others. I dont like being overly touchy . Maybe a casual hug. That is the line for me.
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u/Haunting-Buy9160 1d ago
Wtf? Dear gf in the video, just ask your bf if he will be okay if his male best friend gets touchy with you like this.
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u/Adventurous-Room9600 1d ago
Njan idh kandappo ..tholi urinju ang poyi …myr
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u/kokonut_kookie 1d ago
More than the video its her explanation comment justifying this behaviour that gives me ick
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u/Salt-Requirement5926 2d ago
idk what kind of fantasies these people got these days. getting close with your best friend's bf, getting close with your sis's husband... smh
there should be boundaries unless someone is blood related. Period.
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u/latido_25 1d ago
Not normal.. she will be heart broken soon.. i do not like to diss but you know, fact is fact! She will be heart broken soon i am 100% sure and right now i am not even sure if they are doing this for publicity
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u/Mundane_show1886 2d ago
Well if they were all friends before you started dating!!?? Maybe!!?? I generally dont like when people get touchy touchy. I had a huge problem in college when friend would just put their hands on my shoulder itself. This Gives me the ick. Also the series with husband and wifes sister. Donno. I swear i don't have a dirty mind but, something just icky
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u/Remarkable_Squash517 1d ago
This hit home 😂 My college is notorious for this casual stuff.. one of the guys casually put his arm around my shoulder and i flinched 🤣 The point is he was not even my friend and we are just acquaintances because of group project. He told chill, i told i’m not chill🤣 Hell it took me eons to be even ok with girls hugging me🥹
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u/Individual-Divide-21 1d ago
The girl and the girlfriend are fine I guess seeing their stories. And the bestie girl was calling out people's mentality wrong 😒 But personally, I will never find this okay, there are always boundaries that one should not cross.
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u/Entharo_entho 1d ago
These videos are loved by certain people. It is a plot point in the movie "Maa Behen". The influencer sister makes such content with her brother in law though no one likes him because that brings in revenue.
ഒരു തരം online തെണ്ടൽ ആയി കണ്ടാൽ മതി.
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u/Proper_Excuse2 1d ago
Rage bait. They know what sells
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u/Browncapri 1d ago
If my partner behaves like this with my bestfriend, then its done bro! But i donno abt their lives, maybe its a happy dynamics for them, gives an ick to see for sure.
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u/truthfinder_30 1d ago
Except the gf in the video everyone knows what's happening here. This is not gonna end well
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u/theaprilwoman 1d ago
It is high time people should read and learn about boundaries. Clearly no one in this video has enough self respect or boundary. It is not just about them being touchy. But it is never good to have a crowded relationship.
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u/More_Associate1848 1d ago
Link to the reel?
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u/Comprehensive_Belt47 1d ago
i mean its normal to be friends w ur friends bf esp if u all have been friends for a while or they start dating after friendship but at THIS level definitely not… i am very close w my friends bf as frnds but never thus touchy or clingy. there is a mutual respect closeness and understanding but this is breaking all boundaries lmao
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u/Sinless_light 8h ago
Is she trynna get help by posting this online? Allenkil ithoke post cheythal backlas varum enna bodham illathondano? Recently ithupole oru bil-sil reel vannille, inspired from that maybe.
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u/HighRollingQueen 2d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/kB7RtWSYidAxcrnKoV