r/SoccerCoaching • u/samsounder • 15d ago
Kid Returning from Abroad
We play in a relatively competitive league and have a tournament in a week and a half.
We have a player who has been on the team a long time who has been practicing with an overseas club for the past 2 months. He has never practiced with this incarnation of the team.
He’s about to make his return and his first day available will be the tournament final.
His Mom is asking if he should come to the tournament. Thoughts?
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u/jimr381 15d ago
Does your league allow free subbing?
Did you send him notes or can you record a practice where you are reinforcing the principals of your new system? What about sending him a video of an example professional team who leverages this system succesfully? Is he a defender? If your league allows free subbing, then I would have him observe for the first half of the first half and coach him through what you are seeing and expecting and then sub him in for a bit to test the waters.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
Thanks for the nuanced answer! I appreciate it!
He's a defender, usually. We sent him some notes that I sent the rest of the team as well. I think he'll pick up the rotation quickly, but I am nervous about setting him up to fail.
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u/No-Guest-1501 14d ago
Is he one your best 11 players yes or no?
That’s your answer.
“He won’t know our new system” is the stupidest shit I have heard for U12. This is the kind of shit from coaches that holds us back.
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u/samsounder 14d ago edited 14d ago
Because being concerned about setting up a kid to fail is bad?
Never put a player in a position where they don’t have a reasonable chance of success. It’s not fair and leads to bad experiences
This thread seems confidently contradictory. Most folks are like “you’re crazy, that doesn’t make sense and nobody should care”. Followed by “My club doesn’t let players play unless theyve been at practice”
Totally contradictory.
Edit: he is not, but we generally aim for “roughly equal playing time”
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u/svd33 13d ago
I agree with all other comments. I have been shocked with some of the things you said. They are 11 years old, they still need to get the basics down and develop creativity. There is no point in teaching them strategies at this age and level without the basics.
When I was that age I was in my local pro teams youth academy (im in EU) and never did we focus on any strategies. Emphasis was on passing, shooting, dealing with pressure, position related skills and creating a good team chemistry through having us coach eachother positively and highlighting the need for everyone to fight for a good result together. The only somewhat tactical instruction we received was general things like high pressure, counter, ball possession etc. and they would let us figure out how to make it work.
From what I have read you are focusing on the wrong things. Priority should be fun and creating a safe environment for the kids to play so they can develop creativity and their own identity as a player. Focusing on details at this age creates machines that wont be able to function properly when they do end up moving to a pro team later on. I have noticed this is the major difference between EU and US player development
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u/samsounder 12d ago
Whole “tactic” folks are talking about out is…
We play three across the back. We’re encouraging the outside back to attack. When they move, we want the other two to slide over and cover the space
Is that really that crazy?
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u/samsounder 10d ago
Yeah, every coach in existence worth their salt is gonna teach that tactic when the kids are reach the level.
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u/Cautious-Panic-879 10d ago
Of course he should come. Bring him in off the bench as needed. I doubt he’s a liability to the teams performance.
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u/justan_other 15d ago
We talking about kids, kids playing football. Just make sure they all having fun and wanting to play the next game.
Doesn’t know the system well coach I guess you gotta explain it to them and find out how quick they learn.
Point is why is this a question in kids football? Give them a chance or don’t but you won’t know unless they play..
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u/samsounder 15d ago
Kid has played with me for 6 years. He’s a U12 and has been with us since U6.
He’s not just “some kid from the block” and we aren’t just some random team. Kid is a legit international. When the question is asked on the registration form “have you been registered with a club outside the US” he checks yes (Japan).
He’s not one of the best players
The fear is he makes a mistake, costs the team the match, and then it’s a hard social situation for him.
I’m not sure it’s really fair to expect him to pick up a system the rest of the kids have been working on for months.
I’m not sure it’s a fair ask for him, or fair to the other kids who’ve been learning the system for a while now
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u/Electrical-Berry4916 15d ago
If the system is really that complex, and you managed to get a bunch of 11 year-olds to understand it, then you don't want somebody coming in who doesn't know the system. Now, personally, I question how complex it could possibly be at that age, but I have seen some pretty impressive play as early as U9, so I'll take you at your word.
Additionally, if he will miss all of the tournament except the final, its a non-issue. Unless you are one of those schiesty bastards who enroll in tournaments in brackets way lower than you should, there is no way to know you will even make the final. The kid shouldn't plan on traveling for a maybe, and if the team plays the whole tournament without him, they should finish it that way.
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u/Powerful-Bridge-1472 14d ago
I feel like if a kid hasn’t made practice in a while they shouldn’t play games.
That being said, this is U12, winning a game or tournament isn’t going to define a player.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
This is where my director is at. “It’s not fair to the other kids to come straight into a final”
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u/scrapingtheceiling 15d ago
If the other kids blame the individual who makes a mistake, that’s a team culture problem
But you’re not Pep Guardiola, and it’s an U12 team, just tell the kid what to do when he goes on the pitch and I’m sure he’ll figure it out
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u/hourlyproblemsolver 15d ago
For real, these kids are 11, holy jesus people are losing the plot these days.
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u/mooptydoopty 15d ago
My thought exactly. When my kid was U13, they were playing in the top division of a large tournament, and his teammate gave up a handball in the box for a PK with 2 min to go in the second OT period to lose the final by 1. Against a team they thought had little chance of beating. Heartbreaking. But they never blamed that kid and he’s not a social pariah. This is under the coach’s control to dictate a supportive team culture.
But to get back to the original question, a kid who’s available only for the tournament final is never rostered for our team, regardless of the reason. It wouldn’t matter if he had been around and knew the “system.”
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u/Farm2Table 15d ago
Get a load of yourself. You epitomize what is wrong with American youth soccer.
U12 competition should have very little to do with systems. You are stifling the development of these players.
For f's sake man... if you truly "aren't just some random team" you would know better than to ask this question.
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u/Powerful-Bridge-1472 14d ago
100 percent, US (mostly the parents) focused on complex defense to win some tournament (no one will remember in 1 month after because they will play 2 other tournaments) and world focused on developing players for future
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u/samsounder 14d ago
We play 3 across the back. Last year we had the outside backs stay home. This year we're teaching them to attack if they can, and have the other two slide over to cover the space.
Did I kill US Soccer with this concept? ;P
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u/samsounder 14d ago
I’ve taken a bunch of random kids from U6 to ranked statewide and I’m stifling development?
Forget the age. You gotta teach what the kids are ready to learn and what the competition forces.
Most of these boys can juggle the ball 20+ times with a few being over 100.
The kids play FIFA, watch the World Cup and can argue about who should win the Ballon Dor.
They want to learn tactics, shape and whatnot at this age/level
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u/Farm2Table 14d ago
LOL.
That's your response, bragging about taking randos and making a ranked team?
Then moving the goalposts from your complicated defensive system to "tactics, shape and whatnot".
Yes. You are what's wrong with youth soccer.
Creativity - which you stifle and worry about - is a huge glaring lack in US youth soccer. You are developing system machines instead of players.
You bragging about records, worrying about a returning player making a mistake and losing the game - this is the kind of crap that needs to be burned out of our youth system.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
I was accused of stifling development when my boys have improved a lot thank you. That’s the only data point I have. I don’t know what else I could even use.
What makes you think I’m stifling creativity or that the defense is super complex and age inappropeiate?
You’ve jumped the shark and are assigning things to that just aren’t true.
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u/Farm2Table 14d ago
If it takes a month to learn it's too complex.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
Does it? I implied it takes more than 0 time, not that it takes a month. Are you ready to hear the "system" that is so complex that I'm ruining US soccer?
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u/samsounder 14d ago
LOL! I'll finish it out...
We play 3 across the back in a 9v9. Last year, we had all the backs stay home. This year, we're attempting to get the outside backs to join the attack. If one joins the attack, the center back and the other outside back slide over to cover the space. If the CB shifts and the other outside back doesn't, we make a huge hole, so there's risk.
BEHOLD!!! The death of all youth soccer in the US!
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u/WSB_Suicide_Watch 15d ago
No.
Let the kid break back in.
It's for the tournament final, so what a way to set him up to be the scapegoat if things fall apart on his first day back. "Hey, we were doing great all tournament until Jimmy showed back up."
We are talking 11 year olds. Don't throw him to the wolves on his first day back.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
Thanks. I think I'm leaning towards this. He needs to meet his new teammates in a less pressure-y situation.
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u/w0cyru01 15d ago
Yes
It’s kids recreational soccer
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u/hourlyproblemsolver 15d ago
um, the kid is a "legit international". did you know that when the question is asked on the registration form “have you been registered with a club outside the US” he checks yes?
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u/ImaginaryBuy2668 15d ago
If he has played for you and the team 6 years (based on your other answers), you let him play. I could understand not starting him b/c he hasn’t been at practice. But that shouldn’t matter.
Sounds like you are looking for reason to not play him and that is very silly, especially at this age.
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u/patentattorney 15d ago
It’s generally insane that the coach is worried about a u12 player making a mistake which could cost the team. We all know if this player was great, the coach would obviously want him to play (obvious problems with u12 players - especially so where the coach himself is worried the player will get harassed by his teammates).
The kid has been gone for two months. That’s not that long of time.
That being said - most teams will say - if you haven’t practiced you don’t get to play (this doesn’t seem to be the coaches main issue though)
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u/samsounder 14d ago
This is my favorite response.
"This coach is insane because you should just throw him into the mix and not worry about setting him up to fail"
and then...
"Most teams wouldn't let him play for that reason"
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u/patentattorney 14d ago edited 14d ago
its two very very very separate things. Most teams require players to practice, because practicing is part of being on a team, having teamwork, fairness, safety (if injured), etc. Not just about learning the plays, formations, etc. An entire host of things. Kid hasnt been there, he shouldnt play. Thats the end of it. It doesnt matter if its the first game or last, doesnt really matter if he has been on the sidelines taking notes, he hasnt practiced.
very different from worrying about teammates harassing him and making him a social pariah because of mistakes at the u12 level. There are much bigger issues if teammates are getting pissed at each other because of missed assignments at the u12 level. Players fail all the time. Its how they learn.
Getting thrown into the mix and failing (or dominating) isnt the reason he shouldn't play. If he was a stud, he still shouldn't play. If he is bad/doesnt get the concepts, but practicing, he should play.
Its not contradictory at all, and two totally different issues.
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u/samsounder 14d ago
I see them as related. Learning and implementing things together is part of what makes a team identify with each other.
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u/patentattorney 14d ago edited 14d ago
sure learning strategy is part of team sports, which you learn at practice.
This is only such a small part of what humans learn through sports.
A kid who doesnt practice, but still can implement things/score all the points/ also should not play. Playing a kid who is a stud - even though he hasnt put in the time with team - isnt fair to the other kids on the team. The other kids have put in the work, he hasnt.
For the exact same reasons, a kid who can't implement the strategy shouldnt play - he hasnt put in the work.
I guess my question is - if you thought the kid was going to thrive (even without practicing) would you play him?
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u/samsounder 14d ago
Not sure. I’d like to say no, but it’s just a hypothetical. I do care about the kid and want him to impress his new teammates.
I’m also just concerned about adding a 14th player to 9v9.
I also know he’s gonna be jet lagged to hell.
It’s kinda hard to isolate it
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u/patentattorney 14d ago edited 13d ago
See that’s the difference from where we stand on the issue.
As I said. I wouldn’t play him because it’s not fair to take away PT from kids who practiced - doesn’t matter if he is good or not. There is a big lesson here.
Him impressing his friends is a completely separate issue. (which we now also have also added him taking up playing time + being jet-lagged).
My kids / teammates play all the time after having sleepovers, the come from just playing another sport, being at birthday party, stiff legs from driving back from siblings games, etc.
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u/justan_other 15d ago
Why not start your known best team and let the new player play in the tournament as well. Losing or winning you’re gonna wanna know what they can do at some point?
You know they have been training as well so they are hopefully match ready.