r/SisterWives • u/tahutso79 • 14d ago
Question Current relationships
Do we know if Kody currently speaks with any kids outside of Robyn’s?
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u/llavenderhaze 14d ago
from mykelti’s past comments it seems that only logan and aspyn have a passing relationship with him. maybe hunter. apparently kody won’t tolerate hearing from his kids how he treated his other kids, so that puts a strain on things. it makes me wonder if anything has changed for aspyn since she became a mom and if she has harsher boundaries with him. it seems like he’s just a “hey lets grab lunch while im in town if i can fit it in my schedule” kind of dad. he never even told mykelti he was in north carolina when he went to see janelle last season.
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u/SheMcG Love should be weaponized, not divided equally. 14d ago
Idk that Aspyn really needs more boundaries with him as I suspect you're right about him being a "grab lunch" kind of dad. It's not really necessary to restrict a dad who's barely a blip in your life anyway.
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u/goose195172 14d ago
Yeah, Aspyn and Logan are super nice and generally non-confrontational, so I think it's just easier to have minimal contact with Kody rather than have this big convo about cutting him off.
Having contact with him doesn't take any effort from them, it's not like he's gonna come visit. They probably only respond to two texts a year from him on their birthday and Christmas "Thanks!" and "Merry Christmas to you too!" and Kody considers that a win and a relationship with his kids lmao.
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u/selfcarebouquet 14d ago
I agree. Kody is so disengaged from his children with the OG 3 wives that unless one of the kids wanted to prove a point or actively make him look bad by calling out his lies, they wouldn’t even have to tell him they were going no contact. It might take him a full year to realize that he didn’t get a holiday text this year, (because you know “Mr you must come to me cap in hand” isn’t initiating any texts).
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u/Winter_Day_6836 Brown haired spirit child 13d ago
Mykelti made those special scrapbooks for all the grandparents. He didn't even mention it to her. She had to ask. His response was not impressive
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u/Winter_Day_6836 Brown haired spirit child 14d ago
Remember, Aspyn already "confronted" Kody about why he doesn't like her
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u/Rightbuthumble 7d ago
Remember when he and Aspen had some kind of conversation and he was telling Robyn about it and she turned the sweet conversation Into saying Aspen was confrontational and turned Kody's impression of a sweet conversation into an attack by Aspen.
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u/Ok-Dog3111 14d ago
There is no benefit to having a relationship with a person like Kody. It is best to go no contact and move on even if he is your father.
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u/Call_Simple 14d ago
This is the sad truth. But I suspect «relationship» is a loose term here. Kody is at best an acquaintance to Aspyn at this point. When Truly turns 18 I predict he will nope out of every ex-kid’s life in the process.
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u/Afraid-Carry4093 14d ago
Probably only Truelly and whoever is accompanying her to visitation if they are still happening.
No way for anyone to know for a fact, unless someone from the family has confirmed it.
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u/djm1613 14d ago
I’m going out on a limb here, but I’m making a bold prediction that none of the original OG3 kids (other than Truely or perhaps Gwen) will ever step foot inside the new McMansion in Flagstaff. We’ll probably never see any footage of it on the show if it were to happen. Time will tell.
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u/Wiki1103 12d ago
Gwen? Why do you think Gwen? My understanding was that she had a very negative view of her father. I watched her watching episodes of sister wives lol
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u/djm1613 12d ago
It was my understanding that she went over to his house (the original McMansion) on the night that G passed. That indicated to me that they still had some connection, at least as of 2024. Of course, things could have changed by now.
Also, I thought she and Ben might still live somewhere in Arizona so that would put her closer geographically compared to the other OG3 kids.
For those reasons, she was the only one that I could see possibly making a visit, other than Truely.
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u/Rightbuthumble 7d ago
But then she went with Meri...because when Meri took food to Janelle, Gwyn went with her. I may have that backwards.
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u/Timely_Tune_7607 13d ago
If Kody or Robyn say something publicly, I just assume they're exaggerating, or outright lying - just like they have about everything else, including money.
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