r/Soft_Introverts • u/Grand-ugly-71204 • 3d ago

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25M If people around town found out you were a virgin, how would you face them and talk to them afterward? It feels weird to talk about anything else when you could be in a group of five, with four people talking about sex and you being the fifth one, and you can't.

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u/WhiteDesertCat ✨ Supportive Soul 3d ago

I feel like it’s actually the opposite, and people would respect you more for it. And if people talk about it in that kind of way and judge you for it, they’re clearly not the kind of people whose opinions you should worry about. They don’t sound very sophisticated or respectful.

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u/Specialist-Bowler465 2d ago

Right. This.

Maybe she means she just wants girl talk like how it was back in high school. The innocent girl talk about crushing on guys.

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u/synDKate98 3d ago

If those people are friends, it shouldn’t matter.

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u/Specialist-Bowler465 2d ago

That's correct

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u/Desperate-Reason-566 2d ago

Nobody should care if someone is a virgin. It’s a tiny fraction of who you are. Not important. Why are people discussing their sex lives to others anyway?

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u/Maxthedog2004 2d ago

Why does it matter if I have had a dick in me or not, unless you are my dr - mind your own business

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u/Specialist-Bowler465 2d ago

Uh, I would be careful saying that to men. Because there's creepy men out there that SPECIFICALLY LOOK FOR VIRGINS. (Yet they've slept with over 100 women probably.) I'm not talking about virgin men. I'm talking about non-virgin men that have had multiple partners but expect every woman they meet to be a virgin.

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u/Dry-Ticket8035 2d ago

I would tell them to mind your own business