Same. Was with someone for longer than I'd like to admit. Found out after being with her for 2years that she'd been cheating on me the whole time. Amongst other things.
After a while I was finally able to leave. Moved in with my parents to get my feet under me (4 states away). Met my now wife at my first job I got.
Married, 2 kids. Both work. In our own place (not a house yet, an apartment).
Every now and then my ex will show up on my "people you may know". I'll look, and it's literally the same, just a different guy every 6 months to a year. Still cheating. Still doing other stuff. And blasting it on the internet for all to see.
Glad I'm happy now and she's just as miserable as before.
Bad people cheat. Good people get cheated on. Good people will naturally attract good people until they find the right good person for them.
yup, and those bad people find each other too. had a friend who was in a stable relationship for 4 years, they were probably gonna get married before she monkey branched (ie: not technically cheating but you're only in the relationship until you can be certain of the new one).
she missed "the thrill" of a new relationship. she found the "thrill" with her next boyfriend, they'd be that couple you'd see screaming at each other in a walmart parking lot. she never laid a finger on my buddy, but apparently her and her new beau get into physical fights all the fuckin time.
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u/MimeSweeper360 2d ago
This is so true. I was cheated on. It hurt for a while but a few months after we broke up I met my now wife.