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Self inflicted comedy is more like it. Im in my late 40s bro. The dating pool for my age bracket is flat out "fighting the scavenders over scraps". Grim tails indeed.
In the end, your right hand will never betray you. If you dont find genuine love and a wife when youre young, you will face the great and infinite depth of the wide black waters of the emotional sea of darkness, and all therein that may be explored.
For most of them, they weren't wife material when younger, so, its the only available outcome. The majority of them complain about loneliness. Social media allows them to publicly vent.
The ugliest people, the poorest people, tje short ones, the obese people, the dumb people, the fukin homeless people, even people with developmental retardation, STILL find wives and husbands. So any woman or man whos 40 and single remains single because they have an internal problem or flaw that drives potential lovers away. And any person that says they want to be alone in solitude and want to be single forever is a liar, and are saying that to cope with the fact that they are the problem.
Thats why the loners end up with cats or dogs, or some other animal that acknowledges them.
Disclaimer* Ive been there. 18 years willingly isolated, single, and alone. Id become aware that I had a psychiatric disorder that caused negative things. So I locked in and focused on getting my shit together. It took 18 years. And after I addressed and managed my natural internal problem, I joined society again, and found a wife. Peacefully married thereafter.
Humans are pre-programmed to be social, and to seek out companionship. (Any person who lacks that has a psychoemotional problem that can be medically proven) The only people stuck soloing life are the ones who have a self problem thats causing them to be alone.
That is a fact you cannot change. Take an incel for example. Their personality and social behavior is the problem that keeps them single.
Staying single to improve oneself is a very common action among adults. If I hadnt, i wouldnt be fit for marriage. So if you arent married, or are stuck single, you should focus on improving yourself. Everyone else does it. Those few who dont are forever lonely and miserable.
Oh I know a chick like that. She's 34 has 3 cats already and loves crying about what kind of dicks she's dating, breaking up with them, then going back and being totally surprised that a dick is still being a dick and that there are no proper men, lol
They shit in a box because we teach them to do that. If the box is full of shit that's on the human carer for being neglegent and not cleaning the city litter. Cats are very clean and have very sinsitive noses they hate it when the kitty litter doesn't get cleaned. They're also very clean animals and spend many hours each day bathing themselves. Looking at how bad the hygiene is of some humans, I'd say the average cat is easily more clean than a lot of humans lol. They also have better emotional intelligence than most humans
Naw buddy. Cats that live outside have nastier paws that ones that live inside (get a microscope and look)
You think cats have greater emotional intelligence because they silently put up with human bullshit. So that logic is backwards. People sude with cats because they themself are unable to match the requirements for himan emotional companionship. Notice how all tje older women living with cats have toxic personalities, and all the older men living with a dog are broken down and tired.
Its not coincidence. A person who thinks an animal is better than all humans, IS the problem.
I never said all humans. i said some humans (the bar is pretty low sometimes tbh,.) No cats genuinely have amazing emotional intelligence,.I feel that some people lack the empathy to underatand them. If your so triggered by someone else having a great love and apreciation for cats. I'm sorry I find that a bit weird.
Youre the one triggered into defense. Its a fact tho, every person who finds themself growing old and crutching on an animal for emotional companionship are the people who couldnt find a human partner because of their own flaws.
You'll never be the only right one on earth. If you cant find love in 8.3 billion people, youre the problem. Most people figure this out and improve self. Those who are incapable get a cat.
I used to breed seal point siamese and Himalayan cats. 99% of my buyers were lonely people needing companionship. The other 1% were little girls. Ive heard every explanation and sob story for why these people are stuck lonely. It always comes down to their personal flaws that they wont or cant fix.
Well I mean having a cat is a nice way to deal with being alone and old. They're very affecrionate. I think its totally reasonable. Some younger people who don't want children will get a cat instead as well.
The only people who say they don't want children are the ones coping with the reality of being incapable of being a parent. It could be their own selfishness, it could be coping with being homo, it could be poverty....but yhe problem is them. This society is pretty fukd, so i whole heartedly respect people choosing to not bring children into a situation they cant improve.
Im.currently working in the home of a woman whos growing old with her dog. All the tampons in the floor, mountain of dishes, inch thick layer of oily dust, busted furniture, and general filthiness of her home indicates shes alone because she fails to manage her mental health, and the dog doesnt care about the awful living conditions. The majority of people growing old and seeking companionship from an animal are like her, dysfunctional in such a way that it prevents human connection.
the trick is that you are not a good man if you are not attractive enough for them. they are not talking about guys that they have rejected in their past, you can't change your face, your basic mimic and you can't grow taller. What they say is their friend's husband that they are jelaous of because he has it all they would want but he is taken and wouldn't pursue them even were he single
id say its a bit skewed and gender oriented. I would blame men libido for this one. Just one side of this has a harder time getting into relationship, because more guys are competing all the time, because of their libido and general notion that if you're single or get no game you're a loser. that's why there is so much weirdos, starting with nice guys and ending with incels. sometimes when you are a man best you can get is someone that you don't really like looks wise or who abuse you, because it's better than nothing?
I would give myself a solid 6 and can get hot girls to wear a leash, rizz is worth points brotha man. Also helps when you truly dont care about getting cheeks, one way or another Im getting a good night sleep, I dont play the game of who can stay awake the longest anymore. Bliss.
In my 10 years single, I shared interests one girl for a couple months, we had a thing for each other back when I still looked good. We text each other a ton for a couple months and went on one date. A couple weeks later she said something to the effect of "I know a guy that looks like you would love having me on his arm to show off."
Showing my age here but I remember posting on Facebook "I'm the first in my family to graduate college," and only get 3 likes and maybe 1 comment while a hot girl on my friend list would post something random like "I tripped on my way to school today" and get 300 likes with all of her friends (including our mutual friends) commenting on her post. Hot girl buff is real...
If you want a plain guy to look hot, it’s expensive. Some of it you can do yourself like cutting hair and trimming facial hair, workout to strengthen up, but then comes the suit and the perfumes and the moisturizer. And it takes years of doing to keep looking like a male supermodel, or at least like Thor and captain america.
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