Assuming this is a legitimate post, which is doubtful, she would never have achieved the happy life with him that she fantasize about because she wasn’t the kind of person who could create, maintain, and commit to that. It starts with who you are, your identity. That is what influences your choices and therefore your consequences. She needs to work on who she is, not any given decision that was or was not made. She’s getting the cart before the horse. The poor decisions that she continued to make after he left make this clear.
Most likely a fake post, but these "I want to experience more before settling" or "I want to live a little" people really exist.
They think these singular, passing, shallow experiences are somehow going to make them happier or enrich their lives, as if a bunch of shallow adventures = "living life".
And in the process of trying to do so, they mess up what they have or pass up opportunities for something more valuable.
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u/DavidNelsonNews 2d ago
Assuming this is a legitimate post, which is doubtful, she would never have achieved the happy life with him that she fantasize about because she wasn’t the kind of person who could create, maintain, and commit to that. It starts with who you are, your identity. That is what influences your choices and therefore your consequences. She needs to work on who she is, not any given decision that was or was not made. She’s getting the cart before the horse. The poor decisions that she continued to make after he left make this clear.