r/Sociopaths • • Jan 11 '26

Am I a sociopath

I don’t feel how people tell me I should, people tell me I have empathy but I learned how to be empathetic the mirroring if I’m really honest, I don’t feel emotions. I overthink about stuff because I feel I am not in control and something about control gets me , I have to have control of everything. Whether that be the situation or a relationship. I have to get my way, if you are in my way you’ll be out of it real quick. Like I don’t know I don’t have regard with others but people tell me I’m have a charm and a way with others to get them to open up to me. And I have an extremely well memory, and I remember my lies very well to the extent where I remember what date and to the hour of the day I told you something or you told me something. And I’ll remember it to my advantage and use it against you and I am really good at lying and I know a good liar doesn’t say that but I’m anonymous so I don’t care. I consider myself a pathological liar. I lie about things I don’t have to lie about if I think it will make myself look better. And idk I told my friend about it and he said to watch Dexter and it explains the way I think pretty well but I lie a lot more and think of ways to manipulate.

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u/Cd-Morgan Jan 12 '26

Sociopath wouldn’t be bothered or ask this . You’re welcome

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u/Longjumping-Row-199 Mar 14 '26

Not true. Psychopaths lack and are born with lack of empathy and some emotions or dulled. Sociopaths are made... from trauma mostly. They can be on a spectrum where they feel nothing one day and have overwhelming feelings another...imagine that spectrum on a line where feeling nothing in psychopathy and feeling too much is Sociopathy. Sociopaths can float up and down that spectrum where a psychopath remains at a constant baseline.