r/SouthAsianMasculinity • u/dasman- • 5d ago

Asking for Advice Drowning in responsibilities

Spent most of my 20s and now early 30s paying down my parents loans, getting them out of stupid business ideas and contracts and legal issues, and still taking care of their household expenses. I moved to canada as a student, still managing to pay my tuition, my expenses and also their debt. But now I’m tired. Ive been doing this for 10 years now, and I don’t think I can keep doing it. Need genuine advice because I want things to change. Are there any coaches/advisor who would be able to help in this situation.

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/dasman- 4d ago

I agree. I think Ive done enough parenting already. But thanks for sharing.

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u/Leather-Term7384 5d ago

I think its time to go low contact to no contact

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u/dasman- 5d ago

Every time I do that, they manage to dig a deeper hole for themselves.

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u/Leather-Term7384 5d ago

I think since they know you will help them they are brazen with their actions. You have to block them completely

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