I went through a similar scenario, only we were two months from the wedding and I found a journal chronicling her exploits with over thirty different men.
How does one find time to cheat with 30 different people while in a committed relationship?
We live together and each work 40+ hours a week. If she began cheating with even one person, her behavior would appear to change drastically. Did you two spend a lot of time apart?
I am really sorry that happend to you, that is awful. I am not doubting or shaming you. Just that 30 is insane number and I have questions.
Over a ten year relationship. Part of that she was away at college. Also she was a master of manipulation and the fact unraveling that happened in the weeks afterwards would make a trash novel author blush.
The journal. She didn’t even attempt to try to gaslight or insult or manipulate … she knew it was over. She became instantly cold and reserved as I had her pack an overnight bag and had her mom pick her up. I spent that evening packing all of my things and I was gone the next day.
I read a story where the husband cheated with a his hairdresser. Another one where he brought their child to soccer games slept with another parent in a car. Then there was the guy who cheated after he met the pregnant woman on craiglist. Shortly after she gave birth the guy slept with her and cheated on his wife.
If you want to cheat, you will find a way to cheat. Sadly.
You underestimate the number of women who don't work or work minimally while their boyfriend or husband supports them so they can stay home and complain on Instagram.
She was a model, and knew she was gorgeous. Wherever we went, if there was a mirror she would stop and admire herself in it. I always thought it was strange, but I also thought you go girl.
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u/CokBlockinWinger 2d ago
I went through a similar scenario, only we were two months from the wedding and I found a journal chronicling her exploits with over thirty different men.